Is it enough time?

I was just wondering, it the weeks spent on this show with the guys enough time for Rakhi to fall in love? I'm not talking about infatuation "I think you're cute, I think you're sweet" love. I'm talking about true deep love that a man and woman have for each other. I mean she wants to get married at the end of the show, so she'll have to be in love with the man, otherwise the marriage won't work well. Plus she's been through so much! She really does deserve to have the right life partner and settle with someone worthwhile! 😃

I'd like some discussion please! 😆 Or is it really that boring? 😆

lol no it's not boring infact a gud question;

Thanks for responding!!

Rakhi should not rush into a decision to satisfy the channel or whatever. She should consider carefully and make a wise decision😊 Easier said than done! Hope she does what's best for her and not what others want😊

Not sure it's enough time, but again as I have mentioned before, there are lots of bits and pieces which due to editing, we don't see, so we don't know how much time she is actually spending with them ...

I think that deep love will come with time. I don't think Rakhi or any of the contestants think that love is going to come in just a few weeks. But some kind of "love" or strong like does come. It's also known as a gut feeling.

But as Sakshi told Rakhi, "sirf dil se nahin, dimaag se bhi choose karna." So it's a choice based on compatibility and all these other things. In India generally, I think couples use "love" a little bit differently than they do here in the West. Sometimes people say "I love you" meaning "I really like you, would like to commit to you, and then fall in love with you" or something similar. In the West, people say "I love you" only when that deeper love has happened. If you think about it, this culture of love and commitment makes sense for India, because for a long time people had arranged marriages and they are primarily based on commitment and compatibility. So in that practice of choosing life partners, people value compatibility and commitment as choice. Not saying it's bettere here or there, but just pointing out the differences, and in each part of the world, there are different practices about how people do this stuff.

So I think Rakhi is going for a combination of arranged and love marriage. Arranged based on maximum compatibility for love, which will come later.

Hope that makes sense!

this whole swayamwar idea is bad

Rakhi should take her time..its abt her life most imoortyant its abt her marriage not onlt her even other guys whoeer gonna marry her