MN love may not be perfect, but neither is life..

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Hey everyone!!

We have all sort of accepted the fact that that mjht is going the saas bahu way......with all the possible family drama, marriage and all. Can't keep banging our head over the same thing again and again if no one's there to listen so guess we can safely keep that aside.

Talking about characters and the actors performances in todays episode. There have been endless posts saying Mayank's character has been butchered or nupur being irresponsible......but if u keep aside the disliking for the current track how exactly are their character butchered? ( considering past couple of weeks here)

Mayank......I hated when he used the ladder to meet nupur. To a point where i stopped watching the show just read updates. But then what got me back was his constant guilt of doing something like that. He hated himself for loosing control. He after speaking to his mom knew exactly what he needed to do. Yes that ladder scene was a huge sway in his character but who doesn't make mistakes. Don't we all at some point.....?? Important is to realise your mistake, not repeat it in future....and try to correct it.........exactly what mayank is doing right now.

Nupur - Nupur's character surely has been played with several times but in past couple of weeks she has been totally in character or i should say in her best character.......accepting her love for mayank in front of bui with mayank's support........showed that she truly loves mayank and will face anything if he is with her.......that's a plus
the way she described mayank in front of bauji......that showed her love, her faith in him, her strength and confidence......that's a plus.....
and now her running off.....i don't know how many people here have experienced such adverse situations but when some random guy is already in your house with a ring and his family.......and no one is listening to u......people sometimes do things that are last resorts......and for nupur this was her last resort.......she tried every possible thing......but failed.....it was now or never for her........so her not telling her sister or not caring abt her parents emotions are irrelevant things right now........her life is at stake.......she might be wrong but sometimes some situations call for it and the line b/w right and wrong becomes bleak.......as Mayank rightly put there are no retakes in life......!!!

To be very frank if my parents hooked me up to a guy like adhi no offense to adhi ji i'd not only flee but flee to the african jungle and marry some african "adhi"waasi there instead......

About the scene......

I loved every second of it.....
Mayank was concerned about her when he came to know she was not at her home......and the min. he saw her.....he was relieved, happy and in a second switched to being concerned again this time about the consequences of her being here......He was totally mayank sharma a guy who can keep his cool, stay calm and think rationally in tough situations......He made a mistake earlier and at no cost he was going to make another one or let nupur make one.
Nupur was scared and under a lot of stress.....he was amazing at helping her calm down and then the way he explained his POV only showed the integrity of this guy. He cares for her family and would never hurt them......but at the same time he loves nupur to death and will never let her go away from him either.....He is confident of himself and that confidence gave nupur much needed relief and courage......

Nupur on the other hand was totally nupur.......under such situation she reacted exactly how a girl like nupur wud. She was scared of loosing the love of her life........her childhood dream of marrying her rajkumar was being shattered.....she was scared and lost. She was helpless yet knew she had to do something. So she flee......she is not the girl who wud commit suicide or give up rather she will fight even if her way is wrong to some........but it was just a desperate act.....that's why mayank was able to talk her out of it within no time.

I have to add these two are perfect.........they exactly know how to handle each other......

Over time their relationship has matured and it was very well shown in todays episode.......

Hats off to Arjun and Rati for their flawless and brilliant performances!!!!!

No offense to anyone intended it's just my POV.....

Thanks
Muskan

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Muski 🤗

I m glad we did get this chance to post such a wonderful take on MN love...considering the last few episodes and our varying (read-lack of) interest levels..

OFcourse the shaadi track itself - no comments :D

On MN though I have loads to say 😃

When I saw the precap of the infamous ladder scene, I had almost said my final byes to MJHT :))
but strangely (& thankfully) a chunk of the offensive dialogue was taken off from the main episode...
(thank Cvs for small mercies) ....
Though I admit I dint watch that bit, from what I heard it wasnt that bad :)

I'd like to rewind a little here today -

The day when Mayank apologised to bui ,that day was remarkable in terms of the understanding in their relationship..they are as different as 2 people can ever be, yet that scene was love

Love- thats never perfect but all encompassing..

I loved the bit where MN declare their love to Bui, as much as Bui failed to understand it, the girl in love Nupur, fought with all her fears and declared her love for Mayank in front of Bui.

Then again, the way Nupur stood up for her love to her Bauji...trying to tell him endless number of times the qualities of the guy she loves. It takes courage and a huge amount of confidence in the person you love to do that.

Then again, when Nupur spoke to Mayank on the phone on the day of the engagement, the girl was dismayed by the fact that he had said that she should probably get engaged to Adhiraj...
She was Nupur Bhushan and not even Mayank sharma could ask her to get engaged to anyone else but him. She was angry with him and rightly so, because, she loved him. Now thats love for in all its imperfections.

