Irrational and Non-sensical thinking

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Posted: 16 years ago
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In today's episode (in the US), Simi has a nightmare; she is disturbed by all her family problems. When she wakes up (overacted by Simitri Kalra), she says something to the effect that that she must ask Abhi to delay her marriage proposal and all that was happening was not a test of their love but their relationship.

What totally #$#@$% BS is all of this? I have never been exposed to such tripe in my life. How sick is this character who internalizes all her family problems. This woman is totally co-dependent and literally thrives on dealing with her family problems because she has nothing better to do with her time and energy. What person blames themselves for the responsiblities of others? And what does her love or relaitonship with Abhi have to do with all of it? And how is it a test of their relationship unless you're not interested in guy.
Serious, these people didn't have to bring these two together and could have stretched out the storyline and had them fall in love now. We'd have been fine with it, but instead they had them fall in love to bring in waste of time white socks Nukul with matching white saree and grumpy looking Dadi. Then we had to endure the wicked witch of Delhi Anita and her glamous evening wear worn during the day and her chamcha Anuj.
I swear, I wonder if the stars who play these characters groan. I know my heart would never be into such bad characters. I guess the paycheck is the key and the fact they need it as a stepping stone.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Laila even I was wondering it Irrational reason to say this is not the test of their love but their relationship..
She has said it that she should'nt have poked her nose in her siblings pblm and she said she wud think abt herself..

Babes u know that u have to think abt urself again u fall into the blackmail of Anita and again u think areeay Mujhe aur Abhi ko apna relationship chupana chahiye and think abt my dear brother and my mom who is weeping buckets since she needs her son who litterally kicked her hand out when she begged him to stay ..

Senscial thinking has never been there in her dictonary.. Wonder what subject she teaches in her college .. ?? Becharey students they must be having some atchyachaar

Between are u able to see the last 10 topics posted on the right side of your screen Mine is blank 😔

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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: Laila2009

In today's episode (in the US), Simi has a nightmare; she is disturbed by all her family problems. When she wakes up (overacted by Simitri Kalra), she says something to the effect that that she must ask Abhi to delay her marriage proposal and all that was happening was not a test of their love but their relationship.


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I haven't read the rest of your post .. but wanted to write just for the 1st para ...
yes, I agree to this .. very very overacted by Smriti .. even when I saw that scene online a few days back, I felt that acting fitting a pergnant lady at the delivery table .. thats exactly how cinema and tv ppl wud show such a scene !!! 😆😆😆 It was an awful scene just to show that Simi was in fact having nightmares !!!
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: Laila2009

In today's episode (in the US), Simi has a nightmare; she is disturbed by all her family problems. When she wakes up (overacted by Simitri Kalra), she says something to the effect that that she must ask Abhi to delay her marriage proposal and all that was happening was not a test of their love but their relationship.


What totally #$#@$% BS is all of this? I have never been exposed to such tripe in my life. How sick is this character who internalizes all her family problems. This woman is totally co-dependent and literally thrives on dealing with her family problems because she has nothing better to do with her time and energy. What person blames themselves for the responsiblities of others? And what does her love or relaitonship with Abhi have to do with all of it? And how is it a test of their relationship unless you're not interested in guy.
Serious, these people didn't have to bring these two together and could have stretched out the storyline and had them fall in love now. We'd have been fine with it, but instead they had them fall in love to bring in waste of time white socks Nukul with matching white saree and grumpy looking Dadi.
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oh God!! I can't read further ... 🤣🤣🤣
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: Laila2009

In today's episode (in the US), Simi has a nightmare; she is disturbed by all her family problems. When she wakes up (overacted by Simitri Kalra), she says something to the effect that that she must ask Abhi to delay her marriage proposal and all that was happening was not a test of their love but their relationship.


What totally #$#@$% BS is all of this? I have never been exposed to such tripe in my life. How sick is this character who internalizes all her family problems. This woman is totally co-dependent and literally thrives on dealing with her family problems because she has nothing better to do with her time and energy. What person blames themselves for the responsiblities of others? And what does her love or relaitonship with Abhi have to do with all of it? And how is it a test of their relationship unless you're not interested in guy.
Serious, these people didn't have to bring these two together and could have stretched out the storyline and had them fall in love now. We'd have been fine with it, but instead they had them fall in love to bring in waste of time white socks Nukul with matching white saree and grumpy looking Dadi. Then we had to endure the wicked witch of Delhi Anita and her glamous evening wear worn during the day and her chamcha Anuj.
I swear, I wonder if the stars who play these characters groan. I know my heart would never be into such bad characters. I guess the paycheck is the key and the fact they need it as a stepping stone.

Finally I did read the complete post! phew! 😆😆

yes, totally agree, this girl doesn't have to "internalize" all her family problem and for what? Bcos brother left home and mother is on hunger strike?!!! It really is a BS for me too since in line of fire here is her non-existing love life!!

