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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: lubie

I really hope that sadi really turns into a strong, confident person and never comes back to this unloved, ungrateful house and its residents.

same here she can live in flat or chawl😭
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: Omshanti1111

Agreed 100%...and the method sometime need to be being strict also, if polite way does not work...being strict does not mean Ranveer is not a good husband...being a good husband does not mean catering to wife's wrond demands, in the pretext that she had a miscarraige..what people here are trying to prove...
Sonya, what I am trying to say is that if Ragini so confident that she is right in all her judgement about Sadhna..whether miscarriage or Sadhna being jealous of Ragini from childhood..she should be confident in exposing Sadhna through her dialogues to Ranveer...But it seems to me that Ragini herself is confused, her conscience knows that she has done wrong, but she is not able to bend down ..She knows very well that Ranveer will not agree to her wrongs...
everyone wants Ranveer to be a good husband now...so in this situation, to put brains into Ragini, Ranveer might have to be a little strict with her also, if she does not understand the polite way...but that does not in any way suggest that Ranveer does not love her..being a good husband does not mean that one has to be completely loyal to one's wife, even if she is wrong..Ragini should be sympathesised to some extent for her miscarriage but after sometime, this miscarriage issue will not hold anymore...frankly speaking, if she is so shocked, she should not be arguing, she should be in a state of shock without uttering any word...
You see, I knew you were playing diplomatic lol. Now I completely get it, and I totally agree. However, ranvir should not primarily behave in a strict way, once he hears about the miscariage, he should be gentle in this case & considerate. Knowing ranvir, I don't think he would be harsh with rangini, knowing what she's been through, perhaps dissapointed and that would be enough to crush her and hopefully make her realise that her suspicions were wrong. I also really agree that rangini needs to openly let ranvir know, because her hiding her true feelings about the issue would be quite hypocritical in my view, which then would completely be negative characteristics on her behalf. Her hiding it out of fear would also prove that she knows that she is wrong in her stance, again giving negative connotation in her character. I support ragini as long as her current wrongs are due to to her lacking understanding that she is wrong (naivity), and her honesty with ranvir is the only way she can prove this....

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Posted: 15 years ago
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@ Sonya...
I am against Ragini's words ..but as you said, if she has done all these in naivity and she repents, she should be forgiven..but she needs to pour her heart out, then only someone who loves her dearly can make her understand...Ragini is totally wrong...when time comes, noone whether Vasu or Kaushi will take the blame from Ragini and the excuses of miscarriage and being instigated by Vasu and Kaushi also wont do any good in front of Ranveer...its good that she let everything move out of her system, then only she can start afresh...she needs a counselling...
when a close one dies, a doctor suggests that the person should cry loud, or else, it can otherwise harm the person.. For the old Ragini to come back, this new Ragini has to go away from the root ...

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