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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: *Woh Ajnabee*



Itna hi acha hai toh shaadi tum karlo na,Mohtarma, Hamare idhar Shaadi, Ladkiyose karti hey....?But hum kuch bi karene ke liye ready baite hey..koi thayaar nahe main kya karu...😕😛 mere dimaag kyon kha rahe ho? --Ye achi baat nahe Empty dimaag rakthi hey phi khaliya khaliya bolega tho acha nahe lagte...okkk 😕

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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: *Woh Ajnabee*


Itna hi acha hai toh shaadi tum karlo na, mere dimaag kyon kha rahe ho?



Why don't you ask him to pass the proposal through my supervision first. Lets see if the dude is willing to endure a Dark Lord Hades interrogation for marriage? 😆
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: return_to_hades



Why don't you ask him to pass the proposal through my supervision first, Lets see if the dude is willing to endure a Dark Lord Hades interrogation for marriage? 😆--- ho no...UN inspection zarrori hey!?! 😉

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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: cuckoocutter

yeah characteristics A, Zztop, acdc, n union of characteristics in sets f4 thru g9 n k3 thru k27 r very attractive. however make sure to lose those rangin fm peeXss3 to alpha19Omega. 😛

u get that right, i'll consider😉
lol how more cuckoo can all this get😆



Looks like no one could figure out the code language. Now what's the poor chap gonna do? Settle for the undeserved? ;)


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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: Perfangel5655

I care about both!! I am sure others do too. No matter how hot a guy is I can not like them or even think of them in a special way if I didn't feel drawn to some part of their personality.

I get drawn to people who have a sharp sense of humor. I am so attracted to witty people. Next in line is intelligence! I care about looks a lot too. 😃



Agree with you. Yeah, sharp sense of humor and wit attracts me too. Those kinda guys are simple irresistible. And even if they say that when you care about looks, you become superficial and whatever, I still do care about looks. Personality alone can't pull off what it takes for me to get attracted to someone.
I look for humility too.
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Posted: 16 years ago
#66

Originally posted by: Midnight_Shade



Looks like no one could figure out the code language. Now what's the poor chap gonna do? Settle for the undeserved? ;)


lol this is where user friendliness comes in. i got a soft touch-pad that girl can use to answer questions. results wld be printed out soon's she done the test😆
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Posted: 16 years ago
#67

Originally posted by: return_to_hades

Speaking of getting attracted to characteristics - what characteristics is everyone attracted to? Actually when you fall for someone can you really point out exactly what characteristic you like or does it just feel fuzzy in the head - that you like them, you don't know why but you simply do and it feels right.

Personally, I like sense of humor, intellect, integrity, character and down to earth nature.



Nope, when you (or me at least) fall for someone, you get blind. Rationality flies out of your mind and you fail to see what's right in front of your nose. You can't pinpoint what exactly you like about that person. Even if the one who you've fallen for has a somewhat crooked nose or a somewhat elongated chin, you find that guy the most good-looking guy on this earth. I guess that's the first stage of attraction. You just float on air for no reason and you find perfection in every single thing that person possesses and does coz you get prejudiced. Once you start interacting more with the guy and get over the first stage, you get to see all different layers of personalities the guy possesses, you get back to reality and that's when you decide whether you can accept the guy the way he is or not, i guess.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: gengarjetty2

Hey guys,
I guess you can like/have a crush/love a person either by his or her looks or by his or her personality.
I feel that getting attracted to the personality of another person is as wrong/dangerous as getting attracted to merely their looks. Just like you shouldn't get judge a book by its cover, you shouldn't judge a car by its features on the brochure. 😆

What do you think?

Personality = features on the brochure? 😆
That would be like the featured or advertised personality only ! Not the real one.
Anyways- i don't really think i know love or crush by experience - what i can say by experience is that its the connection that , if exists between me and the other person ,makes me want to talk to her more(or him for that matter). Humour , though an instant attraction, fails to get to me after a certain period of time. Same with all the nice things that in general we like- after a while its like - yeah that person is good- but aage kya?You need to have a certain unexpectedness about you. Therein, the brain comes in. A thinking, working brain would always be able to come up with something or other which makes sure that we are always on the edge while talking to the person with such a brain. If you share a problem in a group, there will always be some quick responses giving you instantaneous solution, and then there might be one person who comes up a bit late, but comes up with a path breaking solution nevertheless. Those are the kind of people that make an instant impression on me.
Maybe, i'll fall for the mind over anything else- but then abhi toh kaafi zindagi baaki hai😆 , let's see how life shapes up my views.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: return_to_hades

Speaking of getting attracted to characteristics - what characteristics is everyone attracted to? Actually when you fall for someone can you really point out exactly what characteristic you like or does it just feel fuzzy in the head - that you like them, you don't know why but you simply do and it feels right.

Personally, I like sense of humor, intellect, integrity, character and down to earth nature.



I look for the exact same.

Intellect, patience, understanding, sense of humour, character, down to earth nature and temper (prefer very little temper because I have enough to last for a lifetime).
Edited by Gossip Girl - 16 years ago

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