Coming to today's scene...

The very fact that she decides to leave behind her house is nothing but her desperation, she is madly in love with Mayank and is being forced to marry someone else, she wouldnt want to marry him even if he were the prince of Indore leave alone the guy in question.

Since the only people who can stop the wedding, Bauji and Bui were not listening to her.
And since the groom himself is on a ego-trip, she is left with no option but to find an alternate route.
Being filmy and because she saw no other option she fled rather than have anybody other than Mayank slip the ring on her finger.
Those were her convictions.

When she reaches MAyank , they immediately seek comfort in each other.
Then when she says we need to run away , he stops her and tries to explain his POV.
HEre is the case of opposing views and perfect love.
We all have opposing views, it takes true love to actually overcome the opposition and decide on something in common.

How much ever he was against the idea of her fleeing, he loved it that she did it for him and his love 😊

How much ever she felt the need to disagree, she realised he loved her and wanted to make her his with the consent of her family. 😊

The part where Mayank gets her to look at his eyes and asks her what she sees, she actually says "me" to which he says and my love for u and smiles.
They have finally found the common ground :) Love has got them together.
Also, when Mayank tries to explain to Nupur in filmy style when Nupur responds in a rather Mayank like manner that films are not reality...its picture perfect.

Love may not be perfect but some moments in love surely are,
today I'd say we witnessed some perfect moments of love in a perfectly flawed couple.

Just like life...its these moments that make our day...




Edited by myownarea - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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my comments on Page 5

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great post muski!!!!!!!!👏

Initialy if some one told me that one day mayank will bring a ladder to meet nupur..& nupur will run away from her engagement .....i would hv stopped watchin mjht.........but i must say glad i watch it till.........
coz in mayank & nupur i get to c some realistic touch which i don't find in other characters........
mayank sharma...a perfecshionins character........but he is also a human being who can make mistakes.........when that ladder scene was happening he was in dilemma.about his own action.still he did that coz the gal he loves most in the world was in pain........& belive me ppl can take any step to remove the pain of their loved ones.......Mayank is not an exception..& i m glad he is not.😃

Nupur.......many ppl will think how can nupur run away from her engagemnt without thinking abt her father.......i m happy she did make that mistake........if like all other serial they showed it that nupur , sacrificing her love thinking abt her family's pride(which is not realistic at alli!).......& getting engaged to adhiraj.......it will probably ruin her character.........coz she is soooo not like that kind of filmy heroine.she is realistic & believable.she fights for her love., like todays gal, she cannot take any decision impose to her by her family , she tried hard to prove her pov,she defended Mayank infront of bui & babuji.she tried her best to stop this engagement...but still her father took that decision of her engagement without even listening to her.& that too at that very same day!!!!!.....when she knows that mayank is the perfect guy for her & it is just that her father is misunderstanding him........& had no time left.coz the groom in in downstairs.what else could she possibly do??????? what her father did was a wrong& hurried step for her.& being her father's daughter she also took that hurried decision to flew away to her love.

Then..finally when Nupur met mayank.....what we c.....we c how beautifully two completely opposite ppl can make a relationship work..if only understanding between each other is there.......it was mayank this time who convinced nupur that what she did was wrong.......& she should go back............
in life........when two ppl fall in love .it is not always about who did what mistakes.mistakes can be done by human being, but how together we can correct that mistake is more important. when one fall other one catches.when one make mistake other one try to show it & then correct it together.thats the beauty of a relationship.
Mayank & Nupur is not perfect, both of them made some mistakes.......but they also know how to learn from the mistakes & how to correct them & that is one thing they did perfectly today.....😃

& not forget , AB & RP..did awesome job again.with their brilliant performance......& make Mayank & nupur so believable to us...........👏 👏 👏


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Edited by Mou. - 15 years ago
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Absolutely beautifully explained Muski. I was extremely disappointed as well with the way Mayank used the ladder to meet Nupur and Nupur on the other hand didn't stay behind, she climbed the ladder down and met her love, yes everyone commits mistakes, love can never be a barrier between two people, infact it is the most beautiful thing that can ever happen to a person and i also agree with the fact that Mayank did not do a wise thing by using the ladder to prove his love, but after today's episode, everything changed my mind, Mayank convinced Nupur to keep aside every pain of hers and to get back home so that Mayank can be accepted by one & all. I completely loved today's MayUr moments, they both were fabulous as always, superb acting by Rati - with fear, pain, sadness, emotions, love and security. She was brilliant and Arjun with that innocence on his face was a scene to watch out for. ArTi were just too flawless today. Hats off to these two fine actors!
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hey muskan.............
u exactly said everything whc i feel.........🤗🤗
ur every single word is so true.........👍🏼
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Originally posted by: myownarea

Muski 🤗

I m glad we did get this chance to post such a wonderful take on MN love...considering the last few episodes and our varying (read-lack of) interest levels..

