is this show will be the reason 4 marraige breakup

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Posted: 16 years ago
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I thinks this show will e the reason for more breakups in marraige life like it happened in americas "moment of truth" OR is this for TRPs?

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Posted: 16 years ago
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Well it's a risk they take. If one can't handle the truth then their marriage is based on NOTHING.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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yup i think!ppl shld b teling truth 2 their spouses at homes,b4 cuming 2 this show........😕
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Posted: 16 years ago
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What I can say is NOTHING more than nothing.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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First of all....let me tell you something.....people, who are married, are matured enough to handle these kind of situation.....if someone have deep dark secreats to tell to their mate, they should know that by polygram test.....they ask 50 questions and than they give u 20 days to think about before coming to the show.....if you had questions that you think that might gonna end your relation than speak to ur mate before going to this show....bcoz this show is not forcing anyone to come to the show or neither they are pulling ur hand to make u sit on the chair......people come to the show bcoz of their own will......they know the rules ...they know the questions.....they know the format.....so i think we should need to stop blame on show ....and ple ple ple stop comparing this show to MOT.....bcoz the questions on SKS are not that bad compare to MOT.........SKS are specially formated for indian culture....so think on positive side that its beginning of new version of INDIA....which teaches us to tell the truth in front of whole world..........

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Posted: 16 years ago
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Truth hurts whether in a relationship or now. many are hiding the truth in their relationship and living with it.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Marriage the very foundation of our culture......... where two people promise to stand by one another not for one life...but for seven lifetimes.....then why do people feel that the marriage bond is not strong enough to last through this show......SKS is not about being crude and rude by asking personal questions....it is about helping people come clean about their secrets....secrets which they have buried deep within.....yes it tests the strength of relationships...the strong relationship will stay together until the very end...the weak ones will break...but is tht soo bad......if a relationship is fragile enough to be broken by one truth then what is the reason to keep tht relation............plus the contestants are not forced to come on the show.....they come there willingly......further they know wht type of questions they are gonna be asked on the show......then they get time off in the middle.....then if they think they can handle it...they are called in to record the show...so if it is anyone's fault tht the relation broke its the contestants.....because the contestant lied in the first place.......plus the contestant are the ones who are risking their relations for money...so why blame the host or any one else when the relationships break.........personally, I would rather break the relations tht cant stand the test of truth.....THIS SHOW IS NOT RESPONSIBLE FOR BREAKING MARRIAGES...IT IS THE CONTESTANTS THEMSELVES....THEY ARE THE ONES THAT LIED.....AND NOW WHEN THE TRUTH COMES OUT THEY HAVE TO FACE THE CONSEQUENES......

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Posted: 16 years ago
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Look people go on and on about marriages expecially those in Indian culture. As many as marriages you get divorce. Look at this actor who took the hot seat. Man has been married 3 times. He is not even divorced his 3rd wife and has a GF. So come on. Yeah Yeah Saat Phere all you want. But old fashion thinking on indian marriages are just that OLD fashioned. Some follow yet some don't. So if this does break up marriages then the other or both of them never wanted to be together in the first place. TOO MANY forced obligated indian marriages these days all leading to divorce or killing of hubby and or wife. orrrrrrrrrr as seen lead to a woman on the side. The thinking of Saat Phere for 7 lifetimes is just old fashion. That thinking died off with my parents/grandparents. And even then if you put any elder couple on the hot seat. You can probably see the man has cheated in his vows yet the woman sticks by him. Nowadays it's not so with modern woman. They would leave you right away to heck with Saat Phere and 7 lifetimes.
hehehe now marriages the bride and groom think more on jewelry and doing a BIG wedding than anything else of what the pundit is saying to them. Marriages these days are most of the time a show piece especially for the rich and famous.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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When i read the title of this show, the movie that came to my mind was laage chunari mein daag where the younger one tells Babli- agar ek rishta, sach ke samne karne se toot jayege to phir uska toot jaane hi behther hai... or something like that. anyways couples come there to make money and the couple's usually come there together.

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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: kyunki_iloveu

Marriage the very foundation of our culture......... where two people promise to stand by one another not for one life...but for seven lifetimes.....then why do people feel that the marriage bond is not strong enough to last through this show......SKS is not about being crude and rude by asking personal questions....it is about helping people come clean about their secrets....secrets which they have buried deep within.....yes it tests the strength of relationships...the strong relationship will stay together until the very end...the weak ones will break...but is tht soo bad......if a relationship is fragile enough to be broken by one truth then what is the reason to keep tht relation............plus the contestants are not forced to come on the show.....they come there willingly......further they know wht type of questions they are gonna be asked on the show......then they get time off in the middle.....then if they think they can handle it...they are called in to record the show...so if it is anyone's fault tht the relation broke its the contestants.....because the contestant lied in the first place.......plus the contestant are the ones who are risking their relations for money...so why blame the host or any one else when the relationships break.........personally, I would rather break the relations tht cant stand the test of truth.....THIS SHOW IS NOT RESPONSIBLE FOR BREAKING MARRIAGES...IT IS THE CONTESTANTS THEMSELVES....THEY ARE THE ONES THAT LIED.....AND NOW WHEN THE TRUTH COMES OUT THEY HAVE TO FACE THE CONSEQUENES......

agree with u..marriage is a union of two hearts wholeheartedly, partners trust each other if you dont trust your partner or if your relationship is not strong enough then nomatter whether its truth or lie it wont last for long..why people think by speaking truth it will ruin one's life..if truth that bitters then better people stick to their lies & live the life as the way it comes..but a relationship bended only on lies will make one to live honestly throughout his/her life is what the major queston.
& this show is noway responsible for making/breaking any relationships..here makers are not going to everybody's doorsteps & asking them to reveal their truth, its out of people's choice..whether to come & say truth or not in SKS is purely an individual's choice and as a matter of fact they know very well about the format of the show, what type of questions will be asked & what will be the relative consequences?..so show is no way responsible for any right or wrong happenings in one's life, it's only the participant & his/her entire family knows beforehand abut the show so people would be well-prepared for the same..if you are ready to accept the truth then be ready to accept the consequences also..why fear of consequences?

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