If we were in Jyothi's place...?

Hi
I want to know whether you will tell your future husband about your past relationship?please reply honestly.Because this situation will happen in our lives also.

depnds on the mentality of the spouse...says jyoti had a loser hubby like brij then hell would break loose if she told him the past...but knowing pankaj ...she did wrong she should have come clean. but i think she did try to tell him n he stopped her before marriage from telling her past...so y is he blaming her now.

The idea of fessing up b4 marriage, if possible, is to give the would-be/would-not-be spouse the opportunity to opt out, if he was uncomfortable w/ this truth. So if Jyoti told someone like Brij something like this and he freaked out, Jyoti could then let go of him and move on - she doesn't owe it to herself to make her own life miserable just b'cos the guy she thought loved her isn't willing to accept certain pasts.

So let's say Jyoti had told Sachin b4 marriage that she had a sis who married her ex, and Sachin didn't like that she had an ex in the first place, he wouldn't have married Jyoti, both of them would have been untainted, and Jyoti would have been at liberty to look for a guy who was willing to accept those past facts.

That's the whole idea - it isn't to lock the guy you're interested in, come what may.

i think it's of utmost importance to be completely honest with someone you are considering to spend the rest of your life with. it's better the truth comes from you then they hear it from someone else. it's best not to assume anything about them, especially that they won't mind if you had a boy/girlfriend prior to you marriage with them.