is Bhui right or wrong????

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Should bhui be slapping Nupur for not loving Adhiraj ?????????????????

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Posted: 15 years ago
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i dont think so because its Nupurs life and she should love who she wants to thats what i think

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Posted: 15 years ago
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maybe....i mean she raised both nupur and gunjan so she has a right to have an opinion...i dont know if she is mad at nupur for the love thing or because she was deceived by someone she helped raise from when she was a child...
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Posted: 15 years ago
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If she slapped nupur because of not loving Adhiraj then no it wasn't right at all, you can't force anyone in this matter but if bui slapped her because of the act that nupur put up then yes because it had gone too far.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I don't think Bui slapped Nupur for not loving Adhiraj - love is not something that can be forced down one's throat - but she slapped Nupur for lying to Adhiraj and Bui. For Bui - Nupur had turned the entire affair into a joke and as Bui said - She had lost face in front of the entire Morena/biradiri. I can understand Bui's anger - however, I can't understand the slap.
I don't think slapping is a solution - and hitting the face of a near adult child is an absolute No No in my book!! The key to solving the problem is communication and reasoning with a child. Slapping is never going to change the child's mind - and in fact depending on the child will either make the child more stubborn or I guess give in because he/she is afraid of further violence/abuse. Bui has never spent the time to try and understand what her nieces want and to talk to them. She has never really tried to listen to see if her nieces are ready to get married or if they have any dreams/aspirations - listen being the operative word. One would think - bui being a female would listen and understand her nieces more than the father - but infact as we saw in Morena - it is the father who is more prepared to listen and bui is the more rigid one.
The relationship that Mayank and his Mom have - both Gunjan and Nupur do not have that with their Bui.
I really hope that the CVs don't indulge in further slaps!!
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Posted: 15 years ago
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If she slapped Nupur because she doesn't love Adhiraj, well then that is wrong because it's Nupur's life and she can love anyone. Bui doesn't have the right to tell her. But if she slapped her for the act that was going on, then I understand and think it's sensible.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Is Bhui right or wrong. there is a similar topic regarding this that has been made prior.
Please discuss your view points here
http://www.india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=1308483


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