How would you react in Simi's situation? - Page 2

Originally posted by: Desdemona

If I were in Simi's position, I will first try to reduce my weight by stopping to eat all junk food, parathas made of ghee. I will do some excersise, change my wardrobe and fill it with beautiful and

colourful dresses available all over karolbagh. I will stop sulking and utilise the opprtunity of working in the college to do reaeach, get higher qualification, get a job and settle with a nice mature person of the same profession. I would be an inspiration to my mother and bring change in her pessimistic views and let her enjoy her life as she had a nice family and good husband. What is this Simi doing with an young boy that too her brother's brother-in-law? Does she not know the nature of his parents? She is just a gone case.

well desdemona i dont agree with you.....you are right in perspective of reducing weight and having good dresses....but gaining success and good life partner in life is not an easy task or life never exactly happens as one thinks.....bother's brother in law is not an issue here😊....This is just constructive reality of society that an elder girl shouldnot marry younger boy...whats the problem in this if two people care for each other,love each other,understand each other etc....when there are lot of positive factors than why one should care for such little age difference.....5 year difference is not a big deal if we take into account other factors😊

first of all if and only If....sigh .....I had a friend like Abhi in my Life then I would react exactly the same way as Simi did........since she knows hes there for her no matter what and so woh uspar haq jata sakti hain ...

Originally posted by: nayabgillani

simi didnt say these lines intentionally.....may be Abhi was thinking that Simi needs only good friend to take care of her but he was not aware that Simi also wants to be loved by someone😭...so in confusion in order to make Abhi understand about her need of love,Simi said "lakin tum pyar to nahi kartay mujh say"and Abhi got shocked😲.....so Simi did very right and natural⭐️😊.....as for as myself is concerned; after uttering such kind of words(though unintensionally) infront of my friend i ll hesitate 😳to meet him again unless and untill my friend calls me and says everything is oke😊😃...........

Interesting observation. I never looked at the scene with that in mind. It certainly gives an interesting perspectve and insight into what was behind Simi's intentions when she made that comment.

Originally posted by: Laila2009

Interesting observation. I never looked at the scene with that in mind. It certainly gives an interesting perspectve and insight into what was behind Simi's intentions when she made that comment.

😊 THANX Laila2009 for appreciating my views

nayabgillani

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well desdemona i dont agree with you.....you are right in perspective of reducing weight and having good dresses....but gaining success and good life partner in life is not an easy task or life never exactly happens as one thinks.....bother's brother in law is not an issue here😊....This is just constructive reality of society that an elder girl shouldnot marry younger boy...whats the problem in this if two people care for each other,love each other,understand each other etc....when there are lot of positive factors than why one should care for such little age difference.....5 year difference is not a big deal if we take into account other factors😊

Desdemona:
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I differ with some points mentioned by you. Anyway when the theme of this serial is to project an younger boy marrying an older woman, they will continue with the story line. If we like, we can watch. Otherewise remote is there in our hands.
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well desdemona you are right that constant efforts are required to save marriage in all cases......but its also upto individuals and their families that how they come upto their problems....if it is reality that parents create problems in such type of marriages then it is also a fact that after one gets married,parents accept that marriage sooner or later....and i think Abhi's parents are not much narrow minded....as for as Rajeev bhalla's character is concerned then you are right that its very difficult to handle person like him but just think that if simi just get afraid of his threats and doesnt get married,problems will not be finished....in future he can demand something worse,if we just keep obeying such people then life will be hell....so we should fight against rogues like him....though in reality it is very difficult to raise voice against such bad people but atleast something repulsive should be done or like simi's family should talk to rajeev for negotiation to leave their lives or police's support.....at some points you are right and at some i m right😊