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aishwarya

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Posted: 16 years ago

Hey, i'm normally giving advice here but then was confused on this situation.

Me and this girl,Mallika have been friends for like almost 2 years now. n she's a really good friend. but then she liked talking to this guy, she did'nt like him but then she just talked to him. I did'nt really comfortable around him, i mean he was weird! ...so i went and talked to these other girls in class..but only in class..in break and most of the time i used to be with her and our other good friend!

so i started hanging out with theses guys in class...she found them cheap..well they were a bit wannabish..but they were okay for timepass..!..n she told me not to go with them..so i reduced talking to them...

n then again i started, n she also joint me..n we had fun..!..but then she started taking these guys and roaming around school, she sort of like excluded me,i dont know why, she's very outgoing so she gels well with people. so they too liked her. they did'nt stop talking to me but i felt bad. i dont know why. n she n my other good friend live very close n i live damn far from them, so they talk a lot and everything.

but then whenever me n mallika see each other,like while going home or something, we dont even wave or say bye.

but then she's really nice to me on phone and all, n she's a damn good person and a damn good friend! i dont want to lose her, n if u understand me situation please help!

this may sound kiddish to some of you..but this is how it IS!

-aish

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Posted: 16 years ago

The only n best thing to do is to talk to her, Tell her how u feel

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aishwarya

@aish_punk

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Posted: 16 years ago

well thats sort of awkward..i dont know what to tell her..!

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Posted: 16 years ago

i dont think there is a problem, just let things be as they r. all cannot be same and at all the times. i am sure if u continue being yourself and being a good person, she will get around to u with time. but one thing u need to be careful about is, not let yourself be used by anyone. like it happens when they need u, u help them but when u need them, they dont come to help.

but still u feel that there is some problem in your relation, then talk to her nicely about it.

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Maan-Diwani

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Posted: 16 years ago

just tell her that you want to meet her for lunch one of these days and talk you're problems out and try to solve them

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aishwarya

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Posted: 16 years ago

angelic_devil - well i dont think she was using me..n well i sort of feel better now..i still talk to those guys..but just did'nt like what she was trying to do, i mean show that she's superior or trying to ignore me but it was just for that day!

rajni - well, we're still in skool so cant meet up..but then seriously its awkward to talk..

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abc

@-CaughtYou-

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Posted: 16 years ago

Just talk it out to her, sit peacefully, prepare urself and go for it😃

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aishwarya

@aish_punk

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Posted: 16 years ago

mimi di - well yeah i can..but then now evrytyn seems fine, n i don really feel like bringing it up again :)

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aishwarya

@aish_punk

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Posted: 16 years ago

okay, new issue! :(

she's been going with these people all the time and like not talking to us, u can say hardly- to me and our other close friend.

n so we go on our own and we're really bored so do some shitty stuff, but suddenly she comes n asks us, " are you pissed or smtn?"

we say no, bcuz we're not!..its okay if she's friends with those guys..but then she keeps asking us this q..n its damn irritating..its as if she wants us to be pissed with her!

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abc

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Posted: 16 years ago

#10

Just ignore her, she may come back then :)

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