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Posted: 15 years ago
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Cursing for me is totally not acceptable. Slang is fine as long as it's not vulgar of course.
However, I'm still not comfortable with internet slangs, i.e. all those acronyms. Regular acronyms or shortened forms are fine but when the whole post or message is a jumbled form of alphabets and numbers that need to be decoded then it becomes really difficult for me to understand.
As for cursing, apart from the fact that it shows a lack of civilised vocabulary, I've another reason for not liking it. I feel really uncomfortable if someone uses abusive language nearby, specially if I'm with someone from my family. Even middle aged people use profanity freely. Now I'm sure most of them won't use such language in front of their kids at home, so I used to wonder why use it outside. There will be other people's kids, why don't they realise that their behaviour can be extremely uncomfortable for others.
Once one of my friend and I went to Eden Gardens to watch a Pakistan vs India test match. On the fourth day of the match one Sardarji and his friend sat behind us along with two kids (both of whom were around 8 - 10 yrs old max.). Both these person throughout the day hurled the choicest abuses to the Pakistan team, even when they were receiving calls they were using abuses to chat. And all this was happening in the presence of those two little kids. I guess those two kids will grow up thinking that cursing is perfectly natural.

Having said that, I don't really feel that hell, damn, etc. should be considered in the same category as other heavy duty cuss. Although I see on TV that they even edit those words when they write the subtitles of English films.

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Hey turtle soup 😆 I have seen many people here cursing in front of their kids which is so horrible ... Sometimes they even say it TO the kids....I mean they are their own kids why curse them? Indeed why curse anyone at all? It's ok if you dislike a behaviour or you dislike someone or even hating is fine ( but hating cause pain to the person themselves only lol ) why curse and spoil your self dignity also lol...


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Posted: 15 years ago
#33

Originally posted by: _DrEaM_

Hey turtle soup 😆 I have seen many people here cursing in front of their kids which is so horrible ... Sometimes they even say it TO the kids....I mean they are their own kids why curse them? Indeed why curse anyone at all? It's ok if you dislike a behaviour or you dislike someone or even hating is fine ( but hating cause pain to the person themselves only lol ) why curse and spoil your self dignity also lol...




i agree i have seen my neighbour call his son-"pig's son".......😆...... its a regional slang.... seriously do they even think before saying these things?? the boy also uses choicest slangs when he is angry.....but he is good student so he gets forgiven...😕
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Posted: 15 years ago
#34

Originally posted by: Summer3

yes I am the Summer in the approach of winter. OKay I shall make a visit and read your masterpiece.😆



umm yeah sure.... but you might not like it if you dont know the characters i refer to.....
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: -Rinky-



umm yeah sure.... but you might not like it if you dont know the characters i refer to.....

Ah I went down but got lost.😆
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I believe slangs are too common nowadays so as not to be ok with it in a kind of way! From this, I do NOT mean we have to go along with everything that's common, so please do NOT get that impression! I just mean, I don't find any wrong in it, after all, it saves time doesn't it? 😆 If you try adding the years...

It depends where and how the slang is used, some of them irritate me, but then they become a habit for people around me so I just pass by or tell them to stop depending on how annoying it is! I am quite flexible on this issue though, as I too many use many of those without even realizing it at times!

Cursing! It is definitely understandable that a "shit!" or "damn" escapes you once in while whilst you are frustrated! Human instinct after all... However, I do not get why people need to put up the F-word after or before each of the phrases they use while talking, or writing! Completely out of my comprehension!!... And what good does it do? Except infuriate the one listening to you?

Many of the school boys round here make it their hobby to pass out those snide curses to mates now and then, some of them even call their friends simply by those words, most frequently in French (or Creole which is our Mother Tongue). As a girl, (because it almost doesn't happen in our age group girls) I find it most disgusting! How horrid behavior is that? Luckily some of the gentlemen are still left...😳


Cheers,
Sneha
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Posted: 15 years ago
#37

Originally posted by: sneha0601

Luckily some of the gentlemen are still left...😳



Really? Where? Where? Show me! Show me! 😆
Edited by *Woh Ajnabee* - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
#38

Originally posted by: sneha0601



Cursing! It is definitely understandable that a "shit!" or "damn" escapes you once in while whilst you are frustrated! Human instinct after all... However, I do not get why people need to put up the F-word after or before each of the phrases they use while talking, or writing! Completely out of my comprehension!!... And what good does it do? Except infuriate the one listening to you?

Many of the school boys round here make it their hobby to pass out those snide curses to mates now and then, some of them even call their friends simply by those words, most frequently in French (or Creole which is our Mother Tongue). As a girl, (because it almost doesn't happen in our age group girls) I find it most disgusting! How horrid behavior is that? Luckily some of the gentlemen are still left...😳


Cheers,
Sneha



I agree boys think its manly to use slangs....and yeah there are still some of the gentlemanly ones left....thanx god for them....😆
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Posted: 15 years ago
#39

Originally posted by: *Woh Ajnabee*

I'm not sure how you're differentiating between slang and cursing, but the two are very different. Slang is usually 'street language', grammatically incorrect, and words developed through common speech used in everyday talks. For example, if I said something like "y'all", you can consider that to be slang.

On the other hand, cursing is bad, inappropriate, and filthy language. I occasionally let out a "sh*t" or 'damn' while I'm driving, but I have absolutely NO tolerance for people who feel the need to add the 'F' word after every single darn sentence. I do a mental cringe every time I hear the 'F' word, I somehow can't get myself to bear it, let alone say it.

My friends think its funny how I never call someone a b**ch, but rather say how they're such a B. I always say a-hole as well, never the whole thing. However, these are very rare instances. And personally, I think that saying or not saying both equate to the same thing, as long as you intend to say it.

In my family, my parents tell us to not call each other 'stupid' or to say 'shut up'. We do it just to annoy them at times. 😆 One thing strictly prohibited in my house, along with all the dirty words, is the term 'retard', my parents will throw a fit if they here any of us call each other one.

Anyways, all in all, will it kill some people to talk like a sane person for one minute of their lives? I mean, is the F word REALLY that necessary?

I agree!👏
It's surprising how easily people have gotten attached to the F word these days!
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Posted: 15 years ago
#40

Originally posted by: *Woh Ajnabee*

<br><br>Really? Where? Where? Show me! Show me! 😆<br>




Anju... Hun Come round here to my tiny little Island surrounded by seas... You won't find mermaids, but I assure you would definitely fish one nice gentleman!!... I know quite a few of them... Awesome boys I tell you!! Courtesy is definitely one of the best virtues a guy can have, or a girl for that matter!!...


But wait, I thought you stopped looking for boys... Weren't you and Sarina getting married in December? Poor Girl, already planned on cheating on her? 😆 😆

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