Sulochana:The perfect Mother

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Posted: 15 years ago
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I am writing Sulochana's thoughts in this post.

I am Sulochana Kranjekar.I have three daughters and one son.Earlier I used to do all household chores but once I became sick and handeled the duty of my whole family to my 14 years old girl Archana.She was in 8th standard then.She gave up her studies to help in my household chores.Was I wrong?No never.Archana is the eldest daughter of the family.She should sacrifice her education for this family.It is the duty of a daughter.No big deal.Archana is a very obdient child.She does whatever I tell her to do.She never thinks of her happiness.I always dreamt of giving my daughter's marriage to a very educated and rich man.But due to certain circumstances she is married to a mechanic now.That boy was uneducated.So I never liked him.He loves my daughter a lot but I feel education is more important than love.Now I have brought my daughter in my home.I won't let her to live with that uneducated characterless man.I know my daughter love him a lot.But that doesn't matter to me.I am sure I can give a better marriage to my Archu.

My second daughter is Varsha.She is very rude and don't know how to behave with elders.I shouldn't have let Varsha to study.Study,Carrer is important for a man,not a woman.A woman's duty is to do household chores like my Archu always does.Today Varsha left my home because I suspected her.Why won't I suspect her,she was in a room with her boss.How disgusting,Na?
My youngest daughter is Vaishali.I will make her like my Archu.I will never let her do what she wants.No matter if she cries all day,I will never let her to meet her husband if he is uneducatd.
My eldest son is Vinod.I love him very much.I love his wife Manjusha also.Manjusha is a wicked lady.She has lots of times insulted us.Still I love and trust her than my own daughters as Vinod and Manjusha earns well.
Am I not a perfect mother?
What do you think?
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Posted: 15 years ago
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You are NOT a PERFECT MOTHER!!!
What kind of woman/mother are you???
Discriminate your own children!!??
Luckily you are NOT my mother!!!....OR else i would throw you out of the house!!!
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: ..TatianaMJ_SD

You are NOT a PERFECT MOTHER!!!

What kind of woman/mother are you???
Discriminate your own children!!??
Luckily you are NOT my mother!!!....OR else i would throw you out of the house!!!

I am a perfect mother.What did i do?I separated my Archu from that uneducated man and trusted Manjusha's brother and that pimp becuase they are rich and educatedI hate Varsha because she insults my sweet Bahu Manjusha.😆
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Posted: 15 years ago
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hahahaha....lol 🤣
No doubt you are a perfect mother in the category of 'koop mandook'. 😆😆
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: MRS BANI WALIA

.. I am a perfect mother.What did i do?I separated my Archu from that uneducated man and trusted Manjusha's brother and that pimp becuase they are rich and educatedI hate Varsha because she insults my sweet Bahu Manjusha.😆



Yes..separating a daughter from her husband is not a big deal...you are really great...no doubt, if Archu gets married to a rich man, he will buy all the happiness, which Manav can never provide her....😆😆😆
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Loll nice thought but no Sulochana, u r wrong, u r not the perfect mother ..
first u shd let Archu decide her life, u cd have decided if she weren't married, but now that she's married to Manav u haven't any rights to interfere in, only ArMan
have the rights to decide their life and no one else ! U can advice her but not decide, U know that she's happy with him and loves him too, so plz leave her alone !!
Second, how can a mother humiliate her daughter in front of everyone ? U shd have thought abt this b4 sending her to work, now that she's a working woman, u shd understand that she has to travel and attend conference abroad too .. this is not a school where she has a fixed time and come home at that precised time .. I agree going without informing u that she's going to Pune is wrong, but she didn't go to a foreign country, I guess Pune is near Mumbai as u went to check there, so If u think that's wrong, then u shd question her in privacy ..
third, plz atleast don't spoil Vaishu'l life too ..
And last but not the least, u r too dumb as u trust ur enemy's son but not ur son-in-law who saved 2 lives in ur family, u knew very well that R Aai and Ajit tried to ruin ur daughter's life, u've even fought with them but still u trust them .. No wonder, ur daughter is the same, Thank God she had some senses last friday to defend her husband and herself ..

Edited by tasnime - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: jibi



Yes..separating a daughter from her husband is not a big deal...you are really great...no doubt, if Archu gets married to a rich man, he will buy all the happiness, which Manav can never provide her....😆😆😆



Arrey yaar money can buy n give love, happiness ..we need money to live and I think Manav hasn't enough to buy her clothes and feed her, is it ? .. Didn't she learn from Satish yet ? 😊
Edited by tasnime - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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First of all, very nice sarcastic post...!!!
Well, I think Sulochana is not a bad person but she tries too hard to be the perfect mother... she is overtly overprotective to the extent that she thinks that her children wont be able to differentiate right from wrong, that it is her duty and her right to make them understand what according to her is right. She wants to guide them holding their hands lifelong... doesn't want to accept that they are old enough to handle their life on their own now, its not that they don't need her, but her interference is getting claustrophobic for her children.She should understand this herself, before a day comes when her children have to MAKE HER UNDERSTAND this. Then that day she'll get not an anxiety attack but a real heart attack, and make her children feel guilty all over again.
Edited by nikitagmc - 15 years ago

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