PriDa's Relationship - The Next Level ..

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Hey guys .. just thought I'd share my 2 cents on PriDa ..

This is PriDa - post-engagement & post-one month leap 😳
Ofcourse .. like most of you .. I too would have loved to see all the lovey-dovey scenes between PriDa .. like any other normal couple after they are realise they belong together .. and even engaged. But then .. are PriDa, the usual, run-of-the-mill couple? Nope .. they are different! 😳
But thats not the point of my post .. lol! My point is - PriDa's relationship has just gone to the NEXT LEVEL!
Like Sarah mentioned in one of her replies in her post yesterday .. to which I completely 100% agree (Sarah .. great point! 👍🏼) - PriDa's is more an 'arranged marriage' than a 'love marriage'. The attraction was always there .. but they have literally been pushed to this stage .. its not like they are getting married coz they looooooove each other! Keeping that in mind .. however they are right now .. IMO, is the right way to go!
Earlier .. they were awkward .. now they are comfortable-awkward (?) .. like today's dress selection scene. While many of you thought he was overtly expressive .. very unlike him .. I didn't think he was over expressive. I loved the fact that he was expressive .. coz, at this stage of their relationship, I think this much was needed and apt! It was the next level from their awkwardness. And soon it will come to the stage where they will be totally comfortable! Their relationship is going step-by-step .. from one level to the other .. Basically, they're taking their time!
Like I'd mentioned in one of my previous posts - PriDa have gone through a lot to get to where they are right now - from hating the sight of one another .. bruised egos .. undeniable attraction .. ego clashes .. employer-employee relationship .. to, engaged-to-be-married! Thats a long journey .. and if I may add, a beautiful and zara hatke journey! 😳
I think the creatives are going pretty well .. ie, giving PriDa the time and space. Just compare their earlier scenes .. to the ones from yest and today. Its been a month ... and their relationship has progressed .. how ..
Yesterday - they couldn't stand the sight of one another
Today - they can't lose the sight of one another
Yesterday - they would give hidden glances to one another
Today - those glances have a name
Yesterday - they couldn't look at the other in the eye and speak
Today - they look straight in the eye and speak
Yesterday - there were signs of disapproval
Today - they're giving signs of approval 😆
Ofcourse .. there are lots more .. this was just a gist of it 😳 Please feel free to add more ..
While its cute to see some lovey dovey moments between your favourite couple .. I still feel PriDa have not come to that stage! They have not come to that stage where Prithvi will mouth dialogues like "main tumhare begair jee nahin sakta" .. "main tumhare liye.. (yeh kar sakta hoon woh kar sakta hoon)" and all sorts of cheesy lines! Thank God for that! Also .. in a way, am glad their relationship is not very 'touchy' .. as in, not physical yet! I mean .. just coz they're getting married, its not like Damini or Prithvi are finding every excuse to be with one another .. or hugging n all that. Like Avni .. these days .. leaves no chance to hug Sameer! 😆 But then .. she was & is .. sooo in love with him .. before & after marriage! Unlike PriDa 😳 Had PriDa been all lovey dovey and touchy .. it would seem like they have moved faster than they should have, considering there really hasn't been any sorta realisation or even what you call, 'pyar ka ikraar' 😳 We believe they 'love' each other .. they believe they 'like' each other. Noticed how even Rosh used the term 'like' not 'love' .. Even Ila uses the word, 'pasand' not 'pyar' 😳
Had they been totally and completely in love with one another .. all the PriDa scenes from yesterday & today would/could have been slightly different! Like .. for example .. instead of dancing so formally, both Damini's arms would/could be around Prithvi's neck 😍 And maybe, instead of the DDLJ scene .. we would/could have Prithvi come to Damini's room .. after that designer (??) and everyone had left Damini alone .. Prithvi sneaks up to her and in his own romantic way tells her which outfit would look absolutely gorgeous on her 😍 .. and so much more! See see .. I have all those cute kinda scenes playing in my head .. but I also feel, its not the time yet 😳
PriDa do love one another .. but they yet don't realise it as such. For them to realise what they actually mean to one another .. I think, something drastic has to happen! Earlier .. I was thinking, maybe something should happen to Damini .. to shake Prithvi completely. But on second thoughts, by the time Damini will realise the whole truth about revenge and all, he for sure will be sooo in love with her .. his guilt & seperation from Damini will shake him up completely! He will then realise what she is to him .. when he won't be able to stay apart. As for Damini .. maybe, her realisation will come in a completely different way! I can't think of anything for Damini's part of the realisation .. but if you guys have anything, please feel free to add. I will post when I think of something ..
About the precap .. loved how Damini tells Prithvi "tumne yeh baat mujhse chhupayi?" She looked more hurt than angry. And honestly, I feel this turning point .. of Damini seeing their mom .. might just propel PriDa to the next level in their relationship. Personally, I would looove to see .. Damini seeing Prithvi's vulnerable side now! I want her to see that side of him, suffering with regards to his mother's condition .. I would love to see for Prithvi to sorta breakdown .. and Damini there to comfort him .. tell him all will be okay .. "main hoon na" scenes!
There is soooooooo much of PriDa to explore! Rather than rushing up things .. they need to take it one step at a time .. from one level to another. That .. IMO .. will retain the beauty & magic of PriDa!
OMG .. this got super duper long .. Sorry guys Did I say 2 cents at the beginning of my post? 😕 Make this 200 cents! 😕 😆 But please .. would love to read your take on this topic 😊

