nikhils father obnoxious in this day & age

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anita

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Posted: 16 years ago

I think Nikhils father is obnoxious 😡😡😡 in this day & age .....and is living in the past centuries ...

YYYYYYY cant people change with the time for GOOD 👏👏👏

ciao 😉😉😉

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MonMad

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Posted: 16 years ago

I totally agree. He is silly and does not want to change at all.

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mariyum

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Posted: 16 years ago

i know right he should change his thoughts

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khoobsoorat

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Posted: 16 years ago

Leave aside Nikhil's father what is nikhil himself doing? Instead of telling his father that it is you who has called me back so my wife & myself will live the way we want to, if you do not like it we are leaving

he keeps quiet when it's time to say something. On the other side Jhanvi should also stop poking her nose in other's affairs,it is because of her curiosity that the old man shows his anger.

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Rachna

@Chaccha

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Posted: 16 years ago

Everyone should change with time, for the better. Also, I don't understand why he snoops around, listening to Badi Bahu and Nayi Dulhan's talk. Isn't that a little characterless?

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rainabow

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Posted: 16 years ago

Though Nikhil has basically been reduced to being a useless wimp, I have to side with him this time. He was all ready to leave and get out of that house, and it is stupid Jhanvi who stopped him and went on a typical bhashan about respecting elders, family values, etc. She was the one who made him apologize to her beloved FIL.

If she insists on being a prisoner of this rathole of a house, then she should know better than to draw on the floor, run around laughing, and sneaking around. Of course her FIL is stupid to get so insensed over such stupid things, but she has chosen to live in the house, so she is choosing to abide by his rules and live as a second class citizen. If she wants to live a dignified life, she should just get out of there. Otherwise, don't be so mindblowingly stupid.

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Rachna

@Chaccha

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Posted: 16 years ago

Today, when Jhanvi was talking about playing "phattu" or whatever that hopscotch game is called in hindi, I seriously thought she was going to go outside and draw the game there. She's full of herself to not realize that her FIL is so so so traditional. He has warned her so many times and she still doesn't get it. I wouldn't blame him for yelling at her tomorrow, but I still think that FIL needs to update his thinking.

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missmhow

@missmhow

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Posted: 16 years ago

1.janvi's fil is irritating and clinically insane...

2.nikhil offered tht they live somewher else, when he saw her getting insulted, coz he knew he cant change anything so the only way out is to escape.....maybe he hasnt said anything after that as jhaanvi or anyone else ddnt tell him wht happens everyday in their house..so he is probably thinking that jhanvi is managing her life in that house pretty well as it was after all her choice to stay there.

3.talking about jhaanvi............,she chose to stay theer coz she wanted to give respect and love to her father in law and live like a good bahu ....but living like a gud bahu in no way means giving AWAY ones rights and taking senseless dictatorship!!!!!!! so she is fightting back.👏..i see nothing wrong with that....!!!!!!!!!.IFshe had chosen to take nonsense, then i wud have called her a spineless creature with no dignity and sense of right or wrong....

she tried to be a gud wife and bahu by choosing to stay in her sasural ,but she has certain responsibilities to herself ......bcoz of which she shud do wht she knwos is right and not just carry out her sasur's orders....so in both the times when she took a stand i think she was right...

she has a choice to go whenevr she wants ,but escaping fm a problem is not solving it./...!!!!!!she has chosen not to leave bhabi and her dotter to suffer in silence ,as she truly takes them as her dear ones with all her heart..

if she thought only for herself she cud go the very moment her husband made that offer....but when she has accepted bhabi and her dotter as her relatives she thinks her duty is not to leave them in the hands of fate ,but in trying to make things better for them like she wud have done for her own sisters.....

going in a happy family is great..but she chose to live in a not-so-happy- family ,and is trying to make things better for everyone involved ,,,EVEN when she has a clear choice of of running away for her own happiness.!!!!!!!!!!..she has accepted her husbands family as her own and is sincere with the decision ....so how can she now leave her family and go😕...instead she will try her level best to correct whts not gud for anyone..she is not stupid but she is brave enough to fight for wht she believes in and has strong ethics....

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missmhow

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Posted: 16 years ago

Originally posted by: rainabow

If she insists on being a prisoner of this rathole of a house, then she should know better than to draw on the floor, run around laughing, and sneaking around. Of course her FIL is stupid to get so insensed over such stupid things, but she has chosen to live in the house, so she is choosing to abide by his rules and live as a second class citizen. If she wants to live a dignified life, she should just get out of there. Otherwise, don't be so mindblowingly stupid.

if the sasur has "its my way or the highway'' kind of mentaliity then its this mentality which has to be corrected...fil thinks he can get away with it coz so far no one ever tried to change it...jhaanvi just wants to prove that she can stay in her sasural and still live a dignified life...her husband shudnt leave his nearest and dearest relatives just bcoz one person her sasur is mad...it will be another thing if she fails to correct it but she shudnt quit without trying ....coz now its the question of her loved ones happiness and well being...