What kind of Love is this?

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Posted: 20 years ago
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Hey guys

What kind of Love do KA share?
I think KA should have been called Kaisa yeh pyar hai😊

I am soo confused...
Kavya married pammi, made her pregnant and now everyone thinks pammi has given birth to their baby.
Anjali on the other hand lost her baby which was kavya's, she knows that Kavya and pammi have done it😭 and she is even caring for K-P's baby which is reli hers...😭

How can they still love each other after all this?
How can anjali still love kavya even though she thinks he has produced a baby with sumone else?
How can kavya still love anjali more than anything even though he has been with Pammi for the last god knows how many months?
How can pammi and Nitya win over 2 ppl who are crazy in love?
Has KA's love for each other decreased coz of this separation?

How has Kavya agreed to live with pammi forever for anjali's happiness and how has anjali agreed to live with Yug forever for Kavya's happiness?.....when will KA realise their happiness lies with each other

Sumone plz answer my questions and explain to me what kind of love this is coz i dont get it...😕

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Posted: 20 years ago
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These are serious questions.

I call it unselfish love - they think of others and not them selves.

I thought of something else - how can yug give the baby to anjali - her ex husband child to look after. She just lost a baby and he goes and gives her kavya's (not knowing the truth ofcourse). Surely that will bring KA close together.

Coming back to your questions.

Kavya was deeply hurt he thought anjali had betrayed him - every time he was upset with anjali he turned to pammi. Now the truth is out,Kavya never forgave him self hence his love for Anjali had grown stronger and stronger.

Responsibilities and commitments is also part of it - they both have them with different partners and the only way to keep their love strong is by making sure each one is happy even though they have seperate lives,

Esti aunty



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Posted: 20 years ago
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😃 Excellent topic Shiroo and deep questions but honestly my brain is being lazy and i'm a confuzzled myself 😕..it is definately a love built on sacrifices but why is a little unclear to me right now! 😆
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👏 👏I agree with u esti aunty 😊

I think it takes guts to do what anjali is doing by looking after her ex-husband's baby 😊

Yea sumtimes when i see kavya with pammi then i wonder if his love for anjali has decreased but then it's obvious that he only goes to her when he's in need of a pillow or shoulder to cry on 😆
I think kavya can never be completely happy with pammi coz he will always have the question in his mind that "where would me and anjali be today if i hadnt separated from her?" 😕

Even when anjali was going to marry vansh...kavya said hum door rehke bhi pyar karsakte hai...and at time i found it weird....but thats exactly what they're doing now.. 😊
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Posted: 20 years ago
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this is a great topic sheen.. 😊
be back in 20 mins and will write a whole essay 😳 😆
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Posted: 20 years ago
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aww thanks pardesi...hehe i think they're making tooo many sacrifices....enough is enough....KA should book 2 flights to miami and chill on the beach. Let nitya die in jail...let pammi die in coma...let yug die in mittal house...and let the nandas wonder where everyone has done😳 😆
woooo uzi di cant wait 😳 😳 😳 😆
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ok before i start ranting on 😆 i think anjali needs to hear "satisfy you"😳 (r kelly/diddy track, old classic😉) sorry lol am listenin to it right now lol thats why.... 😳

kavya should tell her "he dont understand you like i do, no he'l never m*ke love to you like i do, so give it to me... i promise everything i do is to satisfy you.."😳

Anjali take note huni, Yug may love you in his own way but he will never make you happy..you may have a smile on your face but inside your just numb..

ok sorry, got that out was just dyin to say it!😆 ok wohooo finished up my last piece of work and now will write to my hearts content on something which actually interests me 😳😳

ok im goin to answer sheens q's coz otherwise i'll go way off point as always 😳😆


How can they still love each other after all this? the situation that they find themselves in now is all due to the fact that they love each other dearly..any step they have taken esp kavya i.e. getting close to pammi was their way of dealing with the hurt that they felt in this case kavya believing anjali was bewafaa.. the fact is that every step of the way they may have hurt eachother eg both attaching themselves to another person but the only ppl they have really hurt is themselves..


How can anjali still love kavya even though she thinks he has produced a baby with sumone else?

Anjali is such a selfless person that she would help an enemy as she does with pammi! but essentially its because i think she knows that kavya will only love her and that all that he did with pammi was just a mere physical act..there was no emotion, no spiritual union it meant nothing to him because he stil was unable to distance himself from anjali.
How can kavya still love anjali more than anything even though he has been with Pammi for the last god knows how many months?

Prior to kavya knowing pammi's true colours he was willing to make a go of his marriage, for the sake of the "bond" between the two he was willing to numb his heart and to have a relationship based on logic and with no emotional attachment..he believed her to be his "best friend" and was under the impression that this friendship was true and would leave his and pammi's relationship in good stead.. he knew he could never love again, not in the same way at least as he loves anjali..


