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Summer3

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Posted: 16 years ago

So sad to read about a mother looking for her daughter so desparately.

I think in this world the love of a mother and child is the greatest.

Jan 10, 2010

She is crying out for help

Woman from China spends her days scouring Singapore for missing daughter

By Leonard Lim

Madam Zhang making her way to HarbourFront MRT station with Crime Library's founder Joseph Tan. She believes her daughter visited Sentosa. -- ST PHOTOS: KEVIN LIM

THE only trace of makeup on her forlorn face is some hastily drawn black eyeliner.

Madam Zhang Xiangyun's eyes are surrounded by dark rings, a result of sleeping an average of three hours a day over the past few weeks.

Nearly every night, she said, her rest has been interrupted by dreams of her missing daughter Han Yanfei crying out for help from a distance.

Madam Zhang, 49, has very little appetite these days. She has eaten mostly vegetables since she arrived here from China on Dec 29.

The Liaoning native's walk is slow and mechanical from fatigue. But clinging to the barest slivers of hope, she is steadfast in her quest to find Ms Han.

The 28-year-old hostess at Song KTV lounge in Telok Ayer Street has not been seen since Nov 8. She used to have webcam chats with her mother almost daily and did not fly home on Nov 27 as planned.

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nuomi.riceball

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Posted: 16 years ago

this is a very interesting article summerji, but i won't be surprised if a mother is worried about her children. what should be an issue is if a mother or a father abandon their children without any significant reason. like for example, a father abandons their children just because he doesn't care even though he is totally capable of supporting them.

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Summer3

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Posted: 16 years ago

Originally posted by: rongna
this is a very interesting article summerji, but i won't be surprised if a mother is worried about her children. what should be an issue is if a mother or a father abandon their children without any significant reason. like for example, a father abandons their children just because he doesn't care even though he is totally capable of supporting them.

Often a father may disagree with the wife and move out but he never stops loving the children. There are exceptions of course.

I think a man who deserts a woman for no good reason will never be happy in his life.

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Posted: 16 years ago

Originally posted by: Summer3

Often a father may disagree with the wife and move out but he never stops loving the children. There are exceptions of course.

I think a man who deserts a woman for no good reason will never be happy in his life.

Good thing yu said that Summer ... remember recently jetty bhai opened a topic about Australia where I commented on some of our Desi Pigs abroad?

I know a few of these Desi pigs who abandoned their girlfriends and wives often even after having a child with them. Or, unknown to the trusting wife/girlfriend....coming to India and marrying the poor sanskaari women.

Arre yeh pagal insaan log har jaga hotein hain. Never happy?...I feel they should be burned in hell.

Khud to behaya hain hi....doosre acche honhaar Indian youth's ka naam mitti me milakar rakkha hai!

Aur inke Adarsh Ke Premi Parents (who, knowing thier rascal children, send them to India to marry and stop their daughters from getting married to a good-natured intelligent and much sanskaari man from the country they live in) ko subha shaam joote se marna chahiye.

Just my POV!

Edited by Crimson_Sky - 16 years ago

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Summer3

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Posted: 16 years ago

Originally posted by: Crimson_Sky
Good thing yu said that Summer ... remember recently jetty bhai opened a topic about Australia where I commented on some of our Desi Pigs abroad?

I know a few of these Desi pigs who abandoned their girlfriends and wives often even after having a child with them. Or, unknown to the trusting wife/girlfriend....coming to India and marrying the poor sanskaari women.

Arre yeh pagal insaan log har jaga hotein hain. Never happy?...I feel they should be burned in hell.

Khud to behaya hain hi....doosre acche honhaar Indian youth's ka naam mitti me milakar rakkha hai!

Aur inke Adarsh Ke Premi Parents (who, knowing thier rascal children, send them to India to marry and stop their daughters from getting married to a good-natured intelligent and much sanskaari man from the country they live in) ko subha shaam joote se marna chahiye.

Just my POV!

