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Posted: 15 years ago
#61

Originally posted by: sg08

Now that I think about it, Santu should not even confess her feelings to DM like she does in the promo....she should just refuse to marry this other guy and leave.....let DM figure out what he did to cause such a reaction from the usually quiet and sensible Santu.....

Yes, now that I think about it, she should just leave and say that she will face the future alone with no help from him. She should never come back until he begs her and tells her that he loves her and for no other reason. Let's all support Santu this time.!
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Man im disappointed with DM but it figures he will react like this when pushed into a corner i hope Santo learns of his plans and leaves him let that arrogant fool suffer
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Posted: 15 years ago
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In my ideal situation (and of course i'm living in LaLa Land)..
When DM tells Santu that's he getting her married, Santu should
1) Go off and take care of Hiten and make sure he marries Toral. Convince Hiten that what he's doing is the right thing for him and he will never find a life partner like Toral who will understand him and better him.
2) Tell DM that there was no need to do this. He should never have had to betray her and abuse her feelings like this.
3) Tell him she won't marry anyone she doesn't love. She will not marry a random guy he has found. She will go back to her nanaji and take care of him and monghi.
4) Her relations with the family will remain as she loves them all dearly and this won't be changed by divorcing him.
5) Return all the rubbish she's apparently bought 'for her'. Then, GO HOME.
Please note, she will confess that she has feelings for him, maaaaybe love, BUT SHE SHOULD NOT UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES ASK HIMTO TAKE HER BACK.
He has given his decision. He doens't want her. So, she's going somewhere she's wanted.
Controversial point here: If he tells her to stay with him and this was only being done for her benefit and he's 'fond' of her (anything more is a BLATANT lie)... she still needs to walk away.
life is lived based on someones actions, and the end most definitely does not justify the means. this act has significantly traumatised there relationship (i thought him conitnuing to divorce her when there was no need was a collosal SLAP ON HER FACE anyway...) and to repair it, we need DM to sort himself out. She needs to stop confusing adoration/crush/respect for love.
LaLa Land is fun.
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Posted: 15 years ago
#64

Originally posted by: dipshit

In my ideal situation (and of course i'm living in LaLa Land)..

When DM tells Santu that's he getting her married, Santu should
1) Go off and take care of Hiten and make sure he marries Toral. Convince Hiten that what he's doing is the right thing for him and he will never find a life partner like Toral who will understand him and better him.
2) Tell DM that there was no need to do this. He should never have had to betray her and abuse her feelings like this.
3) Tell him she won't marry anyone she doesn't love. She will not marry a random guy he has found. She will go back to her nanaji and take care of him and monghi.
4) Her relations with the family will remain as she loves them all dearly and this won't be changed by divorcing him.
5) Return all the rubbish she's apparently bought 'for her'. Then, GO HOME.
Please note, she will confess that she has feelings for him, maaaaybe love, BUT SHE SHOULD NOT UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES ASK HIMTO TAKE HER BACK.
He has given his decision. He doens't want her. So, she's going somewhere she's wanted.
Controversial point here: If he tells her to stay with him and this was only being done for her benefit and he's 'fond' of her (anything more is a BLATANT lie)... she still needs to walk away.
life is lived based on someones actions, and the end most definitely does not justify the means. this act has significantly traumatised there relationship (i thought him conitnuing to divorce her when there was no need was a collosal SLAP ON HER FACE anyway...) and to repair it, we need DM to sort himself out. She needs to stop confusing adoration/crush/respect for love.
LaLa Land is fun.

Dips, I totally agree. I could not have said it any better! Santu is not a doormat. DM has no right to hurt her like this again and again. It's better if she does go home where she is still loved. She can still love all the kids, Baa and everyone but stay away from DM. He does not deserve her after this unless he comes clean and totally accepts and loves her.

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