women, the reason for other woman's downfall

I find in most cases esp with cases of DIL AND MIL, its the women who are always against women. The men smartly keep quiet when an issue of a woman arises.

Like if a marriage breaks, the women gets blamed first and its automatically assumed that she was the one who broke the marriage or something was wrong with her. If a couple cannot have a child or having difficulties, its assumed that theres a problem with the gal. Whereas it could be the problem of the man too.

there are so many issues like that where automatically the blame goes to the gal and the interesting part is that all these also comes from a woman.

do u agree and if yes, what do u think is the reason.

Is it bcoz of ego or is it the general nature of women.

this is absolutely correct and thats the very reason, they r second class citizens.
e.g. take shiney ahuja's case, his was supporting him left and right.
then karan grover, the girls who were seeing him inspite of knowing he is married are to be blamed.

the reasons would be many. there is no unity among women. they r always taught to think about their husbands,fathers,brothers before anything else. women have been dependent on men if not financially then socially.

add mental dependence to that 😆

I second you on that Men support eachother but women accuse eachother.

I guess if a lady is in problem it is often a lady behind it like if a gal is incapable to ecome a mum then MIL is always there to accue her and suggests herson to marry again BUT if her son is incapable of becoming a father she would never think of her DIL future or her feelings n adoption will take place. This is sad that a woman does not understand a woman But it doesn't happen everywhere many MIL's are quite lovely toward their DIL's like moi😃

Sometimes a woman complains of othere women. But next moment we see them both happily chatting away as if nothing was wrong. Woman can complain but can also forgive each other more easily. This will baffle most men. 😆

When young I could never understand why people would say bad things about others . Adults would explain that they were only putting on an act. So the first seeds of suspicion and hatred are sowed by the adults.

😆

saas bhi kabhi bahu thi ....

Originally posted by: gengarjetty2

probably queen bee mentality

Strangely enough, thats part of the truth.

I love the movie Mean Girls. Not just because it is brilliantly laugh out loud funny. The movie is one of the most intelligent social satires in recent times. Tina Fey was genius to pick Rosalind Wiseman's book 'Queen Bees and Wannabe's' and turn it into a movie. This maybe set in the United States, but the politics of girl world is pretty much the same across the world. Whether its teenagers in highschool, women in the neighborhood or within a family too. Theres a whole system of social status, cliques etc - the need to be a queen bee or at least affiliate with the queen be. Its quite an elaborate system with media influences, peer pressure etc.

Roasline Wiseman talks about Politics of Girl World.

[YOUTUBE]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=52u6AD19wGk[/YOUTUBE]

Originally posted by: return_to_hades

Strangely enough, thats part of the truth.

I love the movie Mean Girls. Not just because it is brilliantly laugh out loud funny. The movie is one of the most intelligent social satires in recent times. Tina Fey was genius to pick Rosalind Wiseman's book 'Queen Bees and Wannabe's' and turn it into a movie. This maybe set in the United States, but the politics of girl world is pretty much the same across the world. Whether its teenagers in highschool, women in the neighborhood or within a family too. Theres a whole system of social status, cliques etc - the need to be a queen bee or at least affiliate with the queen be. Its quite an elaborate system with media influences, peer pressure etc.

Roasline Wiseman talks about Politics of Girl World.

[YOUTUBE]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=52u6AD19wGk[/YOUTUBE]

Originally posted by: kuhu.kuhu

saas bhi kabhi bahu thi ....--lol some are lucky they dont have saas..😉