simi weds nakul..!!? - Page 2

Originally posted by: Laila2009

Sacrificial women are very popular; think about all the J. Om Parkash films, and women who are willing to put themselves first are considered selfish and evil. Typically writers assume that women who do this should be admired hence the reason Abhi fell for Simi. Simi has already done all of this before with RB and we see she has not learned anything. She is not doing what is right; all she is doing is reinforcing behaviors that her deplorable from stealing, lying, to cheating. So Anuj feels bad about being thrown out of the house, but it not willing to do anything?

Simi should have answered back and said, Anita, did you think perhaps Anuj might not be feeling well because his guilt is getting to him? Yep, he can come back to his house, but only after he gives back the money and apologizes, and then walk away.

Yes, Abhi will stand there with his mitaai ka diba with tears of sadness in his eyes. He will probably say some stupid lines about how he respects Simi's sacrifice for her family and how he is willing to give up his love for her too because he has learned what a mahaan thing it is to do. Blah blah blah.

The show might even play out Ekta Kapoor style where Simi and Nukul actually fall in love (hey, there was some show with five sisters and the leading actress went through a couple of marriages until five years later she married the hero in the last episode - no I never watched this drama - just read it on wikipedia and thought eeeeeeewwww). So far the ratings are going up...

Even if Simi does not wed Nukul, then what? Manju will look for another guy for her as will Mrs. Tarneja. So Simi's decison to discourage Abhi to ask for her hand in marriage, is not a wise move at all. If she stalls her marriage to Abhi, then is she going to stall her marriage to Nukul? She has not done anything to stop it - she's visiting the guy with her father, couldn't she have made up an excuse?

These are the flaws I see in the show and the reason yesterday's episode just did not appeal to me. Plus Abhi thinking everything is a test from Simi and he keeps doing all these things for her? Why doesn't he just take over his father's businesses? That's a career in and of itself.

O well, it's only an Indian drama after all😆.

Originally posted by: Laila2009

Sahanaya,

If Simi does make that ultimate scarifice, like I wrote, the writers will have Abhi patting her on the bag and cheering on and giving his support to her by sacrificing his love for her. Two loves sacrificing their love for what? Anuj? 🤢 I am sorry, I don't find this sacrificing an admirable characteristic when it reinforces such awful behavior. People who do this really are not doing anyone any good.

I don't have a problem either if they don't marry; I was not happy that they rushed the romance either, but we are here at a stage where we could at least secure their rishta in order to stop all this Dagar type people coming in and out of her life and have a whole load of Abhi-Simi scenes. But we are really deprived as an audience, and as I wrote, are thrown morsels that are often under the eye of someone either watching them or about to walk in on them.

Originally posted by: Laila2009

Sahanaya,

If Simi does make that ultimate scarifice, like I wrote, the writers will have Abhi patting her on the bag and cheering on and giving his support to her by sacrificing his love for her. Two loves sacrificing their love for what? Anuj? 🤢 I am sorry, I don't find this sacrificing an admirable characteristic when it reinforces such awful behavior. People who do this really are not doing anyone any good.

I don't have a problem either if they don't marry; I was not happy that they rushed the romance either, but we are here at a stage where we could at least secure their rishta in order to stop all this Dagar type people coming in and out of her life and have a whole load of Abhi-Simi scenes. But we are really deprived as an audience, and as I wrote, are thrown morsels that are often under the eye of someone either watching them or about to walk in on them.