MJHT n how it moves us in real life

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hello ppl.....am new to this forum....new as in becoming a member but i have been actively tracking this forum as a silent viewer for a long time.....well am a big fan of mjht....writing is my passion....n mjht india forum is a way of relieving myself from my work stress.....at 28, i still love this coll youth oriented serial....am crazy abt sajan and luv d acting of mayur....i am starting this topic to put my thoghts on the various tracks we have seen taking shape in mjht..... mostly my personal opinion n no offense to anyone

my post is basically to empahsise on the fact that CVs have done justice to quite a big extent and u wud agree to this if u realise a basic fact that love and acceptance guides various emotions of ours in various stages of life and this persepctive governs the way v react to any situation v come across...d idea is to leave a thot in ur minds as to how to njoy d serial without letting it affect n create any stress in ur thot process....i know many of us get stressed for various things in life, including small things like an unwanted twist in the lives of our fav jodis, wat vil d outcome of d track, r they ruining a track, comparsion on d forum of our fav character, our adorable jodi not getting enuf screen space etc etc. 😊

our heart is such a beautiful thing and it is a bundle of emotions

take our lovable mjht track---am just stating certain instances to highlight d credible work done by CVs and how they r trying to live up to the expectations of millions of viewers....by way i have nothing to do with the CVs, its just my analysis of the mjht n its impact on its viewers

sajan track (gunjan scared of expressing her love to a large than life samrat, gunjan insecured of reason y samrat chose to be with her, samrat insecured of deepening familial bonding with suhani, samrat scared of losing gunjan's friendhip......

mayur track (nupur wanting public acceptance of her relationship with mayank, nupur wanting her father's approval of mayank, mayank wanting to take care of nupur's responsibility, mom's responsility......

gunur track (gunjan scared that nupur will lose her love of d life, nupur scared of losing her father's love, nupur scared of outcome 4 gunjan samrat relationship from her experience n many more

run through all the sequences in ur mind of what i have mentioned, u will realise in each of cases the heart of d character is craving for d love and acceptance from a person dear to us....these emotions are so strong and they basically decide the person u become.....

if u channel ur emotions for the love of others at large u become compassionate, if u channel ur emotions to the love of a dear one u become caring and affectionate, if u channel ur emotions towards materialistic achievements u become succesfful but may be get a little farther away from love, if u channel ur emotions towards greed or anger then ur heart and body becomes one tough place for ur soul to reside in peacefully....it is so true that all ur heart 's emotion craves is LOVE & ACCEPTANCE and the way u train it becomes the starting point for ur identity

we have been so many times disappointed with CVs for taking the track to a different level but guess what drives our disappointment is the expectaion of love and acceptance of a happily ever after life for our fav characters.. unless the tracks were designed d way they have been, may v wud b seeing only celluloid characters who can be true only on reel life and we would not be able to identify ourselves with any of the characters or relate to them or the instances shown.....just imagine if all they have to show is love and small fight and sorting out those fights we would get tired so easily of this serial......the very reason we start criticising the CVs ensures that our expectation level with the serial has increased with each track and we want to see more beautification of the characterisation......v hide our craving for love n acceptance of our favorite jodis behind the bashing of the CVs

v felt disappointed with cvs dragging sajan confession but had they shown it easily, will v still be re seeing those episodes for umpteen number of times n not get bored....v felt sad that mayur were getting separated with mayank moving to bangalore but think wud v have cherised the mayur moments hd it been like a regular love story with no ups n downs graph....v r sad that gunur relationship is going to go thru a strain but trust me at the end of it the way gunur love will blossom will make us remember our fond memories with our siblings.......d way nupur bauji track will get sorted v wil b able to see n cherish gud father n daughter bonding eqaution.......to me frankly thats d achievment of the CVs. ....they leave us with such a feel good factor at the end of the track d way u might have felt if u had watched 3 idiots.....think of every instance which shaped ur fav character or jodi into becoming better, u wud for sure realise it wud not be possible to create that effect unless u add realistic twists and hardships...v get easily angry with CVs if a scene is not according to our tatse n i agree they can also welll go wong at times but d simple thing v cud do on part wud be to identify our emotions associated with the characters /jodis and look forward to enhancement of the charcter we love.....like after talent parade, many of us who r shy by nature wud hve felt glad that a charcter like them can take centre stage, after mayank nupur misunderstandings were clarified, many of us who dream of a prince charming in our life will be happy to see its not tough and impossible to find ur Mr/Ms Perfect and understand how to live happily evn with shortcomings of your partner if u r direct opposite characters,,,,,with samrat's love for gunjan bringing his belief slowly back into family and marriage institution,many of us who might have gone thru a rough childhood can live with the hope that when the right person to love u comes along all the hurt of the past will go away.....when gunur strain is cleared, many of us who might have been prey to sibling jealously can realise why things cud have been wrongly viewed by us n start the path of building a beautiful bond with them.....when bui's character towards mayur's marriage shows forgiveness and accpetance for them and when eventually even bauji will melt towards them, many of us may realise that wht v always considered inteference from our parents/elders in many instances is purely driven byt the fact they love us so much and want the best for us always but might not always be able to find the right way to express it to us....friends a major point i learned from a novel i read recently is to remember ur charcter just needs to have the right mix of love, acceptance, forgiveness and remembrance for u to b happy today and forever and eventually to keep others happy around u......

