Perfect husband

I got one question after seeing this serial that who is perfect husband/groom

The one who is Loola, lagla, andha, phisically handy caped/Divorcee/lil aged but is a nice guy respect and care women and his family. may not so good like Ram but is a normal guy who try to balance every relationship in his life.

OR

The one Physically fit but has smoking / drinking habits / having illigal relation ships(with women) / juari / any kind of bad habits / dominating / ill treating women and thinks she is just shoe worn in foot.


Let me know our fourm members choice of perfect husband.

the first one...divorcee or a bit older is okay with me
not some good looking guy who couldnt care less abt me

Of course the first one, your past does not matter. It is your present. If the second man has bad habits, it is worsethan being handicapped.

first choice of course ....a women wants a husband who respects her for what she is ....and whom she can respect then it does'nt matter if he is a divorce or physically handicapped basically a good human being ...so second choice is totally ruled out.

Wow thanks for your suggestion's.

But still im confused who is better. How we will know that a phisically disable/divorcee/lil aged guy is good enough to spend your life with him.

OR

How to conclude that the 2nd type of guys is not going to change in there life time. Why i got this thought in my mind is that we have seen many serials that a very gharely type girl get married to a spoiled brat who treat his wife nothing more than an animaland women get ill treated by husband and inlaw and then changing gradually. We can see such shows in Bandini, colors and all.

So is it possible to change a person by your love and dedication (literally take chance with your life)
or

better to chose the 1st option (dont take any chance and be safe)

Before any one get doubts about my thinking let me clear im not married and i always wonder how to know a person and his character before you start living with him.