human fallacy....just my views....no offence

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Posted: 15 years ago
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there is a saying "kisiko utna hi dard do jitna ki tum khud seh sako". ridz crossed that very limit wen she took that poison. noone forced him to marry sid.
we know how sid is. he widout any hesitation can face any danger even for just a payal of ridz....that too at a time wen he was not even aware that he was in love with ridz.
but ridz's suicide attempt spoiled everything. Sid was so happy on the wedding day...he even tried his best to make the day special for ridz....but all went in vain. Ridz even was heartless to say that she wudnt hv accepted the ring if friends were not there.
even if ridz cannot love sid....she cud at least hv acknowledged his devotion and love. He was even ready to start married life with friendship and was ready to wait till she falls in love with him.
but no, for ridz....armaan is her world....her death wud bring shame on her parents....even that did not matter to her.
I really don't understand y she agreed to get married if she planned to die even before going to the mandap. After all this she had the guts to request sid to marry her for papa's sake. She took all advantage of sid's goodness.

nywy....as a girl I abhor wat sid is doing now....but as I said "kisiko utna hi dard do jitna ki tum khud seh sako". Revenge makes a person do things which we cant even think of doing to our enemies.
although as a girl I don't think sid can be forgiven so easily after the shoe event.....but I believe that ridz herself is responsible for today and that sid has turned so evil from being a devoted lover is entirely ridz's fault. Her apologies came too late….the damage was already done.

so, finally I can say if sid can be criticized for wat he is doing to ridz....then ridz must also not be forgiven for bringing sid to this state of evilness.

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Actually the both need each other:D

Ridz needed Sid before marriage to loose her obsessive immaturity

and Now sid needs same from ridz after marriage ;)
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Posted: 15 years ago
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hope watever is happenin in sid and ridhima's life continue and they both separate/divorce!!

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Posted: 15 years ago
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I think they're both absolutely nuts.
Rdhima brought this upon herself from day one.
Sid is just going off on rage.
I agree with you, but not completely.
What Sid is doing, is in no way right. I agree though, that it was Ridhima's fault, but that desn't give Sid the right to go and do this with her.
They've both lost their minds. And now they have to work it out to find them.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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here is awesome writing of poco regarding the current scenario

Sid is crossing his limits, yes. It is wrong, yes . It is unjustified, yes. It is unnatural... NO.

Sid is a good man , alright but he is not a saint. He is like you and me..... we hug when we are touched and we bite when we are stung. It is human nature to be the best in good times and battle your worst in bad times. It has been only three days since Sid married a woman who chose to end her life rather than be with him. The shock , the humiliation , the wounds are still fresh and Sid is still coming to terms with the reality and truth of this marriage. He has not told anyone about what happened - he cannot open his heart to anyone - he cannot even speak to anyone and the beautiful wife who wants to make amends is only a manifestation of fickle emotions and mistrust for him..... Sid has nothing and nobody to fall back on... Riddhima has touched him and stung him so much at the same time that Sid cannot separate himself from her - not even in his pain and anguish.....You stoop to your lowest in your worst.

When you look at Sid humiliate Riddhima in front of everyone by asking her to wipe her shoe.... you rewind to the times when Riddhima raised her hand on Sid, slapped him - when Riddhima got him arrested twice and beaten up by cops, when Riddhima gave in to her ego and did anything and everything to get Sid out of Sanjivani - all those times when she did not trust Sid's innocence and intentions , when she got him labeled a rapist in front of the whole world........strange , isn't it? If this wasn't fiction , you would call it the Circle of Karma.....Riddhima crossed her limits when Sid was genuine and innocent.... today, Sid is crossing his limits when Riddhima is genuine and innocent.

And no. Sid's character is not ruined. He is like any other normal human-being in an extraordinary situation - we all are good , we all are bad and we all border in the ugly in the given situation. Tomorrow , he will melt and wrap Riddhima again in his brand of sunshine blankets....and all this bitterness will dissolve. Riddhima will snuggle up to her returned angel again.

Sid has bound himself to Riddhima and vice versa in a strange painful bond - they boomerang into each-other. So, a hurt and humiliated Sid is not going to keep distance and cry in a corner... he is going to pull her into the fire. Feel bad . Feel humiliated.Feel what i feel. There is no other way i can handle this... i cannot forgive you , i cannot distance you. Stay with me - in the good , in the bad and we shall rise above the ugly...

Siddhant and Riddhimna are not a classic romance or a fairytale. They are a wounded saga of soulmates borne out of pain , hatred , emotional abuse, bruised hearts and vices .... weaving their weeping willow fairytale. They are not a love story. They are a life story and am sure even the creatives don't know that , or do they know?


Before you judge anyone - in fact , in fiction , in life.... always remember just one thing .... we are only HUMAN and we all wear our own pair of shoes.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: luvarti



Sid has bound himself to Riddhima and vice versa in a strange painful bond - they boomerang into each-other. So, a hurt and humiliated Sid is not going to keep distance and cry in a corner... he is going to pull her into the fire. Feel bad . Feel humiliated.Feel what i feel. There is no other way i can handle this... i cannot forgive you , i cannot distance you. Stay with me - in the good , in the bad and we shall rise above the ugly...

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Beautifully written....yes, i agree.....u feel the pain and humiliation i felt wen u wounded me....and only then can we hold our hands and make our journey tog.
karma speaks.....even if u believe it or not.

Dmg or any other star one shows r basically lighthearted romantic tales….i doubt whether the CVs of dmg hv thot so deeply into the matter….but watever, if anyone is to blame for today's situation….then sid-ridz's human nature is to blame….there is a saying "to err is human….to forgive is divine"….unfortunately, sid is just human and therefore forgiveness will come with awareness and not before that….he will calm down once he will be aware that the honeymoon package was not sent by ridz.


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Posted: 15 years ago
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all said and done....i am eagerly waiting for our old sid to come back....sid who was loving, caring and forgiving is the one i hv adored.

this revenge mission of sid will do nothing except hurting himself more. after all, he cant honestly deny that he still loves ridz.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Well ..I m not following episodes.but ..if ridz tried to commit suicide ....that clearly..means that she was not ready ..for arriage ...and about the shame to her parents...then shanky and paddy should understnad her daughter ..she is not a 2 year old kid ....who can not take decision ..and about sid ..if he cared for ridz so much ..he should have said no for marrige ..and made shanky and paddy understand ..everything ..shaadi ka tamaasha ..bana diya ...!!!!!!!!!!

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