1. Is person like Rajiv worth marrying? yes or no? why?
Not at all. A person who cannot control his senses, goes around brothel houses, what respect he can give to his wife? He just wants a wife who can stay home as status symbol. I haven't watched the initial episodes where Bhalla agrees to marry Simi, but I think he is marrying Simi for his mom. And he chose Simi as she is to submissive. He can play whatever way he wants.
2. Should Simi ruin her life so that Anuj gets happiness/?
She shouldn't. He won't rescue her in future, I can guarantee. She should stand on her own for her future. No such sacrifices worth.
3. Is Anuj and Anita worth Simi's sacrifice?
Whether Simi sacrifice or not I'm sure Anita will marry Anuj, vice versa. Anuj was just waiting for a chance to get Simi married. Now even, simi gets her engagement break off, he will definitely go with Anita. I'm damn sure.
4. Suppose Anuj marries Anita would she be proven good DIL who will make Simi's family happy?
She won't. Anuj becomes 'gharjamaii' for sure, his role shows those symptoms!! He was just waiting for Simi to get married. He is so worried about getting A.C. for his future mil and dint even help in the house..so selfish, self centered.Even Anita agrees for Anuj or Simi to stay in Sethi's house, Anita's parents will take away their sil to their home!!
5. any idea why Simi is acting like an uneducated feeble person when she herself is an independant woman?
She has no self confidence. Just htinking she became burden to the family and hurdle to her own siblings. she would have broke up the alliance but When Anuj told about his love matter, she became guilty. She wants to leave the house in a respectful manner, though she knew Rajeev is not worth for her.
She is thinking she should sacrifice for her bro.
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6. Should Simi's family be more sensitive to Simi's well being? especially Anuj?
Actually Anuj is unaware of Bhalla's character. So, he is focused in his own life. He just waiting to Simi get married soon. Esplly when he has the time constrain to get married. He may feel guilty when he knew about Simi's sacrifice. If he knew before her marriage, he might worry about his future than her life. Simi's mom is living in deniel. I don't think Rajender would encourage this alliance when he comes to know the truth. He already mentioned, when relation starts with compromisation it won't stay for long.
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