How can pammi and Nitya win over 2 ppl who are crazy in love?

the short answer i think is that they cant...they can manipulate situations and make them work in favour of them but its only destiny and k~a themseleves which will show the way forward...those with bad intentions will never succeed... and most importantly k~a believe in their love and believer's always prosper....


Has KA's love for each other decreased coz of this separation?

i think that their love has actually grown, the passion and intensity in their love was present before the separation but after the separation i think they've come to know that no one will understand them like they understand eachother..the missing elements in their married life included lack of trust..but i feel that this trust has been regained and kavya has redeemed himself in many ways..


How has Kavya agreed to live with pammi forever for anjali's happiness and how has anjali agreed to live with Yug forever for Kavya's happiness?.....

Their love is unselfish they only think of eachother...they are willing to forego any happiness in their own life for the sake of eachother..unfortuantely they dont realise that k~a are and will only be truly content when reunited...birchergye lekhin the love is there and its ever strong.. there are those that are entirely selfish in their love and do not stop to think of others these ppl wont put themselves at ransom and would never undergo the pain and hurt that k~a are...because when it all comes down to it in some crazy way kavyas happiness is in anjali's happiness and vice versa...

Kaash they realised that they are eachother's happiness and sukoon😳

umm sorry i kinda got carried away, you guys most prob fell asleep reading that😆

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Posted: 20 years ago
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Uzi di that was amazing👏👏thank u for writing this for us...😳
I understand ka's love much better now.....
di u should seriously be a writer...
i'll buy a 1000 copies atleast of watever u write😊😆

Originally posted by: white rose


How can they still love each other after all this? the fact is that every step of the way they may have hurt eachother


ye very true....they've always hurt each other unknowingly. Kavya thought anjali was bewafa but the tables have turned and it was actually kavya who has ended up being bewafa.

Originally posted by: white rose


How can anjali still love kavya even though she thinks he has produced a baby with sumone else?

she knows that kavya will only love her and that all that he did with pammi was just a mere physical act..there was no emotion, no spiritual union it meant nothing to him...

ur soo right di👏👏yeh it was just a physical act and it meant nuthing. Kavya was forced into it because he had prove to everyone including himself that he is over anjali but instead he realised that he can never forget her. I think what nitya said afterwards was very true that 'kavyanjali ek dusre ke liye nahin jeete hain..instead ek dusre mein jeete hain'.


Originally posted by: white rose

he believed her to be his "best friend"


a mother like nitya and a best friend like pammi....
bechara kavya...kaisi kismet hai?

Originally posted by: white rose



i think that their love has actually grown,

kavya has redeemed himself in many ways..


yeh i also think their love has grown. Kavya now knows what he has lost by letting go of anjali....hopefully he wont make the same mistake again if they ever reunite😊 I think kavya has realised that anjali was the only person he could be himself with....coz in yesteday episode when he was at the mandir he said that 'mein ghut ghut ke jee raha hoon kab se.' It means he's suffocating coz he cant share his feelings with anyone since he has lost his companion. He has his mother but i think he's at the age when he needs moral support from his wife.......and he doesnt get that from pammi coz she is a dumbo🤢

Originally posted by: white rose


Kaash they realised that they are eachother's happiness and sukoon😳



yea when will they realise that if they want to be together then they have to do sumthing about it....coz there are plently of ppl working hard to keep them apart
I really thought they were gonna reunite in the episode when kavya hugged her just before the rabba song. I think at that point kavya was ready to fight the world to be with her but she said no.😭

sorry for my blabbering.....i got carried away😳
Edited by Supergirl7 - 20 years ago
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Posted: 20 years ago
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really nice topic shireen!!

but one thing according to anjali she says tt even now there is a lot of "respect" for kavya in her heart...she never says love...and at tt time she was alone talking to the baby, if she did actually love kavya she could have said smthing like " even today i love your papa", but she didnt 😕

and in yesterday's epi she says she loves yug...
i really have a bad feeling tt anjali may have actually fallen in love with yug 🤢 🤢

cos according to the dialogue she says tt their love has ended their frenship...gosh so wad does tt mean, tt she really loves yug?? 😕

oh yeah and the part where she tells yug, this child is kavya and pammi's pyaar ki nishani,i was like PLEASE!!!
😡


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Posted: 20 years ago
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thanks Mel..

Mel she wouldnt have openly said to the baby that 'i love ur papa'...especially when she thinks this baby is kavya and pammi's pyar ki nishani yeh mel i was also like puhleeezee woman what r u saying? what pyar ki nishani..it's all hatred and more hatred!😆
I think Anjali believes that she doesnt love kavya anymore....but it will only take kavya a few seconds to reserrect her feelings for him once kavya divorces that pammi. 😊

No she definitely doesnt love yug...and the way he is behaving these days must be hurting her from inside coz yug is hurting kavya~her true love. 😊
Edited by Supergirl7 - 20 years ago

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