What Bauji did today was unforgivable!!

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Today, he wasn't acting like a father but like a little kid throwing a tantrum and breaking other kids' toys cause his broke. Only he isn't a kid and he destroyed the happiest moment of Mayur's lives


If he was against the marriage then he should have said that. Instead he practically ordered Mayank to marry Nupur and then insulted him for it. Poor Nupur was shattered and Mayank, I can only imagine what he must have felt being accused like this since he has the strongest value system, much more than Bauji whose so called values proved to be skin deep. And as for Mr. Slimy Adiraj, he's so weak, I can't imagine how Bauji could even imagine him to be better than Mayank.


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Posted: 15 years ago
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i know he's like going tru menopause or something
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Posted: 15 years ago
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totally agree with u word to word..
greattt post..
ab to bauji ki shakal k sath aqal b badal gayi..
bauji compleetely chaged after makeover.. lolz.. 😆
Edited by faranzafar - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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i agree
bauji's reaction to all this was so confusing
i really don't understand what was the point for him to agree to da wedding anywayz
mayb it is because noone can insult him in society and gunjun would easily be able to find a guy for herself
but why did he have to act all happy at first
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Posted: 15 years ago
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yaa...............wat Bauji said ws ri8 dat mayank shud huv 2 think abt how will he take care of his wife after shaadi wen he's nt earning...............bt Bauji ws wrong in frst ordering mayank to maryy n den insult him.................he shud huv askd hi b4 only dat how will helook after his daughter?????
ok.............I think both Myank n Bauji were wrong in dat place................n poor Nupur shud huv 2 suffer btwn dem.........
k................anywayzz v all know dat Mayank is a vry responsible person.............soooo no probsss...............mayank will defo take care of HIS WIFE vry perfectly!!!!!!!!!
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Bauji's character is a totally heartless father....
First of all, if you don't like your dauther's choice, then fine oppose it... but why force her to marry in three days against her will? He forced her to marry as if to give her punishment and to prove himself right....what kind of dad does that? A father who has a heart and little faih in his upbringing... that father will at least trust his child and listen to her... but this Bauji is headstrong...
Next in the mandap, Adha's dad insults Nupur... and this father just stands there and watches his dauther's insult...doesn't even speak a word... Mayank stood up for her... not her own father... that itself is most hurting thing for a child...at least he should have supported her in public...
And today...what he said to Nupur was ridiculous... a father who has a heart will not be so cruel with his daughter... he is marrying her out of revenge... to punish her and throw her out of the house and saving his badnaami... sicko father... who gives such curses to your own child?... I haven't met a parent like that in my life... I have seen my friends getting married against parents wish... but the parents will never give such curses to their children...
Parents don't need to support their children in every decision... but at least give them the blessings...
He is turned into kekta maii types villians...
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Posted: 15 years ago
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i was really sad what happened today
but my sister said they will later definitely show that bauji did everything on purpose .he wanted to make mayank realize that love is not that easy when it comes with a responsibility if u get married.and he wanted mayank to see the situation that and so he said that what r u going to do now...take help from ur mother or ur friends.so its sure that mayank will not at all take his friends help.if bauji would had easily accepted him them then they wouldnt have taken life seriously and we all know baiji is not that sure with mayank so .now thats what my sister said.i dont know to believe her or not.lets see.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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YEAH EVEN BUI WAS SUPPORTIVE
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Bauji's behavior was pretty unpalatable!! It was hard on Nupur!! I found it hard to sit through the scene - he was just so mean (can't find any other nicer word) - and I know I will never watch that particular scene again!!

However, I was just trying to think how a father would react! I think most fathers would be v.v.angry - bauji got publicly insulted, told that he was trying to palm off his "kaalik" on to the boy's house - told that no baraat would ever come to his house to be insulted like that - and that he should marry his daughter off to this ladka!!
We should remember that bauji has his second daughter to think of - so as not to create any public scandal he must have thought to himself - ok Nupur wants to marry Mayank - fine - let her do so - but she has to be punished for what she's done to the family - that he would perform a father's duty of kanyadaan and thus fulfill his responsibility and then he's done with Nupur. You could see through out the epi - he had this stern look on his face and he only smiled a little when Gunjan came to his side!!

I found that what Bauji did was a little premeditated - he asked Mayank to marry Nupur and told her kush raho - all along knowing that he was intending to break relations off with Nupur once the marriage had been completed! His attitude was that damage had been done to the family name - he needed to rectify what he could and move on - behavior which I found to be v.cold! He forgot - that Nupur begged him that she could not imagine life with anyone else but Mayank - but he refused to listen!!

At the moment the wound that Nupur has inflicted on her father is so fresh - that it would take time to heal - and I'm sure he'll mellow down over time. However till then he said some pretty mean things to Mayank - as if Adhiraj was financially independent and was not going to live off his father!!

I really hope the CVs give a good track to Mayur to allow them to prove - just because they married young does not mean that it is the end of the world and they can survive and come out stronger - and pyaar does not become "zeher" in such circumstances!!
Edited by champakiran - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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yeah even i was surprised that bui supported them!

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