Holding hands, hugging and the odd peck?

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Posted: 16 years ago
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Alright, is it just me but don't you think it is about time Abhi hugged Simi? No-more accidental slips by Simi into Abhi's arms where she hangs (and I mean that literally) there in a really awkward and uncomfortable position while the camera spins around (that really starts to get me dizzy). 😕
Serious, is there something taboo about hugging between these two characters or is there a problem with the two actors playing their part? Do they feel awkward hugging each other? It really does seem that way.
They've held hands, and give each other these long hypnotic stares. I'm surprised neither actor bursts out laughing it looks so unreal (o, and the camera also spins around here). 😆
I do realize we can't expect a kiss - after all this is India and we don't do that on tv 😉 But seriously, even in the kitchen scene (the night he gives her the bell), it would have really added to the scene if he had at least hugged her when he grabbed her away from the fridge. Instead the moment it looked distant and polite when he just grabbed her hand. 😔
Well, at least we have hope for a hug in Ramas' storyline ☺️😍
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Yeaah a hug would be great in the kitchen scene 😃 I hope that they will hug somewhere..of course Simi is very careful and doesnt want to hug everywhere. And its not a Simi thing I think, so let Abhi be the naughy hugger hahaha. Kitchen would have been great, but now that Abhi can't come in the house they should hug somewhere else 😛 So I agree with ya 😳

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Posted: 16 years ago
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I do not think we take v see Abhi in his Simi arm soon
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Posted: 16 years ago
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I think .. Them holding hands is already a big deal since most of the time they don't even "talk" ...So hugging and holding hands... Next to impossible =.=
Why is she always falling into his arms... 'sigh just make them hug in real...
I don't see what's wrong with hugging? It would really add a new turn to their level of relationship and..Well if they hugged during the kitchen scene, at least they would have the reassurance that they're not alone, they got each other..
I'm feeling pretty m/b/sad cuz the story...No doubt it's getting interesting but all characters seem to change... Especially Anita =.=
Worst of all...That perfect chemistry seems to be fading =[ Urghhh creatives... Don't ruin it! ...
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Posted: 16 years ago
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is a rational relationship I do not see physical yet Abhi will always be assured for the comforting words not through with gestures
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: Pattinson6

is a rational relationship I do not see physical yet Abhi will always be assured for the comforting words not through with gestures

How is that possible when they hardly ever talk ? >< Even if they do Simi is always asking him to leave because of the fear that someone might see them... So I don't think there are any comforting words to fill in the gap :( .. She's just too focused on Nitu's problem and can't even spare any time for Abhi and his problems... That's just sad =[
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: .-Wish-.

How is that possible when they hardly ever talk ? >< Even if they do Simi is always asking him to leave because of the fear that someone might see them... So I don't think there are any comforting words to fill in the gap :( .. She's just too focused on Nitu's problem and can't even spare any time for Abhi and his problems... That's just sad =[


I agree but we all know as soon as the problem solution didn't she runs towards Abhi I am confident she is in the wrong place for them to talk and their relationship develops over the phone I notice it ( Simi) is more at ease on the phone in front
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Well,in India even Hugging is quite a taboo (Women from good families generally don't touch men-- even their 'lovers' ..... do analyse this by seeing some other traditional female characters in other serials for example Nahar-Saloni,Manav-Archana.....) the EYES DO THE ROMANCE{Which I think is Faaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaar more romantic 😍} than hugging/kissing as it connects 2 souls rather than just 2 bodies- which explains why Devdas died for Paro's sake though they hardly touched/kissed each other and nowadays couples cheat & Divorce even after living together n sleeping together 😳 }So I think whatever they're showing is 100% natural with regards to Indian Culture. That's the 'beauty' of Indian romance..subtle yet Sttttttttttttrong!!
Actually they're showing in this Drama that Rajinder sethi is hugging his daughters which is NOT what happens in reality..... girls DO NOT TOUCH other males in India,not even their fathers or brothers once they're teenagers.....
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Originally posted by: iamindian

Well,in India even Hugging is quite a taboo (Women from good families generally don't touch men-- even their 'lovers' ..... do analyse this by seeing some other traditional female characters in other serials for example Nahar-Saloni,Manav-Archana.....) the EYES DO THE ROMANCE{Which I think is Faaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaar more romantic 😍} than hugging/kissing as it connects 2 souls rather than just 2 bodies}so I think whatever they're showing is 100% natural with regards to Indian Culture.

That's really interesting. I guess this practice still continues in India as we hardly see it here in the west among a lot of my Indian friends (I guess we become too westernized). It just struck me as very odd as Neetu hugged Vicky (of course she did sleep with him too) and Anuj hugged Anita, and even the Seethis hugged each other. So the whole thing seemed rather odd.
So Simi is such a good girl, hugging Abhi would be out of the question until she got married??
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: Laila2009

That's really interesting. I guess this practice still continues in India as we hardly see it here in the west among a lot of my Indian friends (I guess we become too westernized). It just struck me as very odd as Neetu hugged Vicky (of course she did sleep with him too) and Anuj hugged Anita, and even the Seethis hugged each other. So the whole thing seemed rather odd.
So Simi is such a good girl, hugging Abhi would be out of the question until she got married??



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