Anger is the worst vice... - Page 2

Originally posted by: --Anu--

You are right. But there is a time and place for everything. If someone has already made-up his/her mind then no amount of explanation would have any affect on that person's thinking. Sadhana can never impose herself on anyone or give any bhashans to anyone. How can Sadhana hurt Ragini even more when she is already going through so much. Didn't she tell Ragini that how can I take away your most precious thing and lets face this pain together and be each others support.
Sadhana went back to the Rajvansh house just to know Alekh's wish and if he wants her back in his life. It was never her idea to justify herself in the first place and specially when her loved ones are in pain. Sadhana-Alekh relationship should be based on love, trust and understanding not compromise anymore.

Originally posted by: taral83

You are right that there is a time and place for everything and that includes standing up for yourself when needed. You are also correct on saying if someone has already made-up his/her mind then no amount of explanation will do any good. However, that doesn't mean that u watch others get insulted who are standing up for you. Mamaji has been insulted in the Rajvansh house and in his own home because he wanted to support Sad. When things got heated between Mamaji and her mother-in-law and Mamaji and the family all she says is "let it go Mamaji, lets go".....why because its the easy way out, to just leave and not say anything. I personally think she really needs to stand up for Mamaji at least. And yes "karam kar phal ke ija maath kar"(sorry bad hinid) dont brag about your sacrifices but atleast say that "she has done nothing wrong but only told the truth because her inner self didn't allow her to say a lie. Whether u agree with my choice or not is totally up to you. But I have never intended to ruin anyone's life" and she needs to say that in a stern tone not weeping.......and Sad-alek relationship is based on love trust and understanding and not compromise anymore right........then where is that love trust and understanding from Alekh.....it takes to two make a strong relationship....Sad alone can not hold down the fort. Crying and scarificing his wife to make is mother happy sounds like compromising to me. It shows no love no trust nor understand............