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Anu Kapoor

@anukapoor

Dazzler

+ 3

Posted: 16 years ago

I loved the scene where Panditji says, according to the Janam Kundali of Dev, he does NOT have the scope of DuBharya(don't be mad at me for saying this). He says, Doosara vivah nahin ho saktha..Dev cannot be married again to another girl this is different from marrying same girl twice....Kundali milan tho ho gaya....Ram-Sita, Shankar - Paravati ki kundali hain......But doosari shaadi nahin ho sakthi, jiski kundali mein dubharva yog nahin hain............voh chahe kitni koshish kare, doosara vivah nahin ho saktha......This proves to me that, whether Vaishali likes it or not, this marriage is a done deal for Dev and Radhika. Vaishali is apprehensive that Radhika's Janam will effect Dev's future. So any attempts by her to get Vishaka or any other girl close to Dev will prove futile.......Chachaji says, Jab se vivah ki baat chali hain, koi na koi vign aa hi raha hain, is ka matlab hain ki Niyati khud nahin chahathi ke yeh vivah ho.................Yes, Chachaji Niyati khud nahin chahathi ki yeh dusara vivah ho, kyon ki Dev aur Radhika ki shaadi tho ho chuki hain.........aur kyon ki kundali Ram - Sita jaise hain (Ram ki bhi ek patni hi thi) aur Shiv - Paravti jaise hain(Shiv had married Daksh prajapathi's daughter Dakshayani the first time, then Paravati later in next janam, but still Shakti in both janam)...So, this indicates to me, no matter how hard Amma or Vaishali try, they cannot bring anyone else apart from Radhika in Dev's life.

Also, it makes me think, when Dev will try go ahead and gets married to Radhika, will it not raise questions in mind of Dadi? Even though Rads will face problems, she has patience in the world like Sita, to endure all the problems for Dev. Slowly, but surely, Rads will form a bond with Vaishali and help her over come the fear of the Dev's future. I really hope they show beautiful bond between the two, leading to Radhika getting the love of a mother, which she never got in her entire life.

Edited by anukapoor - 16 years ago

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devradhika4ever

@devradhika4ever

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Posted: 16 years ago

That was my thought too, my nightmare about Vish being in a ghungat and dev landing up with two wives is no longer true. So i am kind of relieved. Just hoping the truth about the the first shadi is out soon. And the issue with Rads parents be resloved or else it is going to be complete torture for Rads in the purohit family. i was really counting on Dadi and Vaishali but now Vaishali is loosing her marbles so we have only dev and Dadi on her side.

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tapish

@tapish

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Posted: 16 years ago

Hey anukapoor that means everyonw except Radhika,Amma and Devki will try to bring vishakha back and that may mess up the things. that way radhika will never be shown choti bahu of purohit family unless truth comes out.

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Banibond

@Banibond

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Posted: 16 years ago

Anu, I understand your point and actaully thought the same thing afer reading the update buy my fear is the amount of torture Radhika will have to face in PB. Yeah Dev and Dadi is there to protect her but how much is she really going to reveal to Dev b/c the Mircha gang is too smart to do anything infront of Dev b/c they know Dev will not put up with their crap. Same goes for Vaishali so that means Radhika will again will be drown in sorrow by herself w/out even Dev knowing most of it. I just want to see them happy for a while, is that really too much to ask? Why can't the creatives give them (and us) some happy momements w/out any dark clouds looming around.

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rajsri

@rajsri

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Posted: 16 years ago

anuk ... great post as usual

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Sandeepa

@Naivedya

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Posted: 16 years ago

Anu, I posted something similar in my post called At least one good thing is happening in CB. I feel better knowing:

1. Dev cannot marry any other woman no matter how hard Vaishali, Amma, etc. try to get him back with Vish or try to find a new girl for him (not that he would ever agree to such things anyway!)

2. The chances of Vish being behind ghungat on the wedding day by Amma's trickery or Vish being asked to provide waaris are slim to none with this new knowledge. Even if such absurd requests come out of Vaishali or Amma's mouths Kanha will simply not allow it to happen.

3. Rads may have to suffer a lot at PB without Dev's knowledge, but I feel that it will continue to make her stronger. Also, this difficulty might actually help when the ultimate truth is revealed. I cannot put into words how, but that is my gut feeling...like if she suffers now all the suffering will bear fruit later on and Dev won't be so angry at her because he will have found out by then how much she suffered so knowing she was his all along will be like the balm for the suffering/pain. I don't know...just my feeling/hope.

