Nothing-to-Something!

Blissful Nothing--to--Sorrowful Something!

You know I wonder something…how much true happiness can people gain by hurting others all the time??? I personally haven't tried it and neither do I wish too…but people find some unique ways to become miserable!!!

There are very few ways of being happy in face of adversity—would to be love with a heart willing to listen and understand, but there are several ways of being unhappy… hence there is so much grief around us….after all humans do it all to themselves. It's not even the situation as much as how we react to the situation.

You know what the problem is a lot of times—we create something from nothing at all…don't you guys agree? Nothing is very valuable, but we unfortunately don't understand that. Lies were created from nothing, truth was hidden by not saying anything, minds were embittered by unidentified reality, illusions were built on towers of uncertainty… in short they furnished their mentality with nothing and invented something—their misery!

I know these characters are fictional, but I am saying that we being humans have tendency to overlook what we should actually see and instead see something that never really existed…nothing plays an important role!!!

In life, people like taking shortcuts to gain success through process of lying, deceiving and making themselves known in wrong ways. But when they wait to see that they haven't really moved forward…they fail to see that they haven't moved towards the figment of gaining happiness rather took steps towards their own wretchedness. Again do we blame others, the circumstances, the world…who??? Or maybe if our eyes focuses on our own deeds and take the blame…life wouldn't turn out so horrible (rather we see that life is beautiful at each and every point).

Look at the 3 main people of this show..ANGAD—KRIPA—PRITHVI…who should they blame…or why should we blame them? They all sunk themselves in the ocean of unrealized and unaccepted feelings by not believing in their power of love and trusting their hearts. I really can't blame anyone of them. Every human has some bad qualities undoubtedly, but why focus on bad and make them sound worse when they have potential to change at any point?

What Prithvi did to Angad-Kripa, what Angad did to Kripa, what Kripa did to Angad, what Angad-Kripa did to each other, what Angad did to Prithvi…. the cycle can keep going unless they realize that they are not winning in this WAR of LIFE! Tears flow carrying sincerity and message…but observe how they just wipe it off without seeing the glorified truth behind them.

The sad part I think is that each one of them have turned the beauty of life into a WAR and all they want to do is win and make the other lose.... who will first realize that life is slipping away from them as they exist in illusion of winning! LOVE is watching and screaming, but no one is listening…. but soon things will turn!!!

What do you all think…please do portray your thoughts and ideas on this sweeties! Take care…

-Love4ever!

Hey Sweeties,

Thanks jasnav and srk_lover... im glad u liked it!!! But guys I am waiting to hear some views... please comment on what you think!

-Love4ever!

well said!!!
nice analysis!!! 👏 👏 👏

👏 👏 👏 Very well said Rinku jaan really u described very well. I dont have any words now to say something except this 👏 👏 👏 . U r simply great.

Luv U
Muniza

Hey Rinku,

Beautifully written as usual. 👏 👏 👏


I'm grappling to get my thought process into order, so I hope this makes some sense.


Since we seem to be talking about life and people in general as well as the characters, let me start off with the general stuff.


You say that people like taking shortcuts to gain success, by lying, cheating etc.....Well, I guess we live in a world that is so much dominated by status and materiality that we are driven to get this, or have that, or be this or be that........so much so that we tend to loose a bit of ourselves, a fundemental bit, in the process if we are not careful. We loose our own identity in the persuit of having something or being someone that the world would be in awe of......In essence making ourselves miserable....yet this status, this power, is a drug, and we don't realise just how miserable we are until it's too late. People tend to choose power over love, which in turn means choosing it over family.....and that in itself is their biggest mistake.


People tend to find it easier to lay the blame at someone else's feet.....be it a person, circumstances, the world, like you said, because it is an easy out......it is the simplest way of denying what's going on....it is the simplest way of not looking at yourself and seeing where your life is at.


Now onto the characters......it is their obsession with, in this case, not material things, but love, hate, revenge....and in all three cases, the blame is soley placed at someone elses feet, denial flying all over the place, emotional scars are formed, and actions that would under normal circumstances never happen, take place.....hurting the one you love for apeasement for your pain.......it doesn't relieve your pain to hurt the one you love....it just makes you hurt more in the process.


Prithvi is obsessed with having Kripa for himself because he loves her.......but to reach the height of such obsession that it changes you into a murderer....it makes you do somthing that you would never have considered doing before.....to what end??? In the long run, you will always be looking over your shoulder to see if you will be caught.....you will always be in the situation where you have to lie over and over again to protect yourself, your secret, your sin......and you will never be truly happy because you will always be afraid that the woman you love, even if she is yours, will find out the truth and once again leave you.


