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Posted: 15 years ago
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I know that BB is just a show. But sometimes certain things such as a scene, storyline, or dialogue can really stir emotion within you. Usually I get excited over ArBi scenes !! But today I became quite emotional over the final scene when Omkaar FORCED Bharti to marry him.
First of all, let me clearly state that it made me quite upset because here we are talking about a WOMAN. It's Bharti, NOT Bhaskar. A woman was forced to marry a man, despite the fact that she was visibly distressed and it was clearly against her will. I'm not going to refer to Armaan here, that's already been discussed in other posts. My issue is that it really made me think about the status of women and the power that men have over the female gender...
Omkaar (God, I could shoot the 🤬) is a thug, violent and obviously has the ability to overpower Bharti. And that's exactly what he did today. She had no chance against him. And the tragedy is that the bloomin Pandit just sat there like a lemon and others watched the tamaasha unfold.
So, my basic point is....why at times are women treated like cattle? It really hurts!! Why is her voice silenced with a man's physical strength? Why do her tears go unnoticed? Jeez, that scene really has got me worked up!!
Finally, hats off to Ragini Khanna. I cannot even begin to imagine any other actress that would be able to carry off such a variety of scenes. She makes me laugh with her comic timing and today she made me tearful with her powerpacked performance in the Mandir scene. Her begging, her pleading, her screaming...kudos to the girl. She once again has shown that she can give any other actress a run for her money.

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Posted: 15 years ago
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I completely agree with what you said - I really don't have an answer to it but it does indeed hurt to see something like that happen - and you know what? It's like an exaggerated version of the things girls and women go through everyday in reality - not the whole being forced into marriage - but the idea of being submissive to males who take advantage of their strength and superiority.

BEFORE i go on, I just wanna clarify that I'm not a feminist, i love all you guys out there 😉😆 And I'm not some male-basher, this only pertains to a very small fraction of the guys out there - and just because i'm not talking about the women out there in a negative light doesn't mean they're all saints - women are quite manipulative as well!

Why do her tears go unnoticed? I don't know and it's saddening because again, stuff like this happens in real life all the time! BUT I guess this is exactly what KK meant when he said that Bharti would have to face the humiliation and pain that Geeta felt. Why didn't Geeta's tears matter at the time? Why did Bhaskar just kinda half-heartedly apologize and brush her aside? It's usually the women who end up being the vulnerable ones, who are easily caught in a male's trap or forced into doing something because of their lack of strength to fight back.

Omkaar is a *insert any censored word here*....seriously, i totally understand why Armaan left home!

Ragini is undoubtedly one of the most talented actresses out there! She's carried off Bharti's role SO incredibly well - from the beginning where she had to enact the male mannerisms till the present where you can see the feminine side of Bharti peeping through the male facade she tries to put up haha, she's a pleasure to watch!
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Posted: 15 years ago
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IT IS A TOTAL INJUSTICE...They are showing like this only in this BB... But actually this kind of a act will be Prohibited i mean should be Prohibited...No one will agree to such a brutal act....That OK...GOD HE IS A BIG.._____________.. 🤬 🤬 ..No one is trying to stop...that made me really pissed off.... atleast one or two should try to do something....but everyone stood like a statue..... 😡 😡 😡
And above all that...everything happened before Lord...He also didnt stop...why is he punishing bharti this much...i mean it is TOOOOOOOOO MUCHHHHHHHHHH...... Actually he should be punishing that OK...Who is even more cruel than Bhaskar... 🤢 🤢
And Ragini... 👏 👏 👏 Excellent action....!!! she made everyone laugh and now making everyone cry for her.....superb...!!!
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I totally agree with you..this is what really happens to girls who don't have the power to say anything..they are treated like dirt n this is what they showed today..hats off to ragini..as you said even Idon't think any other actress could have played bharti's role so flawlessly as ragini has.. When bharti was crying for help I really wanted to kick om!!!!

The creatives have just ruined the show for good cuz now that om married bharti they are gonna focus on this!!!

