Getting attracted to characteristics?

Originally posted by: gengarjetty2

Hey guys,
I guess you can like/have a crush/love a person either by his or her looks or by his or her personality.
I feel that getting attracted to the personality of another person is as wrong/dangerous as getting attracted to merely their looks. Just like you shouldn't get judge a book by its cover, you shouldn't judge a car by its features on the brochure. 😆

What do you think?

Originally posted by: gengarjetty2

Hey guys,
I guess you can like/have a crush/love a person either by his or her looks or by his or her personality.
I feel that getting attracted to the personality of another person is as wrong/dangerous as getting attracted to merely their looks. Just like you shouldn't get judge a book by its cover, you shouldn't judge a car by its features on the brochure. 😆

What do you think?

For me, its the connection that matters so personality I guess.

Why would it be wrong to get attracted to an impressive personality at all? I cant really comprehend the topic since I dont see a clear answer to it...would you mind elaborating on it a bit more?

Originally posted by: ania_91

Why would it be wrong to get attracted to an impressive personality at all? I cant really comprehend the topic since I dont see a clear answer to it...would you mind elaborating on it a bit more?

Originally posted by: gengarjetty2

like i said, we can fall in love either by attraction due to :
looks
personality(behaviour and stuff)
and many other reasons, but I am talking abt going merely by personality:

eg, say you like this boy because he was charming,witty,successful etc, but later find out he's an a hole.. somethin like tht

Originally posted by: *Woh Ajnabee*

But that has nothing to do with him. That would simply be your fault for misjudging someone's character. Like I said in my earlier post, you're falling in love or are attracted to something that's not there or rather something you wish was there. Either way, its your fault, don't take things at face value.

Originally posted by: *Woh Ajnabee*

But that has nothing to do with him. That would simply be your fault for misjudging someone's character. Like I said in my earlier post, you're falling in love or are attracted to something that's not there or rather something you wish was there. Either way, its your fault, don't take things at face value.