Originally posted by: skstar
😆😃 i find it funny how love is being discussed here hehehehehe......few words from me
love is not something you can lecture about OR define it everyones experience is difference but i feel many girls or guys grow up basing their "outlook on love" through movies or books and then they try to find the same aspects in reality buttttt what they fail to understand is that in a movie which is what 3 hour long to 2 hour long or a book which is to 500 pages the most.......love is shown but in real life when you have 360 days and 24 hrs a day that same love u perceive through media ends maximum in couple of months....then people get so caught up fighting or searchin for that same love....obviously life is not like a move or boook heheh then THE REAL world kicks in which the movies/books fail to show the readers.....everyone wants to escape to an imaginery world which is farrrrrr off from reality......there is no ideal love out there cause the reality is besides being in "love" you have million other responsibilites to take care of etc etc and NO one out there is freee of worries that they can sit back n enjoy this so called love....so when the other factors play in you really get the whole feel of this so called love.....
so really its better not to have any expectations or any sort of ideal image cause you will only feeel hurt when your expectations are not met hence the love becomin painful.
have a care free out look .....go with the flow and have no expectations....
Love is full of trials/test/exams and some pass all n get out and some dont.....those that do were meant to be together and those that dont were not n something better is out there for them....if you have this thinking then even if you get hurt you will know that it was not meant to be and you are better off with someone else...always works in your favor
also this whole talk of being scared of finding love or at least having an experience in love is not in our hands.....you dont go looking for love...if it hasnt come to you then be happy and if it has then also be happy...
Always remember the grass is always greener on the other side....