Hum Ladke Wale Hai.......

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Posted: 15 years ago
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When the big argument started today.....BA started yelling "hum ladke wale hai" we should have some respect and blah blah..............what I don't understand is does she not know that Manav's parents are also so called "ladke wale" that you are asking Archu's mom to disrespect them........I really didn't understand that concept. BA was expecting Archu's mom to give them respect because they are from the guy's side...while forgetting that Manav is also their son-in-law so how will they disrespect him and his family. If BA wants respect then Manav's parents also want respect from Archu's parents........That got me so mad. And so what that your from the the guys side.........it doesn't make you special....I hate these orthodox Indian customs........these unfair rules are what cause so many problems between in laws........Anyway I had to vent.............please give me your thoughts..........😕
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I wanted to give one tight slap to Bhavna for tht line she spoke...throw rotten tomatoes at her...😡😡
As per her own logic,Savita is also a boy's mother,Sulo is also Vinod's mother .SO,she had no right to claim she was a boy's mother when thr r so many of them around...whts so special abt her tht she wants VIP treatment...this lady truly deserves to b in jail for harassin the bride's family
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Posted: 15 years ago
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its always the bride's people have to bear the insults and whatever...
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: taral83

When the big argument started today.....BA started yelling "hum ladke wale hai" we should have some respect and blah blah..............what I don't understand is does she not know that Manav's parents are also so called "ladke wale" that you are asking Archu's mom to disrespect them........I really didn't understand that concept. BA was expecting Archu's mom to give them respect because they are from the guy's side...while forgetting that Manav is also their son-in-law so how will they disrespect him and his family. If BA wants respect then Manav's parents also want respect from Archu's parents........That got me so mad. And so what that your from the the guys side.........it doesn't make you special....I hate these orthodox Indian customs........these unfair rules are what cause so many problems between in laws........Anyway I had to vent.............please give me your thoughts..........😕

well said
i really have to agree
Ladke wale means wat? big shot!
its nt the matter of ladke wale or ladki wale
its the matter of right n Wrong.....or maybe good ppl n bad ppl......omg sounding like my name is khan 😛
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I hate this mentality . Big deal if you are a ldke wale . it is all up to God if he gives you a ladka or a ladki . Why gloat over something that is not even in your control ...What difference does it make if you have a son or a daughter .
There is nothing a daughter cannot do these days that a son can .
I felt like giving Bhavna 2 tight slaps when she said that .
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I totally agree with you. Bhavna's argument was old fashioned, it's not valid nowadays. This is not a matter of ladka/ladki, but truth/lie and right/wrong. As you say there were many ladke wale in that house. I don't understand why she feel like she's a queen or VIP, Satish should have spoken out and requested Manav and his family not to leave. But the good thing is that the Deshmukhs leaved Karanjkar's house with dignity, and so did Archana. I am proud of Archu right now, but the more disappointed with Manav's attitude.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Looks like BA was using the Ajit-Savita fiasco to her interest. If her demands were not met, she would walk out on engagement and there would be no engagement, something she wanted all along.

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Bhavna & co. are the current 'in demand' ladkewale..Manav &co. are short term, pretty useless ladkewale.. 😆
Yes it's a very sick mentality but quite prevailing even in today's so called modern households..
In PR, all MIL-DIL relations (Savita-Archu, Sulo-Manju, Bhavna-Varsha) are strained. Sad thing is Bhavna-Varsha don't even know each other well, they hardly had any face-to-face interactions and bhavna already has presumptions about Varsha..sadly it happens all the time even in real life 😭
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: indianfighter

I totally agree with you. Bhavna's argument was old fashioned, it's not valid nowadays. This is not a matter of ladka/ladki, but truth/lie and right/wrong. As you say there were many ladke wale in that house. I don't understand why she feel like she's a queen or VIP, Satish should have spoken out and requested Manav and his family not to leave. But the good thing is that the Deshmukhs leaved Karanjkar's house with dignity, and so did Archana. I am proud of Archu right now, but the more disappointed with Manav's attitude.

Unfortunaltely it is a sad reality even today.. and again Satish is Bahvna's only son... so she has big plans for his future..She agreed to Satish's choice not Satish has to agree the way she wants to have wedding.. as if she is making some sort of deal with him 👎🏼
I still feel Bhavna is lot better than Savita at this point...
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Sul Ai asked for forgiveness again today like she made a huge mistake(march 1st epi)..........how about asking Savita Ai for forgiveness also.........and to point out to BA....does she realize that Ajit is from the girl's side of the family for Sul Ai.......so he insulted Sul Ai family members.....and thus they have every right to kick him out because they are "ladke wale to them (RA and Ajit)"......i found that who scene disgusting.......it left a really bad taste in my mouth.........🤢

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