Sekhar'sBehaviourJustified?SidheswriDeservesThis?

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Yohima

@uhima

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Posted: 15 years ago

#21

yah completely agreed wid u fren...we can she loves Shekhar a lot bcoz when her father asked her 2 go wid she preferred 2 saty wid him ...her character is innocent i agree bt its so disgusting she has been getting insulted in front of Laali...they should give da character much more respect..we fans believe!!

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Romana Patel

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Posted: 15 years ago

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Siddheswari deserves what she is getting. She is useless and a complete Bore. She doesn't know the meaning of being a good wife. She is all into herself as in SELFISH. Shehkar told her and she never listened. She is SELFISH and so I wish she leaves. Shehkar should divorce the dinkbat and move on to better which is Lali. Want more of Lali and Shekhar asap.

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Rena

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Posted: 15 years ago

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You want my opinion on it? Read THIS:

Originally posted by: Mrs. SIR

coming to siddeshwari and her love for shekhar.. how does one not recognize or realize the love they have for someone?? that confuses me.. considering sid's never made any decisions taking shekhar into consideration.. all her decisions have to do with her and her life.. not their life - together... and surely not all husbands 'compare' if their wives love them more than another woman but shekhar was driven to that road by siddeshwari.. she pushed him to that limit..

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Originally posted by: devashree_h
Wasn't he taking her away so they could lead a happy life together? Doesn't she insult him at that time for not having money? As a wife shouldn't she have supported him?Doesnt she always think about her comfort while dealing with Shekhar? Yes what Loha did to her was not proper but wasnt Shekhar ready to free her from that?But she herself went there again.

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Originally posted by: MiNaKsHiii
Siddheswari forced shekhar to hv a physical relationship wid laali even though she knws dat how much shekhar loves him how dat makes her a goodwife ??its no less dan cheating okay Moreover shekhar has not yet cheated siddheswari even though knwing how sid is he is still loyal to her and feeling is something which we cannot control if shekhar has started feeling for laali den waht is his fault ?? why wud shekhar not fall wid a gal who has always supported her who has loved her even more dan his wife and also who can sacrifice her life for him i can't blame shekhar for falling in love wid laali even though he loves laali still he has not crossed his limits
Sid deserves all right of a bahu but she doesnot deserves right of a wife a person simply bcoz she doesnot respect da bond of maarige
If laali wud hv not entered shekhar's life den also the marriage life of sid-shekhar wud hv never been successfull all thanks to siddheswari Ji..

lastly don connect reel life wid real life Siddheswari is juz a character dats it..

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Originally posted by: norzar
hi

initially i felt bad for all 3 laali, shekhar and sideshwari, but after seeing todays episode i am very disappointed with sideshwari

sideshwari being a women herself let her father treat laali so bad infront of all. infact it was disgusting seeing all 4 sideshwari, gangiya and nandani laugh at lali condition,

io knew nandani and ganguya were selfish and mean, but sideshwari too has become one of them.

and above that what neech zath talk was sideshwari doing in her room today, come on you want your husband to have a child with laali and then you call laali nech zath and dont want any of her things in your room????????

coming to shekhar he has fallin in love with laali niceness which in understandble, the way she covers up for him all the time and at the same time doesnt want to heart sideshwari, is worth all the priase

after seeing today;s episode i believe shekhar behaviour is justified

norzar

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Originally posted by: khoobsoorat
I agree with members as far as the unjustice done to sid as a bahu,but when it comes to being a wife sid had been unjust to shekhar, never ever stood by his side, all she cared for was her own comfort , she is materalistic she has no feelings for her husband, shekhar tried to take her away from that hell, for that he even had to steal.

Remember whenever sid talked about doing what loha singh wanted , shekhar always gave her a questionable look (like what r u talking about, are u in your senses?) now that Lali really understands his requirements, his likes & dislikes, is always there with him whenever he needed someone so it is but natural for him to develope a soft corner for her, but still he never crossed his limits.

