Originally posted by: gengarjetty2
Hey guys,
I guess you can like/have a crush/love a person either by his or her looks or by his or her personality.
I feel that getting attracted to the personality of another person is as wrong/dangerous as getting attracted to merely their looks. Just like you shouldn't get judge a book by its cover, you shouldn't judge a car by its features on the brochure. 😆
What do you think?
Personality = features on the brochure? 😆
That would be like the featured or advertised personality only ! Not the real one.
Anyways- i don't really think i know love or crush by experience - what i can say by experience is that its the connection that , if exists between me and the other person ,makes me want to talk to her more(or him for that matter). Humour , though an instant attraction, fails to get to me after a certain period of time. Same with all the nice things that in general we like- after a while its like - yeah that person is good- but aage kya?You need to have a certain unexpectedness about you. Therein, the brain comes in. A thinking, working brain would always be able to come up with something or other which makes sure that we are always on the edge while talking to the person with such a brain. If you share a problem in a group, there will always be some quick responses giving you instantaneous solution, and then there might be one person who comes up a bit late, but comes up with a path breaking solution nevertheless. Those are the kind of people that make an instant impression on me.
Maybe, i'll fall for the mind over anything else- but then abhi toh kaafi zindagi baaki hai😆 , let's see how life shapes up my views.