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Eksie!!!! i loved it!! you are the one who understands Prida so well!! i mean it's like you are the creator of prida!!! seriously! everythought..every word ...every syllable...everything!!
200 cents.....phhhh...heck i want 200000000 cents .....yup i'm a meanie and greedy😉 when it comes to any thing prida!


anyhow continuing with my copy paste streak of the week......here's my pennies on prida's next level relations

i think marriage will redefine the relationship that these two share,....or should i say ONE! caz they are indeed one and the same...just in two different bodies. no one can separate them....NO ONE! heck not even them themselves!
i think marriage will bring them closer than ever.....prida will share a totally different husband-wife relationship.....a different one i say caz here the wife will be equally or even more in control and power ...here the husband will suffer...
the husband will go through all the thoughts of siding with wife or family
here the wife will be the one to share her feelings first
the husband will have to reciprocate...and he will
but he will be the one with guilt and will be distancing himself from the wife...instead of the usual
indeed the wife will be the one...and i tell you the only ONE to make him realize that
he is capable of receiving his share of love from her...and even more
yes she will be mad at him first
but she is the only ONE who understands him the best and he understands her the most!
it is a match made with several coats of Wood Glue.....and the bond will be shaken a little
but it will never be BROKEN...never...

and i think marriage will be the final coat of that that wood glue that will make that BOND even stickier and hard to break...
both of them will be tied for eternity!!


i think that prida are and will always will be the only fictional character from the first and only indian show that i totally adore and want them to last forever!!


My heartiest Thanks to GK and CS for bringing Prida to life so beautifully ....thank you and if they ever read my ramble ..then i just want to convey that they both are the BEST of the BEST!!!! we all love them loads!!!