Sid is away from Shekhar,living in a place she had never dreamt of, but she never forgets to put on makeup , above all enjoying pakoras........😆

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Originally posted by: Mrs. SIR
^^ i would love to know exactly what shekhar has done so far that you're putting him on the spot so much if i remember correctly, shekhar HAD told siddeshwari.. that if laali comes in between their relationship.. everything will change.. he had asked her and he had told her to realize that (more than once!) but she told him to do what loha singh wanted so they could live happily ever after.. after snatching laali's baby from her

and your continuous accusation on shekhar.. straying from his principles.. has he, really???😕 😕 cuz as far as i'm concerned he hasn't been involved with laali physically.. and doesn't plan on letting anything happen either because he respects his boundaries of marriage.. and why should shekhar work on all the matters that concern their relationship..marriage is only successful if both partners put in the effort.. so you're saying siddeshwari should do what she wants.. and shekhar should struggle to make sure he and siddeshwari stay 'together'..despite the fact that she's only back in her room because she was scared of losing her room, jewelery & clothing to laali

and laali's not the only deprived girl.. shekhar's also deprived 😉 😉 so they're two deprived souls who belong together 😃 😃

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Originally posted by: roma11
Siddheswari deserves what she is getting. She is useless and a complete Bore. She doesn't know the meaning of being a good wife. She is all into herself as in SELFISH. Shehkar told her and she never listened. She is SELFISH and so I wish she leaves. Shehkar should divorce the dinkbat and move on to better which is Lali. Want more of Lali and Shekhar asap.

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Originally posted by: layna
but i cannot blame Shekhar for falling in love with Lalli, i would also fall in love with her if i was at his place.his wife doesn't love him, or she seems to just love her material comfort.whereas lalli considers and treats him like a God, she shows him that she cares for him, that she supports him.Shekhar is a human being yaar.

I would too. I don't think ANY man in his right mind would stick with someone like Siddeshwari , while ignoring all the positive things Laali has done; all the ways in which she's supported Shekhar, inspired him to be a better person, to earn his own living, to be his own man and to have a strong heart and tough mind.

Overall, everything that's happening to Siddeshwari is the result of her own stupidity and actions. To blame anyone else for it is foolish and ignorant. Furthermore, after watching the last 3 episodes, I just have to wonder HOW anyone can even side with or make up delusional excuses that she "deserves better". Because quite frankly, for such a despicable, unintelligent and selfish character such as herself, she deserves nothing but the worst.

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gossipgurls

@gossipgurls

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Posted: 15 years ago

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Originally posted by: iamindian
TELL ME,HOW WOULD YOU've FELT IF SIDDESWARI was Your Own Sister/daughter/best friend???????????</FONT>😲</FONT>[/DIV][/STRONG]</FONT>

I would have given her ONE TIGHT SLAP First.... and knock some sense in her first.

Common is she mentally challenged ??? (Sorry did mean to offend the challenged ppl)
Whats does it take her her realise that life and relationships are more that Jewels and clothes .... she just a shallow person ... who cant see life beyond Jewels,clothes or make up.

She is a Example of everything a guy does not want to see in his wife... (Dnt blame shekhar fr liking Lalli)
She is a Example of everything a Saas does not want to see in her bahu...

BTW i'm liking the new track .... I guess sidz is the new Vamp on the block, have you seen her expressions today... she acted like pro 👏

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Minu

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Posted: 15 years ago

#25

Originally posted by: gossipgurls

I would have given her ONE TIGHT SLAP First.... and knock some sense in her first.

Common is she mentally challenged ??? (Sorry did mean to offend the challenged ppl)
Whats does it take her her realise that life and relationships are more that Jewels and clothes .... she just a shallow person ... who cant see life beyond Jewels,clothes or make up.

She is a Example of everything a guy does not want to see in his wife... (Dnt blame shekhar fr liking Lalli)
She is a Example of everything a Saas does not want to see in her bahu...