OFcourse the shaadi track itself - no comments :D

On MN though I have loads to say 😃

When I saw the precap of the infamous ladder scene, I had almost said my final byes to MJHT :))
but strangely (& thankfully) a chunk of the offensive dialogue was taken off from the main episode...
(thank Cvs for small mercies) ....
Though I admit I dint watch that bit, from what I heard it wasnt that bad :)

I'd like to rewind a little here today -

The day when Mayank apologised to bui ,that day was remarkable in terms of the understanding in their relationship..they are as different as 2 people can ever be, yet that scene was love

Love- thats never perfect but all encompassing..

I loved the bit where MN declare their love to Bui, as much as Bui failed to understand it, the girl in love Nupur, fought with all her fears and declared her love for Mayank in front of Bui.

Then again, the way Nupur stood up for her love to her Bauji...trying to tell him endless number of times the qualities of the guy she loves. It takes courage and a huge amount of confidence in the person you love to do that.

Then again, when Nupur spoke to Mayank on the phone on the day of the engagement, the girl was dismayed by the fact that he had said that she should probably get engaged to Adhiraj...
She was Nupur Bhushan and not even Mayank sharma could ask her to get engaged to anyone else but him. She was angry with him and rightly so, because, she loved him. Now thats love for in all its imperfections.

Coming to today's scene...

The very fact that she decides to leave behind her house is nothing but her desperation, she is madly in love with Mayank and is being forced to marry someone else, she wouldnt want to marry him even if he were the prince of Indore leave alone the guy in question.

Since the only people who can stop the wedding, Bauji and Bui were not listening to her.
And since the groom himself is on a ego-trip, she is left with no option but to find an alternate route.
Being filmy and because she saw no other option she fled rather than have anybody other than Mayank slip the ring on her finger.
Those were her convictions.

When she reaches MAyank , they immediately seek comfort in each other.
Then when she says we need to run away , he stops her and tries to explain his POV.
HEre is the case of opposing views and perfect love.
We all have opposing views, it takes true love to actually overcome the opposition and decide on something in common.

How much ever he was against the idea of her fleeing, he loved it that she did it for him and his love 😊

How much ever she felt the need to disagree, she realised he loved her and wanted to make her his with the consent of her family. 😊

The part where Mayank gets her to look at his eyes and asks her what she sees, she actually says "me" to which he says and my love for u and smiles.
They have finally found the common ground :) Love has got them together.
Also, when Mayank tries to explain to Nupur in filmy style when Nupur responds in a rather Mayank like manner that films are not reality...its picture perfect.

Love may not be perfect but some moments in love surely are,
today I'd say we witnessed some perfect moments of love in a perfectly flawed couple.

Just like life...its these moments that make our day...




I have yet to write my take on this post... BTW.. love your post Muskan...👏
Coming back to Divz post... 👏
@Bold - how beautifully written Divz.... I love MN... a perfectly flawed couple...
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Posted: 15 years ago
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u could not agree more
nicely explained 😊
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Originally posted by: myownarea

Muski 🤗

I m glad we did get this chance to post such a wonderful take on MN love...considering the last few episodes and our varying (read-lack of) interest levels..

OFcourse the shaadi track itself - no comments :D

On MN though I have loads to say 😃

When I saw the precap of the infamous ladder scene, I had almost said my final byes to MJHT :))
but strangely (& thankfully) a chunk of the offensive dialogue was taken off from the main episode...
(thank Cvs for small mercies) ....
Though I admit I dint watch that bit, from what I heard it wasnt that bad :)

I'd like to rewind a little here today -

The day when Mayank apologised to bui ,that day was remarkable in terms of the understanding in their relationship..they are as different as 2 people can ever be, yet that scene was love

Love- thats never perfect but all encompassing..

I loved the bit where MN declare their love to Bui, as much as Bui failed to understand it, the girl in love Nupur, fought with all her fears and declared her love for Mayank in front of Bui.

Then again, the way Nupur stood up for her love to her Bauji...trying to tell him endless number of times the qualities of the guy she loves. It takes courage and a huge amount of confidence in the person you love to do that.

