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I really want an answer to one question .
Does marraige make a person weak ? Is marraige the end of life ?
It seems to be so coz , both the girl [ Varsha] and her mother { Sulochana] shamed women today .
If Girls r worshipped as the image of Shakti {Devi] why not show that brilliance , That tej , in POSITIVE FURY ? Coz negative Fury is frowned down upon but Positive Fury is worshipped in Indian culture as it eradicates Evil .
Why the hell did creatives show Varsha the spitfire to be quiet ........was it to give dialogues to archu and redeem her ? This is how they destroy the credibility of the characters and the serial again and again .
The girl getting married herself getting up and BREAKING THE ENGAGEMENT and telling the BOy's mom TO GO was the correct answer to today's episode . It was of course , Not delivered .
Varsha didnt even want to marry Satish in the first place . And todays situation was such that even if she had been in love with Satish she shud have shown guts to kick his mom out and give him an ultimatum .
Why was Bhavna not asked the question by anyone that why the hell was she defending Ajit so much inspite of knowing that Ajit had wronged the Karanjkar family , who should she be defendinf more , the family with whom she was gonna have a lifelong relation and was true or a Kitty party acquaintance who was shady ?
Archu spoke up finally but it was INSIPID . I wanted her to BLAST her mom and ask her why the hell she had invited Manav if she was going to turn him away ?They had come coz they were invited .
The tears and rona dhona bugged me to no end . What was needed was positive Fury .
Sulochanas dutiful respect and varsha standing quietly inspite of otherwise doing Jeeju Jeeju was truly a facade after all as Savita pointed out .
Today whatever Savita said had Many grains of truth in it . I still don't approve of her as a character but Todays dialogues were right .
Sulochana needs to be blasted by all 3 daughters LEFT RIGHT AND CENTER . For her HYPOCRISY . Till now I defended her as a girls mom about her worry for Archu but today she did two horribly hypocritical things
1] She defended that man who sent her daughter whom she professes to love so much to a brothel
2] She calculated that anyways this daughters marraige is over so why bother giving them respect although their side was Correct and chose to give two moneyed bitchy women .........Rasika and Bhavna more importance . It proved the theory that MONEY TALKS AND B.S WALKS.
All the men seem to put their tails between their legs when these Stupid women make issues about nonsensical things . Why did Manohar not have his own opinion ? Satish 's dad seems to be Manohar's carbon copy . Damodar I can excuse today ..........But Satish ? He too joined the wimpy line ! And later we see Manav silently taking Savita's anger without opining ON HIS OWN . Although she was justified today , this is the scenario ALWAYS is my point . Yes Im a feminist but I dont advocate keeping quiet by men when women r doing blatant rubbish . Why didnt Satishs dad shut Bhavna up?
I dont know what nonsensical condition [ yet one more alas] Savita will put before archna and how Manav will still keep quiet but one thing as a viewer I wud love to see is
Archu Manav going after the Lokhandes with a hatchet and putting them in jail , Manju pregnant or not
Satish leaving Bhavnas house and Bhavna climbing up the stairs of that very chawl with Sulochana to rub her nose in the mud and apologise to the Deshmukhs .
Nothing else shud satisfy us . Creatives hope ur Listening and reading .
P.S : Same Scenario had been there when Archu had been asked to leave Sachins engagement although she had been invited and was innocent . Why ? Coz the engagement shud go on . Manav had NOT taken the side of right then and Sulochna has not taken the side of right today . This serial does not have a single character who unflinchingly takes the side of RIGHT . Someone or the other is always 'HELPLESS" and so I ask ........who will show guts in this serial to throw aside factors that make them helpless as such helplessness is unhealthy ?
One more thing . Bhavna did all this tantrum today coz she thought that she was ENTITLED TO IT AS SHE WAS THE BOY"S MOM . I AM THE BOY"S MOM AND HOW DARE THEY INSULT MY GUEST WAS THE NAKED EGO HERE . Am I to understand that the girl Varsha is going to live with such a horrible individual for the rest of her life as if it is the best deal on earth that she can have although her sister was insulted royally ? Or will Bhavna be shown her place by showing us that the very boy on whom she was banking to throw unlimited ego tantrums turns against her firmly and shows her ?