BTW i'm liking the new track .... I guess sidz is the new Vamp on the block, have you seen her expressions today... she acted like pro 👏

🤣I wud hv done the same 😆😆
And yup she is turning negative for sure she thinks laali will take away her jewellery &sarees silly women😆😆Laali is taking shekhar away frm her but it seems she really doesnot care for it 😛 I thought she will change wen she will find out dat shekhar is falling for her but i can see no change in her 😛she still thinks abt her gehna and no abt her hubby she seriously doesnot deserve shekhar

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khoobsoorat

@khoobsoorat

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Posted: 15 years ago

#26

Shekhar despite of Sid's infertility had always loved her, being an educated man overlooked her (Sid's) childish behaviour,tried to make her understand the importance of their relationship when she was forcing him to be with Lali & still you say that Shekhar has not done anything for his wife. Had he been like his brother he would have immediately accepted what loha singh wanted him to do. No doubt he is a thorough gentleman.

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nandanie

@nandanie

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Posted: 15 years ago

#27

Originally posted by: Mrs. SIR

^^ i would love to know exactly what shekhar has done so far that you're putting him on the spot so much if i remember correctly, shekhar HAD told siddeshwari.. that if laali comes in between their relationship.. everything will change.. he had asked her and he had told her to realize that (more than once!) but she told him to do what loha singh wanted so they could live happily ever after.. after snatching laali's baby from her

and your continuous accusation on shekhar.. straying from his principles.. has he, really???😕 😕 cuz as far as i'm concerned he hasn't been involved with laali physically.. and doesn't plan on letting anything happen either because he respects his boundaries of marriage.. and why should shekhar work on all the matters that concern their relationship..marriage is only successful if both partners put in the effort.. so you're saying siddeshwari should do what she wants.. and shekhar should struggle to make sure he and siddeshwari stay 'together'..despite the fact that she's only back in her room because she was scared of losing her room, jewelery & clothing to laali

and laali's not the only deprived girl.. shekhar's also deprived 😉 😉 so they're two deprived souls who belong together 😃 😃

Oh definitely, I can't understand how anyone could side with Sid!! Espesically after seeing the emotional turmoil that Shekar went through after lali was brought to him. He SAID that he couldnt do what EVERYONE-INCLUDIGN Sid wanted him to do. How can you forget this?????

How did Sid in turn treat Shekar? She has never supported him and understood his needs and wants. However, he understand that she's a childish/selfish person and supported her childishness and selfishness!! Please to feel sorry for what she is getting from Shekar now is a waste of time. I understand feeling sorry for her by the way the family treated her.

Sid is no better than any of the other evil women in that house. Lali is genuine and that's what Shekar finds attractive. She not so shallow as to ignore her husbands/love's desires-Shekar simply wanted a life of love with Sid-money and a child was not an issue for him, but when he tried to runaway with her, what was her complaint??? She needed all the nice things in life and money and her clothes and all. PLEASE!!! I'm a wife and would never overlook my husband's desires in his life.

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nandanie

@nandanie

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Posted: 15 years ago

#28

Originally posted by: MiNaKsHiii
🤣I wud hv done the same 😆😆
And yup she is turning negative for sure she thinks laali will take away her jewellery &sarees silly women😆😆Laali is taking shekhar away frm her but it seems she really doesnot care for it 😛 I thought she will change wen she will find out dat shekhar is falling for her but i can see no change in her 😛she still thinks abt her gehna and no abt her hubby she seriously doesnot deserve shekhar

🤣 TIGHT SLAP INDEED!!

Man, I cant understand how anyone can feel sorry for Sid....she is indeed shallow and only cares about her clothes and all....that is the only reason Gangiya got her attention to try to get back into the house. As a woman and wife, she disgusts me and if that was my sister, I would have put her in her place a long time ago!

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zeezee55

@zeezee55

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Posted: 15 years ago

#29

iamindian - you don't have to shout! We hear you loud and clear.

