Originally posted by: yrkkhluvinangel
In my culture(Kerala), we have paanigrahanam instead of the kanyaadaan................and we do have a mangalsutra(not a black one, though-we usually have a gold chain with a triangular pendent the bride's father ties around her neck!) called thaali! not have the custom of wearing mangalsutras..............They just apply sindoor to show that they r married................
wat!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! being a keralite im hearing this for the first time!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!in kerala usualy groom ties it in bride's neck......(except for certain traditional grups as said here)