absolutely!! I too can't seem to feel any ounce of sympathy for suguna.
They are showing her to be the height of selfishness. I am appalled at her total disregard for her family or shyam for that matter. She spouts all this dialogues of bringing disgrace to the family.
But, she no way means it. As her actions negate all her words. And all the sacrifices that shyam and her family are doing, putting her needs first, doesn't seem to make any impact or difference to her. All she is worried about is wallowing in her own self pity and her feelings completely devoid of how her actions are effecting others.
She should be ashamed of herself for the pain she has and is causing others and show it in actions.