She wants to straigten all her family's problems and is not realising that she is trampling all over Abhi bcos of that and she wants him to hang around for her at everytime of her need!
She doesn't want to hurt her family and is ok to hurt her lover? And it is she who silently all the while wanted Abhi, since the day she just had a glimpse of his back, bcos his hands touched hers while she rang the bell of that shrine, be it while she escaped from RB, be it during jagraata, be it during her marriage to RB or be it during Anita-Anuj marriage. Everytime it was she who desperately wanted him and now when she has him, she doesn't give a damn how her actions are going to effect him?
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: shanti05

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Between are u able to see the last 10 topics posted on the right side of your screen Mine is blank 😔

Yes, it is blank for me too ... I did see it working this morning even!
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Posted: 16 years ago
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There is one suggestion to solve Mili's problem to go abroad. The 80K ring that Abhi gave Simi can be utilised to gather money for Mili. Oh Simi just had to tell him about Mili, he would have just done that. I am sure he will be happy that money is put to use cos anyways madam simi is not wearing the ring.
What u all say??
yaar, problems toh hoti rahegi...
its ok if they dont confess also. Atleast Simi should not move in the direction of shaadi with Nakul. Extend your commitment and then fight for the rest of your useless family. in the process who all is she hurting? Does your heart permit to stamp upon such a wonderful person as Abhi and start living with nakul ?What will happen he comes to know later in that he is a man of old ideologies? This is cheating. Cheating two men at the same time for an unappreciative lot.
I never watched any serial in my life cos i cant manage the useless tension. And this time i am trapped. i cant let go also. i have been trying to seriously be positive and optimist about the show but i think i would decide otherwise.
Girls, its seriously been affecting my work culture also. i was wondering a week ago, i was discussing the show with my colleague and you know i used to actually laugh at people who used to. this is something of a surprise to my friend too.
This Monday (TONIGHT) I am deciding whether to continue watching this or not. I hate to watch nonsensical melodrama.
Edited by mesimi - 16 years ago
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: mesimi

There is one suggestion to solve Mili's problem to go abroad. The 80K ring that Abhi gave Simi can be utilised to gather money for Mili. Oh Simi just had to tell him about Mili, he would have just done that. I am sure he will be happy that money is put to use cos anyways madam simi is not wearing the ring.

What u all say??
yaar, problems toh hoti rahegi...
its ok if they dont confess also. Atleast Simi should not move in the direction of shaadi with Nakul. Extend your commitment and then fight for the rest of your useless family. in the process who all is she hurting? Does your heart permit to stamp upon such a wonderful person as Abhi and start living with nakul ?What will happen he comes to know later in that he is a man of old ideologies? This is cheating. Cheating two men at the same time for an unappreciative lot.
I never watched any serial in my life cos i cant manage the useless tension. And this time i am trapped. i cant let go also. i have been trying to seriously be positive and optimist about the show but i think i would decide otherwise.
Girls, its seriously been affecting my work culture also. i was wondering a week ago, i was discussing the show with my colleague and you know i used to actually laugh at people who used to. this is something of a surprise to my friend too.
This Monday (TONIGHT) I am deciding whether to continue watching this or not. I hate to watch nonsensical melodrama.

sames happening with me.. I too used to hate discussing TV serial ad movies with others and hence used to not watch it. wonder how i got stuck to this show.
u right simis is cheating 2 people , coz she cannot decide her future .
Can understand she cant wear the ring , because they might ask at how from where did she get such expensive ring, but she could have told abhi, that she cant were but she will always keep it with her.
anyways letsee what she will tell today
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: mesimi

There is one suggestion to solve Mili's problem to go abroad. The 80K ring that Abhi gave Simi can be utilised to gather money for Mili. Oh Simi just had to tell him about Mili, he would have just done that. I am sure he will be happy that money is put to use cos anyways madam simi is not wearing the ring.

What u all say??
yaar, problems toh hoti rahegi...
its ok if they dont confess also. Atleast Simi should not move in the direction of shaadi with Nakul. Extend your commitment and then fight for the rest of your useless family. in the process who all is she hurting? Does your heart permit to stamp upon such a wonderful person as Abhi and start living with nakul ?What will happen he comes to know later in that he is a man of old ideologies? This is cheating. Cheating two men at the same time for an unappreciative lot.
I never watched any serial in my life cos i cant manage the useless tension. And this time i am trapped. i cant let go also. i have been trying to seriously be positive and optimist about the show but i think i would decide otherwise.
Girls, its seriously been affecting my work culture also. i was wondering a week ago, i was discussing the show with my colleague and you know i used to actually laugh at people who used to. this is something of a surprise to my friend too.
This Monday (TONIGHT) I am deciding whether to continue watching this or not. I hate to watch nonsensical melodrama.

In life when we shouldn't look at something, we still continue to look at it because we know it's bad for us😛. Plus we'd miss you if you didn't. I promise myself all the time I won't, but I do. It's highly addicting - like a drug we know is bad for us.
Believe me, I too never watched any dramas - ever. I used to make fun of them and the people who watched them. I just happened to fall across this show by chance and thought, wow, this show actually has some substance to it. They don't have this glamous leading lady and she's dealing with a real issue. I actually cared about the character. I even started to root for her and sympathized with her predicament.
When Abhi came into the storyline and RB left, I wondered how they would take the story further. Where would they find "conflict" in the story? They found it by brining in waste of time Nukul and turning Anita and Anuj into mean characters for no apparent reason. They had two characters fall in love so fast (when it was the developing romance that was the highlight of the show).
Before I actually cared as I liked the Abhi-Simi jodi, but now I cannot stand Simi and find Abhi's character completely destroyed and demoralized. If they never go to together it would never bother me. For me there is no chemistry left. I am watching in the hope that Abhi will grow a spine and walk away from Simi and watch her suffer (sick aren't I😉😆). Yep, we all have our reasons😛
Do stay - we'll miss you if you're gone 😭 Think of it as a guilty pleasure (or torture) and remember we're here to cry and lament with you. Remember you are not alone.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Guys we all are upset and angry but we stay together thru thick and thin like sethis do actually they are leaving one by one. But then we aren't like sethis. If you can't bare to watch just read updates and then watch only if it is worth watching.We all hang in here like a family and come for each other. Serial has to get better.
we all know abhi and simi can not live without each other so they will find a way back to each other or let us say matarani willl help them defeating evil forces.
In bad times let the creatity of the forum flourish.

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