What is Yudi's Responsibility in this Mess? - Page 3

Originally posted by: bobbiedhillon

Raksha di,

I totally agree with your point of view. Although Yudi was also trying to get over his feelings of not being able to have children, he should have been more sensitive to Rani. Rudr is alway insenstive so I don't expect him to understand.

Yudi completely failed to look into the future before he decided to remarry and I think he needs to own up to that fault of his.

Exactly after promoising to never leave her he put his own happiness before hers......he may have thought this would make both of them happy and Rani was willing to do it......but as a king he should have thought into the future...............also now Rani alone can have no kids from the way the track is at the moment he is now going to be a proud father even though he didnt do anything......so thats selfish! and i could never understand his zombie attitude towards comforting rani when she found out she couldnt have chidren he was almost dismissive about the whole fact!!!!

Sapna bobbi Rani was compelled to think about Yudi because of his attitude, first he was crying in CR's lap while Rani was listening how would a woman to feel.

Sapnaji,

Originally posted by: bobbiedhillon

Sapnaji,

I totally agree with you. I am usually very good about looking at other side's prospective but in this case I fail to see the Yudi prospective the creatives are trying to show us. I hold him responsible to make Rani's life miserable. I know Rani contributed to it but Yudi is the ultimate responsible for this decision.

Once you get married to someone you make them a promise to spend your life together with them in happiness and during hard times.

And that's hypocricy at it's best. Yudi getting married is a crime. Rani arranging the marriage is not.

Oh wait, I forgot, Yudi married Rani, Rani didn't marry Yudi, right?

Originally posted by: sapna99

Rakshaji i agree with you Yudi wasnt supportive and he didnt look after Rani the way he should have but that does not mean he wasnt equally upset as Rani that they couldnt have children together.......if he was right and yes he may have acted insensitively but even then like you yourself say he should have been firm and said we either have kids together or not at all......and this is the man who makes decisions for his kingdom instead of just agreeing to a marriage from a women so emotionally insecure who has flights of ideas all the time by his confession he cant agree to everything she says he should ahve said after the babloo thing that this has made me more determined to adopt as yes i could have a child with someone else but still i wont be happy as one kammi will be complete but then i wont have you by my side! thats what his decision should have been...........a man blackmailed all be it emotionally by his wife and that too so easily in my judgement not fit to be a king!

yes Rani is to blame for some of it i dont think she should always have her way but at that time she needed somone to say no and that no should have come from yudi and yudi alone......yes we can blame the family.....but who is rani married to......yudi if he not with her then why blame the parents......jab miyah biwi razi toh kyah kareh gah kazi!!!!

I am 100% blaming Rani Sapna she is in no way fit to be a queen. and yudi had a good judgment and was able to say no in rudra's time when she had made a mistakes.

Originally posted by: Nisha_07

And that's hypocricy at it's best. Yudi getting married is a crime. Rani arranging the marriage is not.

Oh wait, I forgot, Yudi married Rani, Rani didn't marry Yudi, right?

Nisha Rani is at 100% fault no one is denying that and yes rani has commited a crime but then when we can not even force our kids to do things they don't want to do.

Originally posted by: Nisha_07

And that's hypocricy at it's best. Yudi getting married is a crime. Rani arranging the marriage is not.

Oh wait, I forgot, Yudi married Rani, Rani didn't marry Yudi, right?

Girls the percentage of how much each of them is to blame getting to technical about things i think. I think the blame lies at both of their doors. Nishaji right why is it so easy for Rani to be so happy and let Yudi go and sleep with someone else..............does she love the parivaar more than her own husband????......equally her forcing him to do things and then people blaming rani for him having completed the action is equally wrong! he has a brain even a two year old can refuse to do things and they have no sense at all...............your trying to say that Yudi was forced into this becasue he wanted to make Rani happy........thats wrong as if he had a brain there where a million and one 'ifs' and 'buts' that he should have thought about post marriage and post child that would really make Ran unhappy for a moments happiness he shouldnt have risked a lifetime......even though Rani equally was doing the same! so in my eyes both of them are idiots! and if a percentage is needed then both of them contributed 50, 50 to this stupidity!