am sure all of us watch serials , movies etc to have fun n relieve ourselves of various tensions like work stress, exam fever, family problems, sibling fights n many more.....so won't it be great if actualy dont end up creating another stress factor by worrying too much about wat CVs r doing to our jodis/fav characters....instead sit back, watch a track, ,enjoy the sequence of good events, anticipate and hope gud turns ahead when v c a track taking tough graph and relish the beauty of a relationship n blooming bonding shown bet various characters when a track culminates, n icing on d cake discuss it on d frum n relive d pleasure v derived out of our fav serial MJHT....all is well .....when u get love & acceptance.....All is well that ends well n love in any form any relationship has no end!!!!!!


Cheers,
Meenakshi
(sorry d post was too long but as i said i get carried away easily when i start writing :)

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stuti123 thumbnail
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Posted: 15 years ago
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well said meenakshi dear i fuuly agree and you indded are an awesome writer.......
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Welcome to the Forum Meenakshi!!
:)
Loved your take on MJHT :) But ofcourse many a times we over-react here:) Then again, you'll notice as you become a more active member of the forum u might end up doing the same things LOL I can safely say that out of experience :)) 🤣
Have loads of fun and keep writing in ur views 🤗
Divya
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Posted: 15 years ago
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definitely well written post. honestly i am too overwhelmed to write anything now. i can definitely say that your post got me thinking my scattered thoughts are refusing to settle down & i am trying to decipher what they are saying to me. one thing is true though no person is perfect & the same applies to charecters there is no need for them to be perfect as in life we get better with hardships we face the same can apply to charecters on screen and if sensibly shown they will change your perception. and about the love & acceptance you wrote no one can express it more perfectly! really brilliant & thats why we all are here isn't it? we love a particular jodi, charecter, show, want love & acceptance for them & share our love with others & fight if we hear against them. last but not least you have penned down some really wonderful thoughts i will write mine soon & i hope you keep writing posts because as i said it gets people to think. which personally i think is the best compliment anyone can give to any book\post\blog etc. it does not tell them what to feel or think but forces them to think, realise what they feel and not what is popular opinion. really awesome post and reserved!

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: stuti123

well said meenakshi dear i fuuly agree and you indded are an awesome writer.......



Thanks a lot stuti 😊
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: 2kul4u

<FONT color=#cc0000>definitely well written post. honestly i am too overwhelmed to write anything now. i candefinitely say that your post got me thinking my scattered thoughts are refusing to settle down &i am trying to decipher what they are saying to me. onething is true though noperson is perfect & the same applies to charecters there is no need for them to be perfect as in life we get better withhardships we face the same can apply tocharecters on screen and if sensibly shown they will change yourperception. and about the love & acceptance you wroteno one can express it more perfectly! really brilliant & thats why we all are here isn't it? we love a particular jodi, charecter, show, want love & acceptance for them & share our love with others & fight if we hear against them. last but not least you have penned down some really wonderful thoughts i willwrite mine soon & i hope you keep writing posts because as i saidit gets people to think. which personally i think is the best complimentanyone can give to anybook\post\blog etc. it does not tell them what to feel or think but forces them to think,realise what they feel and not what is popular opinion. really awesomepost and reserved!</FONT>



thanks a lot 2kul (sorry dnt know ur name) 4 ur comments....n yes it wud b grt if u can put ur thots into words to see a diff perspective 😊
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: myownarea

Welcome to the Forum Meenakshi!!

:)


Loved your take on MJHT :) But ofcourse many a times we over-react here:) Then again, you'll notice as you become a more active member of the forum u might end up doing the same things LOL I can safely say that out of experience :)) 🤣


Have loads of fun and keep writing in ur views 🤗


Divya



i totally agree divya....even many a times i am so tempted to react tro situations in real life including reacting to posts in the forum 😉 but then in d last min i unfortunately decide to wait for few min n then see if if i still want to react to respond n i end up most of d the time responding than reacting , (though always not to my liking) 😊
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Posted: 15 years ago
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u rock 😃 that ws really overwhelmin u r a definately n awesum writer well said...... n thank u it ws amazing i love mjht 2 n it is awesome
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Lovely post and i agree with your points

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