do they realise themselves @ bal vivah????

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Posted: 16 years ago
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luks like suguna ya anandi themselves have not realised that they r suffering bcoz they married early............
Suguna is all the time thinking @ pratap[i know its natural]
but the aim of the serial is to make ppl understand problems of such a marraige
Here the victims themselves don understand ...except ofcourse for pooli...........she kept saying no for 2nd marraige as she wanted to study!

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Posted: 16 years ago
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well anandi does feel sad sumtymes and she wishes that she had spent more time with her parents and she often remembers them. she is also grieved that she had to give up her education (at school) coz of her marriage. other than that she is still a child and not mature enough to go into these matters and moreover except for dadisa, all others in her sasuraal treat her like their own daughter and jagya is a good friend for her.
sugna is lost in pratap. pratap's death is the biggest sufferring she has. she does not blame her marriage in anyway. she is sure she wud have been happy at pratap's home. she had started studying again after becoming a widow but now she's pregnant. she is anyhow not interested in studying.
phooli too lost her husband but she was not madly in love with him. she is just a child. for her studies are main focus and her stand against her second marriage is admirable.
thats the diff between the three of them.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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thats the problem with the show...everyone seems to be quiet happy in the show. anandi is a cute lil efficient beendni. suguna toh is no longer a child bride. she's taken over as the usual 18 year old heroine in this show. other older child brides like sumitra, anandi's mom and other women are fine too. no one feels any ill effects of a child marriage
i guess only in gehna's case it was shown basant regretting his actions and tryiong to make amends but i wonder how long will it continue...
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: bb2_fan

luks like suguna ya anandi themselves have not realised that they r suffering bcoz they married early............

Suguna is all the time thinking @ pratap[i know its natural]
but the aim of the serial is to make ppl understand problems of such a marraige
Here the victims themselves don understand ...except ofcourse for pooli...........she kept saying no for 2nd marraige as she wanted to study!

I understand the point. If the serial shows every child bride happily fitting in, then what is point of the msg at the end saying child brides suffer? Anandi being treated as a daughter is an ideal picture. IN how many cases are the DILs treated as a daughter? I think the serial should also show a realistic view in a middle class family rather than in a rich household or extremely poor household alone.

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