Bhaai rey bhaai.....!!!!!Pyaari behna,kya kehna?

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Posted: 16 years ago
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This post is about the bhaais who get married and juggle between their Sasural and Apna-gharšŸ˜•
Well,for today's episode,isn't Mili a bit toooooooooooooooooo much? After all she's an Indian girl,Anuj is his elder brother & she talks to him with such disrespect & today she even hit him😲..... n even if he cares for his wife & in-laws,is it verrrrry bad?? Even in Pavitra Rishta Manav keeps on trying to keep his ArchanaJi and her family members out of trouble n happy..even angering hiw own Aai! I really donot see Anuj that bad!! Young boys when they're in love or they're to get married,they're expected to behave in this manner..... he's dealing with some new issues on the verge of getting into new relationships with his in-laws so,why not give him some time & support too??eC'CCCan't a 'bhaai' expect this little thing from his sister/song from the film Kohinoor, sung by the legendary Mohd. Rafidealing wit h some issues in the verge of making new relationships.....AAAAnyways,his Wife or his in-laws are not going to 'Snatch' him from his family members..right? Then why this Insecurity..?? Why blaming/taunting him and making his situation more difficult??
Can't Bhaais in our families expect this little understanding and support from their Sisters/Maa/Baba when they get married>?Though Bhaais DO NOT GO TO SASURAL,their life also goes thru' lottttttttttttttttttts of challenges as they enter in a new relationship!!!!!
In some families where there are no sons,can't sons from another family be sons-in-law as well as 'Sons' for their parents-in-law????????????We do expect that they'll take exceptional care of their Jawais,respect their daughters' Sasural-members but why can't we let go our sons 'a bit' just to be some sort of support or just be a loving son to his in-laws?Isn't it time that LadkeWalle change their 'attitude' a bit??šŸ˜‰
Behnein.....What are your views??
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: iamindian

This post is about the bhaais who get married and juggle between their Sasural and Apna-gharšŸ˜•

Well,for today's episode,isn't Mili a bit toooooooooooooooooo much? After all she's an Indian girl,Anuj is his elder brother & she talks to him with such disrespect & today she even hit him😲.....



well...that is sister-brother love :D
me and my brother have problems too...we gotten into tons of fights
but we still cant live without each other...its just how it is :)
the more you fight, the closer you are šŸ˜†


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well my brother isnt married yet šŸ˜†
and he's not going to be for another 10-15 years, lol and he'll get married after me of course..since i am older :P
i do bug him though...saying that he'll get married before me and have like 5 kids šŸ˜†

anywaaays...since my only brother isnt married yet, i dont know how'd i feel
though, i'd feel a bit jealous if he'd be paying more attention to his in-laws than me and my family




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Posted: 16 years ago
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i love to watch family series because am the only childin my family
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Caring is ok but chamchagiri is too much. He is doing only chanchagiri as if she is going to die without AC he is only worried about his in-law but the function was about Simi's in-law and honewala pati. He should be involved himself in preperation but when servent asked for simple thing he was not paying any attention to that guy. i guess as mr. sethi said that he will doing bidai of his son instead of daughter and this guy is very much on the way of becoming 'ghar jamai'.


I really wonder these people without doing background checking of groom and parents fixed marriage. Mr. Seti looks very strong and man of one word and he also didnt bother to do the background checking.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Well,I really do not see Ghar Jamais in a Very bad way.....in fact I've seen such a family where there are 2 brothers and the parents live with the Elder brother whereas the younger brother lives with his wife and her Widow mother..... and I must say he's doing a 'moral' job!!
After all if Bahus can Come and live in Sasural,why should it be bad for Boys? After all times have changed a lot and women also can take care of their parents,not like puraaney-dinn where the women had to 'forget' their Maayka and only serve her sasural,no matter if her Sasural needs the service or not!! I do not see it in bad light if the Beti and Jawai live with Elderly parents who might have only daughters and nobody to look after the daughetrs are married!!😭
It's the intention behind it that should count,not the ghisi-Piti Puranee khyaal that Ghar Jamais are only subjected to Comedies😲
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: iamindian

Well,I really do not see Ghar Jamais in a Very bad way.....in fact I've seen such a family where there are 2 brothers and the parents live with the Elder brother whereas the younger brother lives with his wife and her Widow mother..... and I must say he's doing a 'moral' job!!

After all if Bahus can Come and live in Sasural,why should it be bad for Boys? After all times have changed a lot and women also can take care of their parents,not like puraaney-dinn where the women had to 'forget' their Maayka and only serve her sasural,no matter if her Sasural needs the service or not!! I do not see it in bad light if the Beti and Jawai live with Elderly parents who might have only daughters and nobody to look after the daughetrs are married!!😭
It's the intention behind it that should count,not the ghisi-Piti Puranee khyaal that Ghar Jamais are only subjected to Comedies😲



I totally agree with you but as i said in the earlier post Careing is really good and nothing more than that but chamchagiri is not acceptable. Looking after Elderly parents is fine but dancing on in-laws finger tips is too bad. no offence with those who stay and take care of their in-laws even my mama who married his love never use to stay with his in-laws only when his father in-law passed away to take care of mother-in-law he moved to their place but before that his in-law did not ask his to do same thing what they said to him not even wife tried to move to her place as soon as they got married.

But in anuj case before marriage only this guy is so much worried that he arranges for a big hall to impress them, order cold drinks only instead of juice, AC instead of Fans, and again complaints if they get to know about his standards and family problem they may break marriage. Are yaar apne pyar pe bharosa hai why you worry about all this. the girl you love knows what you are how is your family and what is the standard of living and then only she must have decided to marry you right. what is the big deal in making your in-law know what exactly you and your family is. if they love their daughter and like you as Son-in-law they should have no problem with any other thing right.

any one can make out the way anita's mom and dad behave is like im superior and you are inferior and when i have money to buy any thing be carefully i can buy you too. Remember how her father said one day karol bagh will blast before of congestion why dont you sell every thing and move out. i felt it was too much and what anuj is doing is ridiculous.

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