more sadnes& tears 2day,but Aksh got her voice bak - Page 15

Originally posted by: desertrose21

guys we should've known naitik wouldn't give up his cupboard so easily 🤣

that unpacking scene was too good to be true!

Originally posted by: _charu_

aawww Ritu, plz don't feel sad....I'm always there with u 🤗 I'm glad i wasn't present yest...was dead tired and my eyes and head was aching...and i'll be taking a week's break frm IF ..not ekdum inactive but less active bec. i enjoy yrkkh now without these silly arguments frm all sides...i dun want anything to influence me, just wanna enjoy this journey.....am i the only one who liked yest. episode? 😆 nyways without wasting time (bec. i don't have it today and tomorrow) and without inviting any arguments (i'm not writing this for sum kind of debate), i'll post a gist of what i felt about yest. episode.....

firstly, i was elated to see akshara hugging Naitik (more so coz i wanted it to happen.and i predicted it), but was that a hug? 😕 isse better toh Akshara hugs Shaurya ! so the episode started with a disappointing hug 🤢 and tons of litres of tears from Akshara (i'm still confused she was crying bec. of her mother or bec. of Naitik's job) ..whateva, she cud have talked to him calmly at that time (opened her mouth ! literally 😡 ) but she didn't do it and as usual Naitik walked away with his bhinbhinata hua i don't care attitude....the sad songs and both of them going off to sleep ..just another bad night for them... 🤢

morning, Akshara couldn't concentrate on her singing and walked away (another similarity b/w naitik and akshara..he walked away frm the dining table and she , frm the bhajan sabha) she cud have said to Daddaji and told him tht she can't sing tdy instead of just standing up and walking away...leaving others to guess why is she upset !

Daddaji in Naitik's room 😲 tht was good..his pure hindi explanation of "low BP and hig BP" was informative 👍🏼 and Daddaji waking up Naitik was too funny....Daddaji ke aage bolti bandh.. 🤪 i liked what he said after that...this is my regular dialogue..."jaldi uth kar karna kya hai " 🤣

And now the Maheshwari house, well since i was having this bad headache yest. and mera dimag 360 degrees ghoom gaya after watching their stupidity ! Thank You Sunaina for explaining what Vishambhar was tyring to do..didi ka dhyaan dobara grihasti mein....so was she doing social service before that? a day before falling ill, she was sambhalofy the grihasti only ! o o Shaurya telling Varsha "maa ko kyun kaam karna pad raha hai", aur yahi baat Naitik ne ki hoti toh , he wud have been awarded with tons of adjectives by now ! Omi kaka , why does he always talks like a sadoo? if he wants to give sunaina that haque then it's never too late..carry on.....till this point, i felt yrkkh wednesday's episode is like "pati special" episode..some khichdi was cooking which went completely over my head.....looks like they're adding the scenes frm Maheswari house uselessly bec. they can't show only Akshara in those 20 mins of yrkkh.....

Singhania house was slightly better..Daddaji was talking sense (although i couldn't understand what all he said..language problem) but he said it right...and Gayitri :D OMG she again wanted to do the same mistake..she never lets him grow..that's one problem......laakhon mein ek lolzzzz of course he's lakhon mein ek but let him discover himself..he should also know his worth , infact he should earn it with his actions rather than his maa ki mamta bhari baatein....maa cheez hi aisi hoti hai.....for maa her children are nothing but perfect...i liked it when daddaji stopped Gayitri...and Rajshekhar bhi....they all know how to approach this problem the right way !

and now for my fav. scene 🥳 Akshara mata finally opened her mouth and scolded Naitik...and my most fav. dialogue frm this episode..aaaawwww i was thinking abt it while dropping my daughter to school in the morning...n kept on smiling ..."MERI SAARI ZINDAGI AAP PAR DEPEND KARTI HAI" 🥳 yuhhhooo!! this will stay with me for a long time......isileyi aap mujhse naaraz ho jaate hain aur baat nahi karte 😍

and now for Naitik, yes, he could have consoled her (natural reaction) but all that happens only in love and Naitik is "supposedly" not in love yet (and akshara knows it...he hasn't climbed tht ladder right?) ....that's what I learnt from yrkkh...that it's not important who takes the first step to end the fight...if u have to give up, give up ur ego , go and talk to ur loved one bec. you can't do without him ! ego & love can never be present at one place !

