“I was offered New York”- Saif Ali Khan

First Previous

Page

Next Last

Frequent Posters

135923

Suspended

Posted: 15 years ago

#121

Originally posted by: friends_rock

DITTO DITTO DITTO

when u dont have anythign NICE to say about an artiest just dont upset other ppl who are happy with it
(again no pin pointing...i have done all these stuff too so i feel bad now)u just SPOIL their mood

and as u said...all ths hating,bashing,arguemnts leads to no where.... nobody is going to reward with u a crown for arguing and shuting up the the person!

The point is that it is ok.. to hold an unpopular opinion in the thread or say the stuff that you wanna say of opposing opinion.. but there is a nicer way to say stuff.. and bashing members is the worst thing.. even bashing celebs isn't that bad.. as I have said.. it is a lose lose situation for both the parties.. the basher feels guilty and the person who gets bashed feels bad.. seriously why break someone's heart over a stupid celeb.

Quote

135923

Suspended

Posted: 15 years ago

#122

Originally posted by: zainab25
The point is that this place is not meant for normal folks who may not be obsessive fans of actors, be it any. Thus, this place is not for me.

Also apparently many are unknown of a fact that actors are unaware of their existance and go to the extent of name callling to defend their minute actions. Until that fact hits them like a brick wall, the forum will be flooded with negativity.

One place someone states the forum is getting 'boring' and 'pathetic' and that e-fights are needed to keep it alive, but at the same time arguments over the internet are affecting them personally. Make up your mind maybe? Also it's definitely hillarious for some people to point out the negativity when they themselves are part of it. Double standards, much?

Of course India - Forums is the last source for my reason to mourn or being upset, but then not everyone thinks alike.

Well if you are talking about me.. then yes I have already acknowleged the fact that I have been part of the negativity too.. If I have ever said that this forum is getting boring.. then I would like to restate that I would prefer boring over this charade.. its okay to have e-fights as long as they don't get really dirty.. And it would be highly hypocritical for us to say that what we say or do here does not affect our lives.. ofcourse it does.. to some extent.. otherwise why would we come back here again and again.. without any incentive.. the bottom line is everything is good in moderation.. too much overdose of anything either sweet, sour or sinister.. tends to get on nerves..

Quote

Looks like you are new here. Register for free, learn and contribute.

Hira

@friends_rock

Sparkler

+ 2

Posted: 15 years ago

#123

Originally posted by: zainab25
The point is that this place is not meant for normal folks who may not be obsessive fans of actors, be it any. Thus, this place is not for me.

Also apparently many are unknown of a fact that actors are unaware of their existance and go to the extent of name callling to defend their minute actions. Until that fact hits them like a brick wall, the forum will be flooded with negativity.

One place someone states the forum is getting 'boring' and 'pathetic' and that e-fights are needed to keep it alive, but at the same time arguments over the internet are affecting them personally. Make up your mind maybe? Also it's definitely hillarious for some people to point out the negativity when they themselves are part of it. Double standards, much?

Of course India - Forums is the last source for my reason to mourn or being upset, but then not everyone thinks alike.

hmmm ppl are aware of the fact that they are non existant for their favs ..we are not dumb ( oh well some ppl are but most of the ppl are sensible enough)

why its getting boring? same repeative bashing???
pathetic?? unessccary bashing for tini mini stufff

and i did acknowlege that i ahve been the part of negativity ....

start E-FIGHT to keep this forum alive...isnt this negativity?? why cant we keep this forum alive without the e-fights??

Edited by friends_rock - 15 years ago

Quote

lavienrose

@lavienrose

Sparkler

Posted: 15 years ago

#124

Quote

403365

Suspended

Posted: 15 years ago

#125

Adios, it would be dumb for me to point at you after you yourself admitting to being negative on the forum. Of course it would be dumb to make myself seem as a saint since I happen to be a deformed creature who is not ready to sacrifice life over a Bollywood actor.

The fact that IF doesn't make a difference in my life is proven since I can come here; state my opinion; be bashed by members; and still come back. I do not happen to mourn if a Kareena fan used sarcastic tone toward me or Shahid fan dislikes me. Oh boy, if IF started to affect my life then all hell will break lose. Most of us come here to escape stress of lives and discuss Bollywood that we cannot discuss in depth maybe with friends or family. At least I can't. However, after being part of the forum for some time, I can safely conclude that many also here are obsessive fans who can make day and night one to protect their stars and also if I happen to make a remark opposite theirs then apparently it does affect them in real life as well. Great.

Quote

345162

Suspended

Posted: 15 years ago

#126

Okay with all due respect, I don't think anyone is bashing. People are just stating their opinions....some maybe extremely negative, some positive, some neutral. But they are all opinions at the end of the day. Not all of us need to be goody-two-shoes all the time.

I've criticized Saif and Kareena plenty of times in the past as a result of which Desigirl and I were inevitably at loggerheads. But that really does not mean she and I hate each other. I'd like to think we're all mature enough to take all this in good spirit and not let it affect ourselves too much.

Also, I think that negative opinions hold the same value that positive opinions do. I for one love all these e-arguments whether I'm a part of it or not. So, keep it coming. 🥳

Edited by psychobalehead - 15 years ago

Quote

qwww

@qwww

Dazzler

Posted: 15 years ago

#127

I just have to say this - people are differnt - all of us cannot write sweet poetry with superlatives all the time. I love reading posts that are subtle and sarcastic - does that mean I am not allowed to exsist on this forum?
That being said I feel being sarcastic about a celebrity is ok but its not OK to pass such comments about a fellow member. When did this debate turn from the OT to member bashing ? One just has to read thru a few pages to get the answer. And now wehave several members here sniping at each other 😕
And please these are all celebrities - why are people acting as tho their own life and well being is affected by comments here ?

Edited by qwww - 15 years ago

Quote

403365

Suspended

Posted: 15 years ago

#128

No Friends_rock, if even half of the people understoof the vital fact that their favorite star is not God's gift to mankind, this sort of attitude wouldn't have occured. Also if people recognized that having an opnion contrast to theirs is normal, and not bashing, then e - fights wouldn't occur, but since many chose to ignore the fact, consequences follow.

Only I know how many times I have used negative context toward Bipasha, and not let that affect me personally.

Edited by zainab25 - 15 years ago

Quote

135923

Suspended

Posted: 15 years ago

#129

Zanaib.. I get what you are talking about.. Having a thicker skin to take arguments always helps... but I guess some people are sensitive.. and I will admit even I am one of those.. so if someone says something about me..here then it does affect me.. I wish I wasn't like this.. but I agree with Hiru also that having e-fights.. can get weird also.. I honestly don't know what to say.....LOL.. I just wish all of us be a bit considerate.. and take part in more creative discussions rather.. than mocking each other.. because of celebs.

Quote

403365

Suspended

Posted: 15 years ago

#130

One last thing I would like to point out is that no one has a right to judge my like and dislike. Why was I labeled a Shahid lover and Saif hater? Is there a history of me traced on the internet extensively loving Shahid and hating Saif with passion? As far as I recall, I could care less for these two as they do not make a difference to me whatsoever. I can come here, state my opinion, and expect it to be taken, rather than being labeled names.

I am no saint either so I lashed which was wrong on my part.

Quote

1 ... 11 12 13 14 15 16

Saif Ali Khan

“I was offered New York”- Saif Ali Khan - Page 13

Related Topics

Explore Topics