Today I'm very depressed and am feeling really bad for bharti.!
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Actually, it's nice to see the creatives focussing on some real issues out there - i know yesterday i was upset with how the show has taken this drastic turn but i think i like discussing it hahah - i just hope Armaan gets back into his senses and tries to help Bharti out...the last thing i want to see is him being pushed to the side and OK-Bharti having a hundred scenes together....disturbing =(
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: shockalot

I completely agree with what you said - I really don't have an answer to it but it does indeed hurt to see something like that happen - and you know what? It's like an exaggerated version of the things girls and women go through everyday in reality - not the whole being forced into marriage - but the idea of being submissive to males who take advantage of their strength and superiority.

BEFORE i go on, I just wanna clarify that I'm not a feminist, i love all you guys out there 😉😆 And I'm not some male-basher, this only pertains to a very small fraction of the guys out there - and just because i'm not talking about the women out there in a negative light doesn't mean they're all saints - women are quite manipulative as well!

Why do her tears go unnoticed? I don't know and it's saddening because again, stuff like this happens in real life all the time! BUT I guess this is exactly what KK meant when he said that Bharti would have to face the humiliation and pain that Geeta felt. Why didn't Geeta's tears matter at the time? Why did Bhaskar just kinda half-heartedly apologize and brush her aside? It's usually the women who end up being the vulnerable ones, who are easily caught in a male's trap or forced into doing something because of their lack of strength to fight back.

Omkaar is a *insert any censored word here*....seriously, i totally understand why Armaan left home!

Ragini is undoubtedly one of the most talented actresses out there! She's carried off Bharti's role SO incredibly well - from the beginning where she had to enact the male mannerisms till the present where you can see the feminine side of Bharti peeping through the male facade she tries to put up haha, she's a pleasure to watch!

LOL at the part in bold. 😆 You're very right. Not all women are saints. There are also sinners within the female population and I've met a couple of them in my life 😳 Oh God, I hope I didn't sound like a feminist or male basher in my post!! 😆 But it's just that the Mandir scene did make me a little emotional. And it was probably largely down to the fact that Ragini's acting was S-U-P-E-R-B 👏
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Posted: 15 years ago
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As much as I hate to admit it, this does happen in alot of parts of India. Forcing a woman to marry, either by physical force or emotional blackmail/manipulation, is extremely prevelant. It is unfair, but only one of the extreme atrocities committed against woman not only in India, but all over the world. It's saddening to see that these things happen in real life, but unfortunately it's true.

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: -Neetz-

As much as I hate to admit it, this does happen in alot of parts of India. Forcing a woman to marry, either by physical force or emotional blackmail/manipulation, is extremely prevelant. It is unfair, but only one of the extreme atrocities committed against woman not only in India, but all over the world. It's saddening to see that these things happen in real life, but unfortunately it's true.

Aah, Neetz. I am deeply humbled by your presence!! You don't post at the BB forum much. But when you do, it's always great to hear from you...or shall I say- read from you!!
I very much agree with your post. It's tragic that it happens but what we got to see in BB is an aspect of society. And I tell you what, this even happens in the UK. I have read and heard of cases in which girls are forced into marriage.They are threatened and pressurized. It's disguisting. It's quite common within the Asian community and makes me sick in the stomach.
I've given the writers a lot of stick due to the new twist in the story. But I think I will have to appreciate them for highlighting a serious issue.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Completely agree with you
Well we live in a man dominating siociety
So its usual
But yaar
Its total injustice with a girl
The girl who dreams to have a man who can suppor her and love her unconditionally.....
But when she s forced to get married to a guy who overpowers himself and make her do what he want by his physical power
Its just ridiculous
I mean why girls always suffer????
Yeah Ragni is an awesome actress
I also had tears in ma eyes seeing that Mandir scene
God bless her
Take Care
Zoya
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I know...bhaskar was pleading for help...Ok is forcing him/her whatever but they showed that a man can stand against someone if the other person forces him...but when the same man is now a woman then she cant stand against that OK....what is this yaar ...🤢

Bhaskar should have gone to police....could have given two more slaps and kicks to OK...but no, thay showed bharti a fragile woman who can be overtaken by a disgusting man like OK...what is this...very vry depressing thing....😡 🤢

and Zoya completely agree with u...why cant they show girl strong, not only emotionally and mentally but physically too....Why girls always suffer???

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