thanks eksie again for this wonderful post!!! keep more of this coming!!
Edited by krupur1103 - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Yesterday - they couldn't stand the sight of one another
Today - they can't lose the sight of one another
Yesterday - they would give hidden glances to one another
Today - those glances have a name
Yesterday - they couldn't look at the other in the eye and speak
Today - they look straight in the eye and speak
Yesterday - there were signs of disapproval
@ bold..love how you say this...
and also Pehle it was aap and now it is trying to be tum...
Pehle it was get off him as quick after a trip..now she doesnot want to get up..
Pehle she didnot want him seeing her from the CSO room..
Now she can't bear to leave it and his memories....
EKS....Fab post....
I sooo agree Prida ..as Dam says today have come a long way...
Oh I find their awkwardness sooo sexy....it seems each touch ..each gesture is a million times heightened...
They are just begiinning to get comfortable with one another and today was one day where Dam is now realising how much Pri opinion means to her...
I loved the DDLJ scene...it rocked...and it looked soo fresh on them esp when he tears off the paper and says kachera...and then his oh soo aweosome smile...GK lights up when he smiles...
I love how it is small things....how so much is still unexpressed but understood fully....
beautiful beautiful closeness indeed..gimme all things PriDa...
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Posted: 15 years ago
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EXCELLENT POST YAAR.........................i guess ur words hv made prida MORE beautiful in my eyes now...................HATS OFF to CVs for handling the PRIDA track sooooooooooo sensibly and realistically............

and YES................i wud LUV to see Damz comforting PRI...................THAT WILL B GOLD


thanks for cheering me up .......................i was literally devastated after reading the TB article...........................WHY THEY ALWAYS TARGET OUR SHOW....................LOVE NE MILA DI JODI CANT END...........ITS THE BEST SHOW ON STAR1............JUST AIR IT ON STAR PLUS IT WILL GAIN HIGHER TRPS THAN BIDAAI AND YEH RISHTAA.......I BET
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Awesome, post..Eks..Very, very well thought out and written..⭐️

*round of applause*..And absolutely LOVEEEEEE you for this post..

Word to everything you say. And you're so right about it being 'pasand' and not 'pyar'..

OK, here is my rambling:

I'll repeat what I've already said countless times. Even if PriDa are at some stage on that road of love, and they might have covered some milestones, theirs isn't a typical love story yet. They are going into this marriage because they do feel something for each other, and because some external factors triggered this. But had Ela not been there to speed up the process, they would have taken quite a lot of time to reach the stage of marriage on their own. So, they're kind of in love, at some initial phase of it, but their love for each other still has to go deeper than where it is now, and that beautiful process remains to be seen and witnessed. Look forward to seeing and enjoying it..


And yeah, I am 130% with you that GK wasn't overly expressive in that DDLJ scene..His expressions were perfect..Actually he was awesome in that scene, looked really cute and it was nice to see Prithvi like that, lighthearted and all.


To add to your list: (sowie and embarrassed for stealing your idea)


Yesterday- There was hate on the surface
Today- There's affection and respect

Yesterday- they were Employer and Employee
Today- They're almost 'Man and wife'

Yesterday - PriDa seemed like a far-fetched dream
Today- PriDa, together, are on the verge of being a reality

Yesterday - there were Pri and Da
Today- they're kind of almost PriDa 😆 (sowie, couldn't resist)

OK, I know that was lame..

Eh eh @ 'tumhare baghair jee nahi sakta..' Agree, they are still far away from that..I would actually never want for Prithvi to say heavily loaded lines like that. That would be too cheesy. And I never want our dude to become cheesy and all.


About realization, Eks? I think it's quite far away. They have to properly fall in love before that. Especially Damini's realization is nowhere near, I believe..I think when Prithvi's truth comes out, Damini will kind of go back to hating him, even though she wouldn't be able to undo what they have shared, and she'll still feel something for him deep inside. After then, there are lots of ways possible for the story to go. Maybe when Prithvi has said 'Bye' to the revenge ghost, he'll prove to her by his actions how much he cares, and she'll be touched..Or rather his actions will slowly win her trust back , and maybe something drastic like Prithvi having an accident might have her realize how much she loves him..But before all of that, they have to go a long way, slowly and steadily..

OK..I know that was too random and confusing..But I kind of didn't know what to say after your perfection personified post..