As for Angad and Kripa, they are both fools....blind fools, that refuse to listen to ther hearts cries, and soul's yarnings to just run into each other's arms and ramian there for all time. Their obsession with hate and revenge is driving a wedge so deep between them, that I can't clearly see how their wounds will be completely healed after their battles. Kripa isists that she hates Angad.....why??? Because she still beleives that he cheated on her, and that he is guilty of Josh's murder....but to take her hatred to such an extent, to want to so despreately prove that Angad doesn't affect her, that he doesn't have power over her, she goes and does what she, under normal circumstances wouldn't do.....she sleeps with Prithvi....a man she doesn't love, just to prove a point....all the while blaming Angad for compelling her to do that.


Angad on the other hand is obssessed with revenge......on Kripa for betraying him in court and marrying Prithvi.....so much so that he ruins her marriage, besmearches her name, and in the end of it all forces himself on her, all the while telling himself that she compelled him to such actions, that she forced his hand so much that he sunk so low.....there is no justification in the world for what he did......he knows it.....he wanted to hurt her, he did so......he blamed her, but he hurt more in the process because he sunk lower in esteem in his own eyes.


At the end of it all, who's happy.........NO ONE!!!


Hmmmm..........I think I strayed abit off topic here, and I apologise for this.....I don't know if this is what you wanted to hear or not Rinku.


Oh, btw, please empty your inbox......I've been trying to pm you but with no joy.


Luv

Hafsa

nice and good job keep it up and thx a lotttttttttt 😊

Geez, do we have some brilliant writers here or what! Well written by both Love4ever and Hafsa. Wow, I really wish I had a way with words like u. 👏

Hey Hafsa di,

Firstly, I am so happy you are with such beautiful insight and di you never ever have to apologize for anything. I love to hear anything you have to say. Thank you for such beautiful thoughts and here's my insight on your amazing ideas.

You said: "You say that people like taking shortcuts to gain success, by lying, cheating etc.....Well, I guess we live in a world that is so much dominated by status and materiality that we are driven to get this, or have that, or be this or be that........so much so that we tend to loose a bit of ourselves, a fundemental bit, in the process if we are not careful. We loose our own identity in the persuit of having something or being someone that the world would be in awe of......In essence making ourselves miserable....yet this status, this power, is a drug, and we don't realise just how miserable we are until it's too late. People tend to choose power over love, which in turn means choosing it over family.....and that in itself is their biggest mistake."

True sis, the world changes as people consider what is important to them. Success has been in demand my many people and so they work towards in several ways…maybe losing some bit of themselves along the way (which I hope not – but it happens). Even though the mentality dominates by gaining material satisfaction…it happens so coz we allow it. Numerous of us wait for love to approach, but we are unwilling to give at all hours…why? We are empowered to decide what kind of life we desire, but some decide looking at what others want from us. Someone wise once said, "Seek not outside yourself, heaven is within."

You said, "Now onto the characters......it is their obsession with, in this case, not material things, but love, hate, revenge....and in all three cases, the blame is soley placed at someone elses feet, denial flying all over the place, emotional scars are formed, and actions that would under normal circumstances never happen, take place.....hurting the one you love for apeasement for your pain.......it doesn't relieve your pain to hurt the one you love....it just makes you hurt more in the process."

Exactly, the hurt is elevating by tarnishing existing relationships through actions and words of each other. They love with love but show hate with love in "hating ways." (I don't even know if that makes sense). It's all a blame game for them…blame the other when pain in felt and coz of the anguish they blame themselves for loving them. The direction of that blame should be changing… blame yourself for the suffering not loving.

You know sis many people say "Love is blind" – but is love blind or that people become blind by not seeing love? If love is blind, then why do we love? If love is blind, then why have we believed we must love in order to see?—that's coz love is a way of seeing, not blind. They have made themselves blind by covering the emotion of loving and revealing sides of aching through wrong ways.

Unfortunately, both A-K have stopped seeing what they should be and rather they have searched for faults in each other. Both A-K resonate words of the given pain, rather than given love. They simply dig past atrocities and leave alone forgiving each other; they don't even allow forgetting the events. Hence they have walking towards dead end… for how will life move when love is the other way!

Once again, I am so happy you are back to giving such deep insights...missed you alot. Love you loads and I hope you continue writing your awesome thoughts!!!! Take care dear!

-Love4ever!

hey Guys,

Thank you all very much for all the sweet words! Thank you Munni di...love you loads!!!

Ranger-- sweetie thank you for such kinds words. I agree with you that HAfsa di is a great writer (not me), but you know what...even you can very well write such--for these are words of feelings. I am sure you will write in an amazing when you write with emotions. Words doesn't matter as much as the thought behind it. Take care dear!

-Love4ever!

NICE!!!! took loads of time to read it!!!! 😳