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Posted: 15 years ago
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If she takes Salekh along with her then ppl will point a finger at Alekh and if she takes Ragni with her then ppl will comment on her color.Then what can Vasu do? My suggestion is that next time take all four of them to the party in this way they will handle any grim situation themselves and Dadi bua also won't have any excuse to poison Ragini's ears against the family and Sadhna.Dadi bua it seems is a person who enjoys family quarrels. I think she was the main reason behind the differences between Vasu and Ambika. There is an old proverb for such ppl it goes something like,' gher phoonk Jamalo tamasha dekh ne bethi'.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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no i feel rather than family quarrels DB is old fashioned and thinks since she is oldest the reins of the household shld be with her. vasu doesnt let that happen as she thinks that since she is the older bahu and her hubby runs the business the reins of the household shld be with her. thus there was and is friction b/w the 2. actually in this case i support vasu as i feel after a certain age one must learn to give up control and retire which DB is unable to do. ive seen such ppl because of whom there are saas-bahu friction in the house. DB must let inder/ranvir lead their lives as they please rather than try to run their lives.
as for vasu's dilemna i agree with u...she must take all 4. and if she has to chose alekh then she must discuss it with ranvir so that he too doesnt start feeling left out. and once alekh is alrite maybe take take them by turns. and also she must stop feeling ashamed of ragini's skin colors...if she ignores it others will shut up too. or maybe she can slap someone again for insulting ragini. 😆
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Posted: 15 years ago
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U r correct DB doesn't want to let go of the reins as I had stated this in one of my earlier posts that DB had been looking after the house hold as Inderjeet's mother had died when Inderjeet and Satyen were kids and she didn't like Vasu taking over. Vasu being a dominant character snatched the reins from her even though Vasu is her daughter -in-law and she didn't like that.. But may be DB in a revengful mood created differences between Vasu and Ambika.May be she wanted Ambika on her side and found a sadistic pleasure whn both the sis fought. May be she is doing this again because simply old habits die hard or her ideas are just biased that all fair complexioned ppl are like Vasu and Sadhna is no exception.Besides there is Avni also who poisoned her ears.Wht ever it is there is one thing for sure that DB is a stupid female and Vasu and Inderjeet committed a big mistake by allowing Ranveer to bring her home.

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Posted: 15 years ago
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yeah and also as someone pointed out its partly vasu's fault too. when ranvir asked her why does she not want DB in the house vasu clammed up and said she doesnt feel its necessary for him to know. i mean c'mon...he's not a kid who will shut and sit in a corner if his mummy scolds. atleast if she told him properly ragvir and saalekh wud have been ready to deal with DB.

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