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Posted: 15 years ago
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I am so frustrated seeing Manav like this.Earlier I thought he was angry,but he has turned stone hearted .For him Archana's tears does not matter at all.All he cares is his responsibility towards shravani.Even in today's episode,after vinod left ,he did not care to see what happened to Archana?

If you love somebody as manav loved Archana earlier,you can't be angry for long time.But this manav is very different.He no longer resembles earlier manav.

I feel even if he does not fill Shravani's maang,it won't be because it would be out of some majboori ,
not because he still loves Archana.

I hope creatives don't kill Manav's character any more....

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Ummm even i thought that but Vinod was defending Manju!!!!! Bcoz of her Manav's whole family is ruined... He did make it clear that Manju should have been in Jail wen Vinod came in... If Vinod doesnt have eye to see his evil wife's intentions.. Then its better he stays away from Archu...
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Agree with Mitts.. there are two reasons why he didn't do it..
1.) Vinod was defending Manju, and saying that even if Manju did wrong, Archu shud have thought of her brother and not punished her.. basically he was defending the person who Manav sees as the one who was responsible for his brother'sdeath. Naturally Manav was enraged.
2.) Manav right now is not in the condition/position to offer any kind of emotional support/sympathy to Archana as he is trying his best to convince her that their paths are completely different and they better forget each other. Also that she has no place in his heart and everything is over now. At such a time any emotional support/sympathy/concern might raise Archana's expectations only to be crushed later.. ('Aaj bhi Manav ko meri fikr hai..') unlike Damodar baba who can sit and console her.
That also mighty well explains why he didn't protest against his Aai's complaint condition in front of Archu but later went to her alone and tried his best to convince her not to insist on the complaint against Manju since it wud be difficult for Archu. After all what had he to lose if the complaint was made. Nothing! There wasn't even any fear of police lafda since his or his family's name wudn't be coming anywhere. He did it for Archu and no one else. Also he got worried when she told in front of everyone that she wud make the complaint.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I think Nikita's second point may be right. I've been pondering for quite a while now that maybe Manav doesn't want to get Archana's hopes up (or his own for that matter). So maybe that's why he doesn't openly support Archana, even when he wants to...
Something that stood out to me today was when Manav essentially (and quite angrily) told Vinod to back off of Archana and go yell at Manjusha. Firstly his tone surprised me (I don't know why), and then that he actually was trying to get Vinod to stop uselessly defending Manjusha and accusing Archana. That was highly unexpected for me atleast.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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i think we should wait a bit,i noticed a slight change in Manav's behaviour towards archana.I think the more time they spent with each other,the more will manav start loving her!!!!!!

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Posted: 15 years ago
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I think Manav will surely realize Archus love.... He has already seen some in few hours.. But as Niki said, he wants her to forget him and doesnt want her to live in Wrong hopes...

What wud be yet to seen is Shravani refuses for Marriage or Manav refuses to Shravani..... I hope its Manav.. Then only it would be justified...
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I strongly feel that he does not love Archana any more .
When he went to jail , his love for her pretty much died . He does have a strong guilt feel towards his family and he wants to see them happy at any cost . Archana's life , her tears and her love does not mean that much to him now .
Even though he knows how desperately in love she is with him , he doesn't care . Her love is more of a burdan than a blessing .
Before he would be so happy to see a loving gesture from her , now it is more of , ' oh God, what do I do now ' .
The only thing that he is focussed on is Shravani . She too is not a bad girl and he does believe that things will get better when he marries her so he is single mindedly pursuing this goal .
As he does not feel strongly towards Archana, and as he himself wants to move on in life with another woman, he obviously does not wants to give false hopes to this love struck woman .
The good person in him does sometimes wants to be fair and kind but then he knows that his acts of kindness and humanity can be mistaken as acts of love .
So maybe it is better that he did not help Archana at all and does not interfere in her family matters .
What he is doing wrong is completely ignoring a very very important fact .
Archana is not some neighbourhood girl who fancies him . She is actually his legally wedded wife and he cannot just shrug her off as she is some dandruff on his shoulders .
Whether he likes it or not , she is his responsibility and even if he does not love her , he has to take care of the fact that she should have a respectable life after him .
His mother is trying her best to drive Archana to a point f suicide and unknowingly he is helping her the most to achieve that goal .
If he is a fair and a good human being then he would do justice to Archana , even if he doesn't love her then also he will try her from going mentally insane . That is the least he can do .
This saturday he will fill the maang of another woman , on his mother's insistance , right there in front of his wife .
That would be an all time low for Manav . Forget about someone who loved her , even if he didn't love Archana ever he should not do this .
He is driving this girl to the point of insanity . He can see what she has been going through for the past few days .
It is totally toally unfair and unjustified the way he is behaving with her .
Edited by Tanyaz - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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tanya, i know manav is doing wrong and injustice with Archu..
But , he didnt say to herv to came and live in his house and face torture of his Mom.. He didnt say her to file complaint against manju..
Its not Manav who is throwing her to point of insanity... He doesnt want her and want to get divorced, but not torturing her.. Its Archu herself in order to be Mahaan throwing herself to point of insanity and destroying her life.. She herself is not willing to move on...
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Absolutely , Archana is going towards self destruction . The only reason is her love for Manav is far more important thn anything else in her life .

If to keep him happy she has to die , she will do it willingly . She only went back so that he and his family will not be in trouble . She only listens to his mother's torture because Savita is Manav's mother .
Archana is doomed . She cannot stop loving Manav even if it kills her .
The man is going to marry another girl in front of her but she will still love him because all she will see is someone responsible and Mahaan and not someone who is unfair to her .
But Manav can do more . He loved her once , he can atleast make sur ethat she does not burn all her bridges once he dumps her and that she doesn't go insane , after all she did not come to his house for some good time , she only came because she did not want Rasika to get him in trouble again .
He is not blind , he knows that she still loves him .
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Agree with u Tanya.. He has turned blind amidst his responsibilities.. But remember, nmmy condition is yet to be fulfilled.. 2 WEEKS OF STAY OF ARCHANA AT MANAVS HOUSE WILL CHANGE HIM.. IT hasnt been 1 complete day yet...

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