Edited by Who-I-Used-2-Be - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Krupsie .. Thanks sooo much for replying .. and more than that, reading my rambling! 🤗

Originally posted by: krupur1103

Eksie!!!! i loved it!! you are the one who understands Prida so well!! i mean it's like you are the creator of prida!!! OMG .. not that much! Krupsie .. you're just being the sweetheart you are .. love you .. and thanks for saying that .. means a lot! seriously! everythought..every word ...every syllable...everything!!
200 cents.....phhhh...heck i want 200000000 cents .....yup i'm a meanie and greedy😉 when it comes to any thing prida! Me too .. me too! 😳


anyhow continuing with my copy paste streak of the week......here's my pennies on prida's next level relations

i think marriage will redefine the relationship that these two share,....or should i say ONE! caz they are indeed one and the same...just in two different bodies. no one can separate them....NO ONE! heck not even them themselves! I agreeeeeee 😃 No matter how much they try to stay away .. there is a magnet .. inbuilt in them .. they just can't go far! They couldn't earlier .. they can't now .. they never can! 😳
i think marriage will bring them closer than ever.....prida will share a totally different husband-wife relationship.....a different one i say caz here the wife will be equally or even more in control and power ...here the husband will suffer... Absolutely!!!
the husband will go through all the thoughts of siding with wife or family Poor guy .. will be in turmoil
here the wife will be the one to share her feelings first
the husband will have to reciprocate...and he will He has to
but he will be the one with guilt and will be distancing himself from the wife...instead of the usual Yesss
indeed the wife will be the one...and i tell you the only ONE to make him realize that
he is capable of receiving his share of love from her...and even more OMGG..loved the way you put that! Now am waiting for that day!
yes she will be mad at him first
but she is the only ONE who understands him the best and he understands her the most! Sooo true! And thats what defines their love for one another
it is a match made with several coats of Wood Glue.....and the bond will be shaken a little
but it will never be BROKEN...never... Never ever! Yeh Fevicol ka jod hai..kabhi nahin tootega! 😆

and i think marriage will be the final coat of that that wood glue that will make that BOND even stickier and hard to break...
both of them will be tied for eternity!! Yesssssss ... 😍


i think that prida are and will always will be the only fictional character from the first and only indian show that i totally adore and want them to last forever!! @ blue - Amen to that! Its heartbreaking to even think of anything otherwise


My heartiest Thanks to GK and CS for bringing Prida to life so beautifully This is exactly like Aditya Chopra's thank you speech at the awards, when he won best director for DDLJ .. and the way he thanked SRK-Kajol! 😃 I had loved his thank you back then ... and love it more now the way you put it! Needless to say, my THANKS to GauCha too! 😳....thank you and if they ever read my ramble ..then i just want to convey that they both are the BEST of the BEST!!!! we all love them loads!!! loads n loads n loads .. never ending loads!


thanks eksie again for this wonderful post!!! keep more of this coming!! Thank YOU! 😳

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Posted: 15 years ago
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hey Ekta, i remember u from the Kumkum forum!! I justed started watching LNMDJ recently just for PriDa. I just love them!!! And ur analysis was great!!!! I totally want a scene will Damini consoling Prithvi!! That would be awesome!!
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Posted: 15 years ago
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OMG eksie...really....unknowingly i quoted adi chopra...??/ woah...i had no idea...those lines had just came straight from my heart....wow...that's amazing , ain't it?😆
btw i haven't seen ddlj....lol when it came out i was a baby or a lil girlie.... and i still haven't seen it.....i think i should!




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Posted: 15 years ago
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excellent post Eksie......I agree that the essence of Prida is "haule haule " n GK n CS r doing and incredible job of it!!
Though today's choosing the dress scene wasn't one of my fav moments ,I did love that Prithvi helped Damz choose it. Did take their relationship to the next level n was a good way of showing that their relationship had advanced a lil in the month n that Damz too has started wholeheartedly towards their union(UGLY dresses btw!!)
Now the mom part....a lotta potential and am loving it.....will mabbe go to show the boys how caring these girls r n a step towards their love stories!!!......I am loving the track!!!
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lilll girl you have grown up now...
and DDLJ is a must see film..it is a classic..

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