age, upbringing, nature, do all these arguments hold for akshara only and not for Naitik? He's been pampered to no end by his mom and family and tht's his nature that whenever he gets upset he stops talking (he's done tht a lot many times before and Gayitri and Rashmi have told this clearly) and starts throwing tantrums..that's why he always said that only my mom understands me well......how can we expect him to change overnight ? his mood swings, his nature , Akshara has only seen a glimpse of it...it'll take her a lot of time to understand them and act accordingly.....Akshara is too young to handle all this , her sasural or her husband but Naitik too is very young and close minded bec. of his upbringing....he'll react to these situation like he normally does , the only difference is that there will be somebody with him who will show him his place (which didnt happen till now), where he's wrong, what should be changed ! and with time, as both of them share their lives with each other, Akshara and Naitik will learn ! Naitik is very lucky to have a wife like Akshara who will show him the mirror and let him grow.....we all learn from our mistakes right? but when ppl. around us will not let us see our mistake then ? that's exactly what happened with Naitik....

what they wanna show in yrkkh is that akshara and Naitik are from different backgrounds , their upbringing was almost similar..both were pampered by their parents but therez a basic difference when it comes to boys and girls...and which cotinues after their marriage also when a girl becomes a bahu.....when a boy does any mistake, it's ignored (in yrkkh) and when a girl does any mistake she's not spared bec. her mind is moulded tht way ke she must give in, be flexible bec. she has to go to a new house and make all kinds of adjustments ! Akshara is too confused bec. everything and everybody is new for her....which includes Naitik....with time she'll learn to handle his mood swings and adjust with his nature bec. it's very difficult to change one's nature..it takes a lot of time...for the time being, she should stop acting like helpless female , stop crying and be strong (like she did yest...although she cud have said all those things without shedding tears but nevertheless, she said something!)

it's thursday today and nandini's problem is yet to surface so there isn't any chance of patch up ..may be a small one..u know yrkkh loses it's balance when mohit goes missing.....therez a serious need of some light moments to divert our mind frm this high voltage drama and crying !

seriously mujhe is dard se mukti dedo. mujhe aur nahi saha jaata!!!!!!

Originally posted by: anu-s

This line of your's had impressed me very much.👏👏

Afterall, This is what YRKKH is all about. In a marriage institution, couples learns to grow with time,

exactly ! that's what marriage is..it's a process of discovering each other....each other's limitations and weaknesses...Akshara is the mirror for Naitik..Naitik will be able to see his mistakes through her and same goes for Akshara....She'll come to know abt her weaknesses frm Naitik...and now, when both of them will share their lives, they will learn to limit each other's weaknesses as well...Akshara will bring tht stability in Naitik's life..she can tone his anger & attitude down and Naitik will help her in becoming assertive & confident..he'll become the pillar of support for her and she'll automatically change

Nobody is wrong here..Neither Naitik or Akshara..they can never do anything wrong..i judge them through their reactions and not their actions....Akshara's natural reaction is that she starts crying whenever something goes wrong, somebody is upset with her or she's not able to clear the confusion or able to express herself...the only one thing is does is crying and then she needs those energy capsules from her dadi or anybody who's giving pravachans.......Naitik's weakness is in his impulsive reaction....he always react in the wrong way and we think that he's selfish and doesn't care abt the ppl. around him..which is wrong...don't we become oblivious to the feelings of ppl. around us when we're in a bad mood? it happens with me all the time ! reactions are instantaneous & impulsive ..we tame our impulses from our childhood and hence this kind of behavior is difficult to change overnight....

am very happy to read ur messages charu.... new to this forum, would like to read ur comments...

Originally posted by: ebox999

am very happy to read ur messages charu.... new to this forum, would like to read ur comments...

thank u ... 👏

thanks 😊