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Posted: 15 years ago
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simi as being a gr88 sacrificial , if 4 her family she have to marry wid nakul ....she will marry him.....n im sure dat coming under anita's estimation i.e. wen anita emotionally do atyachar over simi dat marrying nakul will extremely accurate 4 her family....she blindly gonna trust her n will ready to marry nakul.... i know dat dis will for sure going to happen.....abhi will remain a cchhweet guest in simi's marry wid a sweet dish on his hand n his tears in his eyes.....as he always cry bcoz of simi.......😔

why don't simi understands dat if we will happy den only we can make others happy {especially including her not happening brother,mother}.......it sucks..!!@
seriously, now i m unwantedly hating simi......why she sacrifices a lot just like a mmaahhaann devi.....devi also not sacrifices unnecessarily 4 devils like-anita-anuj......😈
i think our frustration is accurrate as now we tired up by seeing dat much big sacrifices of simi.....
oh simi ji....aapki jai ho

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: sahanaya

simi as being a gr88 sacrificial , if 4 her family she have to marry wid nakul ....she will marry him.....n im sure dat coming under anita's estimation i.e. wen anita emotionally do atyachar over simi dat marrying nakul will extremely accurate 4 her family....she blindly gonna trust her n will ready to marry nakul.... i know dat dis will for sure going to happen.....abhi will remain a cchhweet guest in simi's marry wid a sweet dish on his hand n his tears in his eyes.....as he always cry bcoz of simi.......😔

why don't simi understands dat if we will happy den only we can make others happy {especially including her not happening brother,mother}.......it sucks..!!@
seriously, now i m unwantedly hating simi......why she sacrifices a lot just like a mmaahhaann devi.....devi also not sacrifices unnecessarily 4 devils like-anita-anuj......😈
i think our frustration is accurrate as now we tired up by seeing dat much big sacrifices of simi.....
oh simi ji....aapki jai ho

Sacrificial women are very popular; think about all the J. Om Parkash films, and women who are willing to put themselves first are considered selfish and evil. Typically writers assume that women who do this (sacrifice themselves) should be admired hence the reason Abhi fell for Simi. Simi has already done all this sacrificial stuff with before with RB and we see she has not learned anything. She is not doing what is right; all she is doing is reinforcing behaviors that her deplorable from stealing, lying, to cheating. So Anuj feels bad about being thrown out of the house, but it not willing to do anything? Why does Simi not acknowledge these flaws and blame herself instead?
Simi should have answered back and said, Anita, did you think perhaps Anuj might not be feeling well because his guilt is getting to him? Yep, he can come back to his house, but only after he gives back the money and apologizes, and then walk away.
Yes, Abhi will stand there with his mitaai ka diba with tears of sadness in his eyes. He will probably say some stupid lines about how he respects Simi's sacrifice for her family and how he is willing to give up his love for her too because he has learned what a mahaan thing it is to do. Blah blah blah.
The show might even play out Ekta Kapoor style where Simi and Nukul actually fall in love (hey, there was some show with five sisters and the leading actress went through a couple of marriages until five years later she married the hero in the last episode - no I never watched this drama - just read it on wikipedia and thought eeeeeeewwww). So far the ratings are going up...
Even if Simi does not wed Nukul, then what? Manju will look for another guy for her as will Mrs. Tarneja. So Simi's decison to discourage Abhi to ask for her hand in marriage, is not a wise move at all. If she stalls her marriage to Abhi, then is she going to stall her marriage to Nukul? She has not done anything to stop it - she's visiting the guy with her father, couldn't she have made up an excuse?
These are the flaws I see in the show and the reason yesterday's episode just did not appeal to me. Plus Abhi thinking everything is a test from Simi and he keeps doing all these things for her? Why doesn't he just take over his father's businesses? That's a career in and of itself.
O well, it's only an Indian drama after all😆.
Edited by Laila2009 - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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blame the typical men in this soceity!
They expect women to be sacrificial, its more appealing to them isnt it?
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Posted: 15 years ago
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No she wouldn't marry Nakul. The story is about older woman in love with younger man. So Abhi Simi will still be together. Its just a matter of time they cross hurdles together to get married eventually.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: mesimi

No she wouldn't marry Nakul. The story is about older woman in love with younger man. So Abhi Simi will still be together. Its just a matter of time they cross hurdles together to get married eventually.



I totally agree I look forward to this day with a big smile
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: Pattinson6



I totally agree I look forward to this day with a big smile

So the whole show is going to be about them struggling to get married and the last episode will be both of them getting married just before everyone says sorry and everyone forgives and forgets?
OK, I am just going to go to sleep - wake me up when they show the last episode, I will read the synoposis on wikipedia.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Dear Laila,
Dont worry. You still have to be awake for those wonderful Simbi moments in the process. Whats fun if they get married too quickly. It would be a lot more nicer if we get to see real life situations in such couples post marriage. But as you have earlier said, CV not willing to buy our ideas.
Do not sleep, your comments I look forward to
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: Laila2009

So the whole show is going to be about them struggling to get married and the last episode will be both of them getting married just before everyone says sorry and everyone forgives and forgets?

OK, I am just going to go to sleep - wake me up when they show the last episode, I will read the synoposis on wikipedia.



We know they will eventually confess all we have to wait a while but it's not serious all the wicked will apologized but that we want is just a series
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Girls Laila is actually frustrated she will go and take a danda and tell the CV's pleAASE CHANGE THE storyline wotherwise vohi zisa pita kahani is saal bhi humay nahi dekhna

Simi once says mai saab ki madad karti phirthi hoon aur aonay liya kuch bhi nahi !!! Arraey Simi 2010 u need to think abt urself since there are many selfish people around u
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: shanti05

Girls Laila is actually frustrated she will go and take a danda and tell the CV's pleAASE CHANGE THE storyline wotherwise vohi zisa pita kahani is saal bhi humay nahi dekhna

Simi once says mai saab ki madad karti phirthi hoon aur aonay liya kuch bhi nahi !!! Arraey Simi 2010 u need to think abt urself since there are many selfish people around u

I think we should think about other people, but more importantly, think about doing what is right. I don't believe it is right to absolve someone of such a horrible action of stealing money and not accepting fault in their actions. Taking someone's retirement money is theft. It's a horrible crime. The fact Simi does not hold her own brother accountable and immediately falls for a story from Anita really shows she has bad judgement.
To add to this, she keeps secrets from Abhi - the very person who kept such a big secret for her. The one person whom she should trust is the very person whom she is casting aside. On top of it, the person who is asking her to keep a secret is the very person who encouraged her brother to steal. As someone wrote, Simi is gulliable and that tragically is a virtue we admire in Indian society.
I believe goodness in character can be there in Simi without protraying her as a moron who falls for any sob story. It also tells me that the sacrificial value plays such an important role in Indian society today that this virtue is what attracted Abhi to Simi- nothing else.
Yes, I am frustrated as I feel rather betrayed by the creative team but it is my own fault to have expected more from them. After all, this is an Indian drama designed for Indian housewives for whom all these values matter. I am also more frustrated as last week I thought we were going to see a new Simi and now she's back to her old self again. It's as though the creative team cannot make up their mind how they want her protrayed.
On top of it, as a viewer, I believe we have hardly had any Abhi-Simi scenes and the ones we have people are consistently evaesdropping on them. Give them an entire episode that still would not be enough. As for rushing the romance, they already did that to me, so at least compenstate and give us some more scenes. Who cares about Neetu-Vicky and Mili and the unknown paying guest.
Edited by Laila2009 - 15 years ago

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