Originally posted by: RagVir4eva
Pankhi, welcome to the forum... First of all I would like to give you a big hug yaar... 🤗... Jo bhi mere dil mein tha, tumne bilkul wohi baat yahaan pe itne ache se express kardi... kitne din ho gaye hain aur is forum pe toh sab haath dho kar Ragini ke peeche par gaye hain, jaise ke inhe koi personal dushmani hai Ragini ke saath... (not saying this to anyone personally or directly)... kyon nahi koi uski achai dekhta... pehli baat toh uska reaction koi galat bhi nahi tha... agar sab ko lagta hai ke Ragini ka jo reaction the Sadhna ke Ranvir ko thappar maarne ke baad, agar woh Sadhna ke prati galat tha, toh main toh kehti hoon ke phir bhi sahi tha ek taraf se... agar woh zara sa bhi bura nahi maanti Sadhna ki is harkat par, toh haan sab kaheinge ke woh bahut achi behen hai... magar, patni hone ke naate, uska poora hak banta hai is baat ko dil se lagaana, jo marzi ho... first of all Alekh bilkul theek tha, Sadhna ko koi zaroorat nahi thi itna over react karne ki.... doosri baat Sadhna ko yeh nahi bhoolna chahiye tha ke chahe Ranvir uska devar hai, woh uski badi behen ka pati bhi hai... (I am not married but if my younger sister slapped my husband, I think I would react the same way)... Ragini ke aankhon ke saamne, uske pati ko thappar pada, aur woh bhi kis se, uski choti behen se... WOW... that is not a small thing yaar... okay back to my point, agar woh Sadhna ki baat ka bura nahin maanti bilkul bhi, then somewhere she is slightly wrong as a patni... A loving patni as she is, will truly be very hurt to see something like what happened here... Toh bechaari Ragini ek aise do-raahe pe khadi hai, ke woh jidhar bhi kadam rakhegi, kisi na kisi tareeke woh ek rishtey ke saath zaroor buri boli jaayegi (especially is forum pe)... Agar woh Sadhna ko 100% maaf kardeti hai, toh somewhere she is fullfilling her sister role, but being a wife something is slightly wrong here... and if she does take it to heart, she is truly showing the feelings that a wife would have in this condition, but some people will once again explode on her and wont let her live... (once they show that she is upset but Ranvir explains to her, then it's totally justifyable for her to fully forgive Sadhna's deed, as if her husband is fine with it, she could go along with him)... Aur waise bhi, abhi tak toh jo uske dil mein hai, hume saaf saaf dikhaya bhi nahi, magar bina koi galti kiye hi use gunegaar bana diya gaya hai... Before even opening her mouth, she has been proven guilty... waah kya insaaf hai... 👏 👏 👏
Once again yaar, I really really appreciate you taking your time out and posting this wonderful topic... I was thinking for so long, but some people feel that I am biased towards Ragini and that I am a blind fan of Parul, so they would never have understood the point I wanted to make... so thank God and thank you for putting my thoughts into your words so beautifully... please stick around more in the forum, it will be nice to read your posts on all topics too...
Geet - Hui Sabse Parayee
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