DM's Weakness

As if the whole world wasn't enough to verbally bash Santu and as if Motiben has left some part of santu that she hasn't hit her on..we have another winner and that is Maulik. Now all we have to look forward to is watching men abuse women on Ekta's shows.. My god. And Birwa I didn't expect this from her but I am not surprised. What else can we expect from a girl to learn with role models like hiten (who is completely stubborn and out of control), Maulik ( who up until a few episodes ago was an alcoholic and now he is transformed into another stubborn and out of control guy) or Motiben (who ran away from home very young herself).
And santu is the one who always gets the blame why? Why doesn't anyone say anything to anyone else and why is santu always everyone's target? That is in my opinion because of DM's weakness.. unless and until DM doesn't give santu her rightful place she is always going to be crapped upon by everyone. I am just so disappointed in DM sometimes I feel like this isn't anyone's fault at all. This seems to be DM's fault.. I wouldn't give santu the time of the day either if the most important family member or the head of the family member doesn't care for her. The whole world knows that if anyone can make or break a woman's place in her in laws house, its her husband and no one else because men have to stand up for women and it has been so for centuries. Either as a father, brother, son, husband.. or lover (the way hiten stands up for khemi)
Just keeping the name Dharamraj for Dharampur and santu and parading around as the king of justice and passing judgments is not enough.. DM must see what happens in his own house. And watch EVERYTHING. STOP Motiben from insulting santu and insulting BA!
We need a change!

Agree, until and unless DM gives Santo her rightful place in his house and his life, none of his kids are going to give her any respect no matter what she does for them and she won't be able to stand-up for herself against Moti or his useless kids. Unless she feels secure in her place in his life and home, how will she be able to defend herself against Moti and the kids who she probably feels are more a part of his life and family than she is...she probably still feels like an outsider amidst these people.

DM does not have to be in love with her, that will probably take time...but he surely can acknowledge her place as his wife in front of his kids and Moti and forbid them from either verbally or physically abusing her. Once he does that, neither Moti nor any of his kids will have the guts to abuse her.

i agree with u