Do Joint Family Create Probs?

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Sanober

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Posted: 15 years ago

Hey Guys was thinking like they have showed in HDAA , Malika thinks headache to stay in a join family and have athought that after marriage, she will shift to the new house along with adee... so what do you think are joint family make troubles? wht Malika is doing is right or wrong??😊

In my opinion is totally wrong, one should can take care of the whole family id one's husband is supportive... so i think Adee wont agree to marry mailka after know her real colours...😊

PS: this topic is just for discussing it doesnt want to hurt any bodies views or sentiments... so kindly, stick on the topic...😳

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Nabila

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Posted: 15 years ago

It's not so much the family as it is the individuals. My cousin is married in to a great family where six sisters and two brothers all live under the same house with their parents and kids. And they get on really well.

In my family, anyone hardly talks to each other.😕

But usually the DIL wants to break away because they don't want to the in-laws interfering. I guess in this scenario Mallika just wants to be able to control Adee more?

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Sanober

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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: Tomiko

It's not so much the family as it is the individuals. My cousin is married in to a great family where six sisters and two brothers all live under the same house with their parents and kids. And they get on really well.

In my family, anyone hardly talks to each other.😕

But usually the DIL wants to break away because they don't want to the in-laws interfering. I guess in this scenario Mallika just wants to be able to control Adee more?

Why is that soo????

Yea malika wants to control adee so she can take his property but she doesnt know Adee's dad is so kanjoos😆

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Nabila

@Tomiko

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Posted: 15 years ago

^Because my family is so messed up! My dad's generation haven't seen each other for years and a lot of what's happened is enough for a K-serial script.😆

But that's just another example of how sometimes joint families just don't work out.

ZOMG; would love to see Mafatlal's face when Mallika asks for her share of the property!😆

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saher

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Posted: 15 years ago

:Lovely topic sano:)

yea in my opinion yes it makes...

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Sanober

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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: Tomiko

^Because my family is so messed up! My dad's generation haven't seen each other for years and a lot of what's happened is enough for a K-serial script.😆

But that's just another example of how sometimes joint families just don't work out.

ZOMG; would love to see Mafatlal's face when Mallika asks for her share of the property!😆

Oh thats something personal which i cant ask lol its ur fammilly matter lhehhehee...

lol uski hawaaiyan ud jayengeee😆

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CookMySock

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Posted: 15 years ago

Joint families are fine as long as people can understand each other and respect each others feelings. I live in a joint family which is not too common in England and I find it really nice. My dad and mum and his 2 brothers and their wives and my cousins and my grandparents and my sbilings all live together and I find it totally AWESOME cos it's special. We all have alot of masti but then again we talk when we have problems etc. In Mallika's case she seems to be of the 2050 type where like kids don't like living with parents! Saddd sad SAD! However joint families also depend on the person because Avantika has lived alone all her life, just her and her Daddu so she would LOVE to have so many people around her that are her own and love her to pieces. She still has that traditional gist to her. Whereas Mallika..Errr. No comments!

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Ragini

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Posted: 15 years ago

Well i agree with you! Joint families do create problems in my opinion!

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346815

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Posted: 15 years ago

I think Joint families are totallly awesome .. My mom and her seven siblings grew up together ... aand even after they were all married .. all of em luved together .. which is why I love visiting my granparents place .. not that the new bahus dont want to cause probs .. 😆😆😆

but with time paraaye bhi apne ho jaate hai ! 😳😳😳

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Posted: 15 years ago

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It depends on the individual, if u see a joint family as something bad, then u'll nvr manage to live wth them. If u don't then u'll suffer between them.

To tell the truth, whn i look at my moms family then their joint, I loooooove it.

But my father bro sis, all tht is soooooooooooooooooo messed up. I hate it.

So i don't know wht to choose.