Ah Pravda you are right there is nothing worse than leaving a child without both its parents. It has severe psychological effect on the child and also it is very difficult on the poor mum to raise kids on her own, work and also educate the kids. Maha Paap as most desi women are very tolerant.

Quite a few of our managers go to China to work and end up having new wives too. Several of the China ladies do not mind being 2nd or 3rd wives, many of them just want a better life overseas.

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Originally posted by: Summer3

Ah Pravda you are right there is nothing worse than leaving a child without both its parents. It has severe psychological effect on the child and also it is very difficult on the poor mum to raise kids on her own, work and also educate the kids. Maha Paap as most desi women are very tolerant.

Quite a few of our managers go to China to work and end up having new wives too. Several of the China ladies do not mind being 2nd or 3rd wives, many of them just want a better life overseas.

It is not about the Chinese ladies if they mind or dont mind ... this is disgusting. If they marry a Chinese, its their duty to respect her and give her proper love!

Do you actually think its acceptable?.... 🤢

By the way my name is Kashif.

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Debayon Dutta

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Posted: 16 years ago

a very touching topic.... I wish her best of luck. Mothers always are more sentimental in general, because they are more emotional in nature and so, they show more affection towards their children more than fathers, mentally and emotionally(of course, there are expections). I feel that sons are more attracted towards their mothers and fathers more attracted towards their daughters, and vice versa because of their genders.

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Fatima

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Posted: 16 years ago

wow that is really sad. Things like this make me really emotional. I can't imagine what a mom must feel like knowing her daughter is in danger.
Thanks for sharing.

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Believe

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Posted: 16 years ago

A Email Forword:- something sweet to read😊

1. My mother taught me TO APPRECIATE A JOB WELL DONE.

"If you're going to kill each other, do it outside. I just finished cleaning."

2. My mother taught me RELIGION. "You better pray that will come out of the carpet."

3. My mother taught me about TIME TRAVEL. "If you don't straighten up, I'm going to knock you into the middle of next week!"

4. My mother taught me LOGIC. " Because I said so, that's why."

5. My mother taught me MORE LOGIC. "If you fall out of that swing and break your neck, you're not going to the store with me."

6. My mother taught me FORESIGHT. "Make sure you wear clean underwear, in case you're in an accident."

7. My mother taught me IRONY. "Keep crying, and I'll give you something to cry about."

8. My mother taught me about the science of OSMOSIS. "Shut your mouth and eat your supper."

9. My mother taught me about CONTORTIONISM. "Will you look at that dirt on the back of your neck!"

10. My mother taught me about STAMINA. "You'll sit there until all that
spinach is gone."

11. My mother taught me about WEATHER. "This room of yours looks as if a
tornado went through it

12. My mother taught me about HYPOCRISY. "If I told you once, I've told you a million times. Don't exaggerate!"

13. My mother taught me the CIRCLE OF LIFE. "I brought you into this world,and I can take you out."

14. My mother taught me about BEHAVIOR MODIFICATION. "Stop acting like your father!"

15. My mother taught me about ENVY. "There are millions of less fortunate children in this world who don't have wonderful parents like you do."

16. My mother taught me about ANTICIPATION. "Just wait until we get home."

17. My mother taught me about RECEIVING. "You are going to get it when you get home!"

18. My mother taught me MEDICAL SCIENCE. "If you don't stop crossing your eyes, they are going to freeze that way."

19. My mother taught me ESP. "Put your sweater on; don't you think I know when you are cold?"

20. My mother taught me HUMOR. "When that lawn mower cuts off your toes, don't come running to me."

21. My mother taught me HOW TO BECOME AN ADULT. "If you don't eat your
vegetables, you'll never grow up."

22. My mother taught me GENETICS. "You're just like your father."

23. My mother taught me about my ROOTS. "Shut that door behind you. Do you think you were born in a barn?"

24. My mother taught me WISDOM. "When you get to be my age, you'll understand."

25. And my favorite: My mother taught me about JUSTICE. One day you'll have kids, and I hope they turn out just like you!

😊