Then again, when Nupur spoke to Mayank on the phone on the day of the engagement, the girl was dismayed by the fact that he had said that she should probably get engaged to Adhiraj...
She was Nupur Bhushan and not even Mayank sharma could ask her to get engaged to anyone else but him. She was angry with him and rightly so, because, she loved him. Now thats love for in all its imperfections.

Coming to today's scene...

The very fact that she decides to leave behind her house is nothing but her desperation, she is madly in love with Mayank and is being forced to marry someone else, she wouldnt want to marry him even if he were the prince of Indore leave alone the guy in question.

Since the only people who can stop the wedding, Bauji and Bui were not listening to her.
And since the groom himself is on a ego-trip, she is left with no option but to find an alternate route.
Being filmy and because she saw no other option she fled rather than have anybody other than Mayank slip the ring on her finger.
Those were her convictions.

When she reaches MAyank , they immediately seek comfort in each other.
Then when she says we need to run away , he stops her and tries to explain his POV.
HEre is the case of opposing views and perfect love.
We all have opposing views, it takes true love to actually overcome the opposition and decide on something in common.

How much ever he was against the idea of her fleeing, he loved it that she did it for him and his love 😊

How much ever she felt the need to disagree, she realised he loved her and wanted to make her his with the consent of her family. 😊

The part where Mayank gets her to look at his eyes and asks her what she sees, she actually says "me" to which he says and my love for u and smiles.
They have finally found the common ground :) Love has got them together.
Also, when Mayank tries to explain to Nupur in filmy style when Nupur responds in a rather Mayank like manner that films are not reality...its picture perfect.

Love may not be perfect but some moments in love surely are,
today I'd say we witnessed some perfect moments of love in a perfectly flawed couple.

Just like life...its these moments that make our day...





just awesummmmmmmm............loved it 2 bitssss😳
it was a beautiful mayur moment watchable after longg
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Posted: 15 years ago
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hey muski!! love ur takes like anything!!
i know like forget abt the track...just be situational here 😆
lolz mayank...mayank mayank mayank 😆 😆....me wanted to burn the seedi off first no offence 😆 😆...i know mayank is all abt finding solutions to the touhest problems in his own way....but then again mayank is a human.....i guess for the first tym he was confused.... as his mother said later ki thande dimaag se socho.....but his dimaag was not thanda...loads and really loads of stuff going over there.....at last he said chuck it....the most imp thing for him tat tym was to see nupur...yahhe ot carried away and made a mistake....and as u say has been repenting since then.....he was shaken after tat incident..then thanks to his mum he got some confidence....and since then he started thinking like mayank and again....he messed it up b4 so he's taking each step carefully....thande dimaag se 😊....no wonder he decided to wait for his mum....but its obvious for nupur to get panicked...ek toh she's stuck up in the house....she never expected bauji to take a descision in haste and refuse to listen to her wish and opinion on the marriage...over se buiji getting all exited abt the event...over that when she heard mayank had not spoken to his mum when the engagement is few hrs away its obv for anyone to freak out....and cummon no one is in his or her mind when in such drastic situations...call it selfish or watever.....
ok coming to te todays scene....it started with a fantastic hug (*sigh ArTi!! how the hell do u do it 😍).... i mean perfect expressions of longing for each other.....nupur's tears are so not cliched yaar!! and mayank was glad he cud see her and then concerned wat is she doing here....she said she's left everything....poor gal didn't even complete her sentence....she was hyper wanted to run away....he was "thand: lolz....he was like is she in her mind...she spoke out she loved him there's no way she getting engaged to someone else....he puts his finger on her lips to stop her and basically cool and calm her down (thanda dimag works 😉)....then i saw mayank...he was back...and h did wat he did the best....explaining the situation to her, calming her down ...wiping away her tears....and sayin tat y fear when he is here.....he asked her tat if she trusted him, then there was no need for her to run away...he said her not to worry....he's there always there for her....he said tat they made a mistake....they made an impression tat they'll be happy without the blessings of their elders. so it was obvious of bauji to be naraz...he assures her tat he'll make her his with their blessings....u cud she tat determination...wow! plus nupur got it his pt...she knew he was rite...tats y she hugged him asked him ki wat shud she do??? but then nupur bahut acchi hai😆 😆....mayan ne samjhaya ur nupur na samjhe😆.....and then he gets into his jollyness....how i love it when he jokes to make the environment light......he has done it a lot of tyms!! i absolutely adored it when he said tat u know the diff b/w reality and movies (awww!!!)....
performances toh....do i needto say more....ArTi looked extremely adorable esp when
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