It seems like rudeness/bashing is the thing everyone dislikes here.
We've tried and tried hard to discourage any bashing/rude behavior here. Topics have been closed, warnings sent out.
Can I just say one thing? If you come across a rude post, please don't reply to it in an equally rude manner? That's not going to help, now is it? And what's the point in doing the exact thing you hate? I know at times when you read something awful, it's hard to control ourselves, but that's one thing we need to do to maintain peace here.
Again, another thing I've said many times now. Why does it have to be MayUr vs. SaJan, Gunjan vs. Nupur, Samrat vs. Mayank?
Why can't we just have MayUr and Sajan, Gunjan AND Nupur, Samrat and Mayank.I understand we can't help but liking a couple/person more than the other. That's natural. But we can definitely help being rude about them... so not to provoke their fans.Criticisms can be healthy too if and only if stated in a calm manner.
Issues with the DT?Please sort it out with us. Send us PMs... If you don't think it's helping send a PM to other DT members of MJHT or GMs so they can step in and solve the problem. We all try to be accessible and easy to talk to but sometimes life gets hectic.
Repeat/bashing Topics:Report them. Please. The entire DT goes through every single reported post. But that doesn't mean that an action will be taken. We look through the post and see if an action needs to be taken. If we are unsure we involve other DT members. But we always look at the resported posts and deal with them.
Yes, we are the moderators and keeping the forum clean and friendly is our responsibility. But we can't do it alone, not without the help of all of you. There are only a few of us and more than 5 pages worth of topics everyday. We can't go through every single post everyday, but if you guys point out the problematic posts, we always deal with them.
Thanks a lot for putting the time and effort in for providing this feedback!
-Mahi