Does marraige make a person weak ? Is marraige the end of life ?
It seems to be so coz , both the girl [ Varsha] and her mother { Sulochana] shamed women today .
If Girls r worshipped as the image of Shakti {Devi] why not show that brilliance , That tej , in POSITIVE FURY ? Coz negative Fury is frowned down upon but Positive Fury is worshipped in Indian culture as it eradicates Evil .
Why the hell did creatives show Varsha the spitfire to be quiet ........was it to give dialogues to archu and redeem her ? This is how they destroy the credibility of the characters and the serial again and again .
The girl getting married herself getting up and BREAKING THE ENGAGEMENT and telling the BOy's mom TO GO was the correct answer to today's episode . It was of course , Not delivered .
Varsha didnt even want to marry Satish in the first place . And todays situation was such that even if she had been in love with Satish she shud have shown guts to kick his mom out and give him an ultimatum .
Why was Bhavna not asked the question by anyone that why the hell was she defending Ajit so much inspite of knowing that Ajit had wronged the Karanjkar family , who should she be defendinf more , the family with whom she was gonna have a lifelong relation and was true or a Kitty party acquaintance who was shady ?
Archu spoke up finally but it was INSIPID . I wanted her to BLAST her mom and ask her why the hell she had invited Manav if she was going to turn him away ?They had come coz they were invited .
The tears and rona dhona bugged me to no end . What was needed was positive Fury .
Sulochanas dutiful respect and varsha standing quietly inspite of otherwise doing Jeeju Jeeju was truly a facade after all as Savita pointed out .
Today whatever Savita said had Many grains of truth in it . I still don't approve of her as a character but Todays dialogues were right .
Sulochana needs to be blasted by all 3 daughters LEFT RIGHT AND CENTER . For her HYPOCRISY . Till now I defended her as a girls mom about her worry for Archu but today she did two horribly hypocritical things
1] She defended that man who sent her daughter whom she professes to love so much to a brothel
2] She calculated that anyways this daughters marraige is over so why bother giving them respect although their side was Correct and chose to give two moneyed bitchy women .........Rasika and Bhavna more importance . It proved the theory that MONEY TALKS AND B.S WALKS.
All the men seem to put their tails between their legs when these Stupid women make issues about nonsensical things . Why did Manohar not have his own opinion ? Satish 's dad seems to be Manohar's carbon copy . Damodar I can excuse today ..........But Satish ? He too joined the wimpy line ! And later we see Manav silently taking Savita's anger without opining ON HIS OWN . Although she was justified today , this is the scenario ALWAYS is my point . Yes Im a feminist but I dont advocate keeping quiet by men when women r doing blatant rubbish . Why didnt Satishs dad shut Bhavna up?
I dont know what nonsensical condition [ yet one more alas] Savita will put before archna and how Manav will still keep quiet but one thing as a viewer I wud love to see is
Archu Manav going after the Lokhandes with a hatchet and putting them in jail , Manju pregnant or not
Satish leaving Bhavnas house and Bhavna climbing up the stairs of that very chawl with Sulochana to rub her nose in the mud and apologise to the Deshmukhs .
Nothing else shud satisfy us . Creatives hope ur Listening and reading .
P.S : Same Scenario had been there when Archu had been asked to leave Sachins engagement although she had been invited and was innocent . Why ? Coz the engagement shud go on . Manav had NOT taken the side of right then and Sulochna has not taken the side of right today . This serial does not have a single character who unflinchingly takes the side of RIGHT . Someone or the other is always 'HELPLESS" and so I ask ........who will show guts in this serial to throw aside factors that make them helpless as such helplessness is unhealthy ?
One more thing . Bhavna did all this tantrum today coz she thought that she was ENTITLED TO IT AS SHE WAS THE BOY"S MOM . I AM THE BOY"S MOM AND HOW DARE THEY INSULT MY GUEST WAS THE NAKED EGO HERE . Am I to understand that the girl Varsha is going to live with such a horrible individual for the rest of her life as if it is the best deal on earth that she can have although her sister was insulted royally ? Or will Bhavna be shown her place by showing us that the very boy on whom she was banking to throw unlimited ego tantrums turns against her firmly and shows her ?
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