I wish we could have some good pre-wedding RaDev scenes without the villains making faces in the background or new obstacles coming up. I'm usually the first one to throw her hands up in the air and say, "I've had it, I quit!" but I'm going to give the creatives a chance this time. I will give them the benfit of the doubt and hang on and assess things until karva chauth. Let's see what happens by then. I don't see the truth coming out by then, but I feel something significant will happen since it is RaDev's first karva chauth. Also, I will hang on as long as I see the creatives being true to their words via Rads and the promises she made. She told Dev she will not give back this rishta and that she would stand by him no matter what and that they are one. She promised Kanha she would tolerate any difficulty for Dev's happiness. If all of this unfolds and she keeps her promises and stands by Dev and not away from him, I will continue to watch. But if the creatives conveniently forget these promises and bring her back to square one (i.e. sacrifical lamb) I will seriosuly consider quitting. Out with the lamb and in with the lioness! Like I said in my post, I'm willing to watch any negativity as long as RaDev are not physically and emotionally seperated.

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dee

@deefan

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Posted: 16 years ago

great post anu...but my question is how will this issue be solved? according to the world vishaka is his wife....devki won't open her mouth...

the secret needs to be hidden in order for vish to come back...so what is the solution you think?

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Anu Kapoor

@anukapoor

Dazzler

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Posted: 16 years ago

Dee: This message will make Dev and Dadi think....and if this marriage happens......then will this not make Dadi think?? Panditji has told clearly to Dadi that is no solution for this issue. He says, in Dev's kundali there is no scope for second marriage. And no matter what any one tries, SECOND MARRIAGE WILL NOT happen...but if this wedding takes place, even at the "HAT", ZIDD of Dev, this proves only one thing to me, that RADHIKA IS THE ONLY WIFE........ Of course, this means Vaishali becoming more negative towards Radhika. Remember Chacha says, kabhi kabhi kamzoor pyaada hi jeet karva detha hain...........So, for now, Vaishali is becoming against the marriage with Rads, but she CANNOT do a thing about it....

Think of this situation. If Dev had the chance of second marriage, to me it implies, his bond with Radhika can be broken...and since Vaishali is apprenhensive abt her birth related issue, she may try to get Vish beget waaris for RP post, by trying to get Dev marry Vish.....But that door is CLOSED/...... To me, this is message from Kanha, no matter what you try....RaDev relation cANNOT be broken and no one can try to become his wife or beget a child for him...........

Kyon ke Niyati khud nahin Chahathi ki Dev ka dosari shaadi ho.............

Dev ki Ardhanagini keval Radhika hi hain...................

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aviation-ca

@aviation-ca

Voyager

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Posted: 16 years ago

I have been reading the posts about first marriage truth to come out... but I think the point it should have come out is gone.... the reason for this is then it becomes more ammunition to the Mircha gang to dethrone Dev. Remember the intention of the Mircha gang... they are against this marriage only because with a loyal wife, Dev's position becomes so strong, Chacha cannot do a power grab.... On the other hand if the truth does come out.. Chacha can claim foul... How can someone who has knowingly or unknowingly lived with a girl who is not his wife be RP??? How can he give dharmik edicts if he himself is adharmik.... It will besmirch Dev's name and Shastriji's name... Sooooo I hope they will resolve the issue of Rads background with much more fineesse than the money issue with Shastriji... and then the wedding.... To me all this negativity against Rads WILL make her stronger... we know she will do anything for her family.... after THIS marriage, she will enter the house as official wife and then Dev becomes her family... Watch out Mircha gang....

ps: Please Creatives don't disappoint us by making her meek again....

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evasumi

@evasumi

Rocker

+ 6

Posted: 16 years ago

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Another thing striking was that panditji said ram-sita and shiv- parvati.. He was sitting in front of Radh-kishan idols but said the names of those who were married...

And also when Kanha appeared at the Ghat.. He already asked Radh kya tum Dev ke liye kashth utha sakti ho??

Whatever Vaishali says or does one thing is sure that ultimate authority in the Purohit khandan is dadiji.. and Dadiji will tackle Vaishali wisely.. All these time whenever Vaishali was trying to object or say something she could not empty her fear or her confusion to anyone.. and on top of that all other people added more venom in her heart about unfitness of Radh for Dev...

I think she is so weak that she has forgotten the focus here...

It is Dev her own son who wants to marry the girl he loved from the moment he laid eyes on her... She is forgetting that her son would not marry anyone except this girl.. She is his soulmate

I do not think that Dev will allow Vish to come back in his life on his mother's wish... Relationship with Vish is no option for Dev at all...

Even when she was at PB under his mom and Dadi.. Dev did not keep any relation with her and now she has left on her own.... does not want to come back and on top of that She has broken all ties with Dev and have insulted Dev like crazy at MB..

Dev would have kicked Vish out long back if Radh was not there to tell him not to .. there are only two persons who can make Dev to do something is Dadima and Radh.. All other do not influence Dev as much... But someone has to deal with Vaishali.. or leave her to mop her own tears.. But Dev will find the way because he is not going to leave his mother unsatisfied by his behavior..

Vaishali has to choose between the happiness of her son or her stupidity.. She does not have even option to select son or grand son because if Radh cannot come in Dev's life there is no question of GS. Some one has to make her understand that there is no waris if there is no Radh..

Let see what happens and how many days it takes to resolve this issue..

Edited by evasumi - 16 years ago

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