First, i totally agree with you that Siddeshwari has been treated very badly by her father-in-law whose word no one dares to go against (except perhaps Sid's father and that too because he holds the trump card - Loha's daughter). No woman deserves a cheating man and vice versa. I think on this score we are all agreed upon.

Bone of contention: Shekhar falling in love with Lali. Yes it is wrong for a married man to fall for another but as i have mentioned in other posts - one does not choose to fall in love (or out of love for that matter) but it happens. Shekhar is a good man, he did not want to fall in love with Lali. Yes he loved his wife Siddeshwari - duirng a time when life was moving along smoothly with no problems to upset thier life - a smooth clear road - ahhhhh how easy it is to drive on such a road, you can relax, smile, sing, laugh with the person next to you, while driving. Shekhar and Siddheshwari had such a life. Until they came to a road block (no the road block was not Lali) - Loha Singh and his desire for an heir - which according to the stars would be produced by Shekhar and Shekhar only.

Shekhar did not seem to care for such things like heirs, - he too like Siddheshwari - was immatured with no thought for the future - no responsiblity - no desire for even a child - how fortunate Sids was in having such a husband who did not care that their love and union would not bear fruit in the form of a child. Despite being forced by the father, he did not care about having a child, not to mention an heir. He did not put any pressure on Sids be it for a child or even to follow traditions.

But the true test of a bonding comes with difficulties - that is when strengths and weaknesses are tested and revealed. Shekhar showed his strength when he decided to leave his family and strike out for himself - unfortunately Sids did not match up. She was horrified at the thought of leaving the comforts of her present life to a life without money. She did not for a second think that Shekher needed to be away, needed this rite of passage. She did not support him in his time of need. In fact she more or less requested that he sends her back and he can go away himself if he wanted. She also further urged Lali to carry on with the work of producing a child - equating it to any piece of work. She did not for a moment think that these are two human beings who need some kind of bonding to be able to produce this child of theirs. She had no such feelings and probably thought Shekher too had no feelings.

I am depending on the written writeups for the progression of the story and hence my understanding of the story may not be so spot on.

I believe the current state of affairs is Gangiya instigating Sids to act sick, etc. She had used jewellery and clothes as a lure for Sids. When Gangiya used Shekher to instigate Sids it did not work but it worked with clothese and ornaments. Siddeshwari did not care when Gangiya told that she may lose Shekhar but began to worry when she was told that if she loses Shekher she will also lose her status as bahu and the comforts, jewellery and clothese that go with it. It was only then that Sids began to worry about Shekher's relationship with Lali. That and only that is the basis of her wanting Lali out of the picture now. So far Sids has not done anything to redeem herself as the wife of Shekher. She has not supported him in anything, if at all, she had discouraged him (from playhing to win the tractor, from working on the farm).

Lali on the other hand, having fallen in love with Shekher when she thought he was Ganesiya, had supported Shekher in everything. She sacrificed her own freedom for the sake of his life and she continues to fight for him.

There are many things that are not right in our lives, yet we do it. Lali and Shekhar were only just beginning to be very comfortable with each other : something they have to be if they were to produce an heir. I cannot blame them for the disappointed look on their face when they saw Sids in the room - something they had not expected. They are only human and they are developing strong feelings for each other. Yes, seeing Sids in the room jolted them out of their own fantasy world - they had for a moment forgotten that Shekher is a married man - naturally they looked shocked and perhaps a bit disappointed.

Sadly, in life, one is not able to compartmentalise everything, much as we want to. Shekher, Siddheshwari and Lali are now in the grey area - where the bounderies have been blurred - and where right and wrong, ethics and morality is not so plain to see.

Yes - i know your argument - married man cannot do this. I agree. He cannot but the point here is he is falling in love with another woman - so now what. Does he have an affair or should he dump his wife and follow his heart or should he (for the sake of social norms) sacrifice his love and stay with his wife (unsupportive as she is).

Interesting isn't it friends, what a moral dilemma this show is presenting to us....

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