Maybe I am going to be the only one to say this, but you are making a lot of assumptions here. So, I haven't seen this new interview with Rakhi saying she is going to get engaged and get to know the guy and then get married. Although I disappointed by the fact that she is not going to get married, I am also happy with the fact that she is not going to jump into anything. If it was my sister or cousin or friend, I would say to do the same thing.
So, let's look at the assumptions you have made:
Originally posted by: balmaaaaa
Now I ask all isnt this proof enough you cannot trust this woman? Itni unpredictable hai yeh! She took over 16 men for a ride and also millions of tv viewers into believing she is really going to get married through the show and now as it reaches its end and also with promos saying shaadi on august 2nd she suddenly does a volte face that only an engagement will take place and she has to 'test ride' the guy before she decides to marry him. Aakhir iske zindagi ka sawaal hai! ha! I am sure real reason could be this - she never had any intention of marrying the contestants or atleast any of the 'finalists'.
So, I am assuming then that you are there with Rakhi or the producers at NDTV to know what conspired, and you can read her mind to know that the intention was always to take the entire audience for "a ride". Haven't you seen enough posts that ask you not to assume anything about anyone - that we as regular people do not have the right to make assumptions or judge anyone. We do not know what really happened, and here you are making assumptions!
Originally posted by: balmaaaaa
She'll be a fool to marry anyone because never in her wildest dreams did she think that this show will be so popular that people everywhere are talking about her. She also sort of managed to erase her image of a trashy woman what with men from good backgrounds falling head over heels over her and ready to marry her inspite of her image.
Again, how do you know that they never expected the show to be a big hit? Do you know how popular Rakhi is? And, her reputation for having drama would surely bring viewers to watch for a long time. They want to see this happen - or like some of the others have said, even though they don't support Rakhi, they just want to see the end result - even if it's not a marriage - it's fun to watch, and most are just watching for the fun!
Originally posted by: balmaaaaa
Aaj is show ke karan uski popularity bad gayi hai aur because of this she will concentrate on doing more tv shows, make money and earn fame and then hopefully get a 'proper mate' to marry her. Whoever she is getting 'engaged' to will have to go through motions of being her fiance till the time comes for her to dump him and 'move on'. Now i think all those who lost in this show will silently be thanking their stars ki is aurat se bach gaye by not falling into trap of winning the show.
Why do you hate her so much? Because she comes from a lower income household? Because she danced at bars, etc.? Because she doesn't wear the clothes that you think decent people should wear? Because she says what she feels (sometimes unnecessarily)? Because she does item songs? Because she doesn't fit the mold for which you believe all Indian women should fit?
Honestly, I must say that to each her own. If she wants to do all this - then let her. Why have you wasted so much of your time writing out a big critque of Rakhi if you don't care about her? If you don't care about the show? I care - I care that you are making assumptions and putting her down when I am not sure that we have the right to do this!
Originally posted by: balmaaaaa
Now my question is why do all of us give so much importance to women like her who are unpredictable, do anything to get attention and become popular, keep changing their mind over everything, have a hot temper, display hypocrisy, pose as if they are very honest while lying all the time and do things such as treat men like trash, use and throw them from their life at their whim and fancy? One thing is very clear - she is taking all for a ride!
I guess the question is why have you given so much importance to her by taking your time to write a critque of her.
Like Arti, the-naked-face, and Chits1 have said over and over, can't we just watch and have some fun? Why do we have to make this show into something more important than it is? You obviously think the show is important or else you would not have written so much ...
And, if it's not important ... then maybe you should stop watching the show ...
Sorry if I said anything out of line. Just have difficulty with people judging - not just Rakhi, but anyone. I have been on the receiving end of being judged without the people knowing the real story, and this is why it's important to me to ensure that people understand why they don't have a right to judge.