Anger is the worst vice...

Originally posted by: Omshanti1111

Some people say sloth is the worst vice, but myself believe that anger is the worst vice..it eclipses a person's thoughts, brings about mental blockage, physical damage.......In our show Bidaai, Ranveer could not control her anger and landed up in jail...Ragini's anger is not allowing her to see her past good moments and forcing her to seek refuge in wrong people...Alekh was angry and told Sadhna, his lucky charm to leave....

Sadhna is able to bear everything silently...what lies the strength? her strength lies in her calm and composed nature...

Originally posted by: lisasandra

Omshanti1111,You wrote everything but I think ,you forgotten to add that once sadhna slap ranveer who is elder then her and her jiji's husband.

Originally posted by: Omshanti1111

I do not forget anything... in few posts just in couple of days time, I mentioned about this incidence of Sadhna and that she was wrong.. but why she was great, because she slapped Ranveer at the hit of the moment, but as soon as she came back to her senses, she immediately apologised and repented with a pure heart...

Are you trying to criticise Sadhna's character? Of all the brilliant qualities Sadhna has, you could find only this incident to belittle Sadhna? Sadhna is unque and loveable whether I say bad about her or you praise her or viceversa...

I started watching Bidaai as a neutral viewer, but I openly declare that I have learnt a lot from Sadhna's character and gradually became a fan of her character...but nonetheless, I am not a blind fan, and I have the eyes and judgement to see when Sadhna is good and when wrong....

Originally posted by: Omshanti1111

I do not forget anything... in few posts just in couple of days time, I mentioned about this incidence of Sadhna and that she was wrong.. but why she was great, because she slapped Ranveer at the hit of the moment, but as soon as she came back to her senses, she immediately apologised and repented with a pure heart...

Are you trying to criticise Sadhna's character? Of all the brilliant qualities Sadhna has, you could find only this incident to belittle Sadhna? Sadhna is unque and loveable whether I say bad about her or you praise her or viceversa...

I started watching Bidaai as a neutral viewer, but I openly declare that I have learnt a lot from Sadhna's character and gradually became a fan of her character...but nonetheless, I am not a blind fan, and I have the eyes and judgement to see when Sadhna is good and when wrong....

Originally posted by: taral83

I agree that anger is the worst vice.....and can make a person weak and is not answer to any giving problem. However, speaking up and standing up for what is right is also very important. Yes, Sad is very calm and composed, but besides begging for forgiveness she has not done a darn thing to defend herslef and her belief in telling the truth. I think her silence is costing her alot. There is no reason to argu but there is a reason to speak up. When Mamaji and Sad went to meet Alekh again one last time on Sad request. Not a word was said in her defense out of her own mouth. Nor did she speak up when Mamaji was insulted in his own home because the others didn't want her there. All she could think of was to walk away. She supported the truth so what is she afraid of? Sometimes it is important to put your foot down to make others realize one's importance. Mamaji said "that you won't speak about ur sacrafices, but these people won't acknowledge them without telling them"....maybe its not in her personality to brag about herself..........but it shoud be in her personality to have self-respect....... A person that accepts injustice is as guilty as the person doing the injustice. Anger is not the answer but neither is silence...............

Originally posted by: taral83

I agree that anger is the worst vice.....and can make a person weak and is not answer to any giving problem. However, speaking up and standing up for what is right is also very important. Yes, Sad is very calm and composed, but besides begging for forgiveness she has not done a darn thing to defend herslef and her belief in telling the truth. I think her silence is costing her alot. There is no reason to argu but there is a reason to speak up. When Mamaji and Sad went to meet Alekh again one last time on Sad request. Not a word was said in her defense out of her own mouth. Nor did she speak up when Mamaji was insulted in his own home because the others didn't want her there. All she could think of was to walk away. She supported the truth so what is she afraid of? Sometimes it is important to put your foot down to make others realize one's importance. Mamaji said "that you won't speak about ur sacrafices, but these people won't acknowledge them without telling them"....maybe its not in her personality to brag about herself..........but it shoud be in her personality to have self-respect....... A person that accepts injustice is as guilty as the person doing the injustice. Anger is not the answer but neither is silence...............